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§ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, August 28, 1961 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Teenager Bored Dear Mary Haworth: I am a girl, 18, and have been going steady with George for over two years, We've reached a stage of sheer boredom or complete dis- gust. But we take each other so much for granted and are so interdependent that it's hard to break off. George is domineering. He has a tendency to tell me to shut up in front of others, though he usually sweetens up when we are alone. He insists I'm not his equal and thinks that things should be 60-40 between us. This is driving us ever farther apart Also, George has no mind of his own. He is easily influenced by his friends. He flatly pro- claims there is a difference be- tween boys and girls. He wants to do as he likes without my interference, but I can't do what I want. I've put up with this so far because I love him, but I am beginning to feel that he is taking advantage of me. Do you believe in destiny? Suppose we break up, then find out la'er that we were meant for each With Boy Friend Seeks Columnists Advice tively yes in my opinion. George is blocking your social growth, draining your self respect and becoming progressively more. of a heel in doing so. This prob- ably means that your influence on him is negative, too. If you do break off, I would hope that you never drift back together again. Experience has proved you are poison to each other.r MH. TROUBLE BUBBLES Dea Mary Haworth: At a shower for my son's fiancee I was embarassed to learn that all the women relatives on our side of the family had been asked, but didn't come as fhey all hold jobs. However, they did telephone their regrets. 1 always thought a shower for the bride-elect was just for her close friends and relatives and the man's mother. I was toid point-blank that I am wrong; that the man's people are in- cluded. As our relatives haven't yet met the girl, why ask them to a shower for her? Please settle this matter. The Does Basic Dress Have to Be Black? Experts Disagree By EDNA BLAKELY Canadian Press Staff Writer TORONTO (CP)--Does "the little black dress" rate all the attention it gets, or is it a drag on the fashion scene? _ Six Toronto fashion experts-- including two men--say the dress is a "must," and no woman should be without one. The opposing view is upheld by fashion consultant Joy Davies. _ "It's recommended because it's safe. What's it safe for?" she asked. Women's 1 for traveiling. "It looks smart no matetr where you land," she said. Her favorite is a sleeveless, lined wool dress which doesn't wrinkle if slept in on an over- night plane trip. "I've had the same dress made and remade," Miss Wil- cox added. Although the basic black dress was usually the what to wear, colors were also included in the wardrobe of a well-dressed woman. Department store fashion con- sultant Dora Matthews said "everyone should have a black dress which can be brightened | ions, particularly as they get older, are not enhanced by black, she said. If a dress is to be made basic, why not basic burgundy, heige, hunter's green or sapphire blue? "If you're overweight, you're overweight in a black dress with ies." A basic dress | needn't be black but she pre-| ferred dark clothes both sum- mer and winter because "they look tidier." GIVES SECURITY I Model Dorothy Fleming said| |t00," she 2dded. "In the even- {ing a woman should shine like a peacock." ! Fashion consultant Ruth) Boxer agreed the basic black dress is aot as important as it used to be but felt it was still an important item for many women, "especially the black cocktail dress that goes on for years and years." BEST FOR TRAVEL she couldn't imagine any] woman being without one. | "I don't know why women| | grab a black dress when they SALES LADY WANTED To Assist in Office Work, Typing Essentiol ! Phone 723-7921 For Interview answer when one didn't know |f. for two Canadian magazines,|can't make a decision as to|black dress because they know|the black cocktail particularly likes a black dress,what to wear. I think we have|they're properly obi any|of the most THN) Grout x un to be in the mood to wear colors|occasion," Miss Fleming ex-|woman owns. but we can wear black anytime. | plained. "It's also the most difficult Some women who are not sure| Eddie Creed, president of ato buy--irying to find the one what to wear feel secure in a'fashionable Toronto store, said|that is just right," he added. ¥% Beautify your home the modern, func: tional way; clean, durable ASPHALT DRIVEWAYS last a housetime. Inquire now. W.B. BENNETT PAVING LTD. other. Will destiny bring us to-| wedding is soon and there is Vivian Wilcox, fashion editor | Riss MRS. MILTON RUSSELL LEE JR. Varden Studio, Rochester, N.Y. Frances Marion Hibbard Wed To Milton R. Lee of Dexter, N.Y. Guests from Oshawa and dis-/of Roberts Wesleyan College, trict attended the Lee - Hibbard/North Chili, N.Y., from which wedding in Pearce Memorial|the bride graduated last year. Church, North Chili, New York,|The bridegroom will graduate on Saturday afternoon, when/from the same college next Frances Marion Hibbard be-|year. came the bride of Milton Rus-| The honeymoon is being sell Lee. spent in Vermont and New The bride is the daughter of Hampshire and in September Mr. and Mrs. Henry Steele Hib-/ the couple will take up resi- bard of Pickering and the bride- dence at 2230 Westside drive, groom is the son of Mrs. Milton Rochester, New York. Russell Lee of Dexter, New York, and the late Mr. Lee. ae Reverend Ronald C. Me- allum of Port Credit, Ontario, % y performed the ceremony. Fol-| To Rival Mink lowing a green and white color) i theme, the wedding combined| In Paris fur is everywhere-- Canadian and American cus- on the outside, inside in linings, toms, complimenting the na-jon bands, cuffs, and hems, in tionalities of the bride and purses and bootees and on most bridegroom. of the hats. One high fashion The bride was given in mar-|house's approach to mink is to riage by her father. Her prin-|dye and shear it to produce a cess gown of white silk taffeta new, texture In Canada, fur fash- was styled with a bateau neck-|ions this seaSon are exploring a line, three-quarter sleeves and a/new feeling for color and a new chapel train. Heirloom lace in sense of lightness and fluidity in an ivy pattern, bordered the styling compatible with a fur neck, sleeves and sides of the which is just coming into the train and formed a front panel|/Canadian market. This fur is from neck to hem. A coronet of nutria now being ranch raised seed pearls secured her bouf-here in mutation colors of pure fant veil and she carried a bou-|white, off-white, grey, gold and quet of white roses and ivy, black. Its characteristics of shaped into two rings. |lightness, (a full-length coat Miss Elizabeth C. Dennis of weighs less than 5 1bs.), supple- Beach Lake, Pennsylvania, was|ness because the skin from the maid of honor and the other at-(tront of the animal only is used tendants were Mrs. Thomas W.|an4 resistance to water and mat- Hamilton of Sarnia, and Mrs. J.|tino make its appearance excep- Barry Davies, Seeley's Bay, On|: nono timely. Wheth xeep tario. They were gowned alike y ly. Whether nutria's : {popularity will rival that of in emerald green brocade Laine ink va go sheath style with matching or- {pine on mn ty a question to ganza overskirts. They carried] about and one which Ca- ivory - tipped chrysanthemums, "aah nutria breeders believe is the maid of honor's centered ~~ " with four yellow-eyed daisies. Nutria fur has been widely Mr. Mendel F. Daningburg of{used in Europe for many years Watertown was the best man|Where the lightness and supple- and ushering were Mr. Peter A. [ness of the pelts is especially Lee of Dexter, N.Y. and Mr. prized for use in linings and Donald O. Dingman of Water- trimmings on high priced cloth town. garments. This season is no ex- A reception was held in Car-|ception with Pierre Balmain, penter Hall, women's residence/Gres and many - other French New Fur Appears gether again? are meant to be together? should we let things stay as the are? FS. RESULTS FAMILIARITY Dear F.S.: Your story corrob- orates the adage that "familiar- ity breeds contempt." It ap- pears that you and George have lost respect for one another, possibly as a result of having cast aside considerate manners and good moral standards in your steady dating association. George's boast that there is a difference between boys and girls, whercby males are su- perior and entitled to privileges denied to girls, is probably his garbled way of saying that he subscribes to the double stand- ard of sex morality. This stand- ard, as you may know, con siders it socially permissible for men to be promiscuous, but wrong for girls to misbehave. It is an evi: doctrine, as dam- |aging to the man it condones as |it is bad for the girl it defames. Do I believe in destiny, in pre- | destined ends? No. I agree, | rather, with Shakespeare's char- |acter who said: '"'~the fault, |dear Brutus, is not in our stars, | hard feeling ugainst us already Do you think we should break|N.S. up and go out with other people to find out whether we really ri | INO CASE | Dear N.S.: It is rude of yon y to find favlt with the hostess' [guest list. Also, if the women- folk of your family couldn' get to the party, they might have sent appropriate shower gifts, with cards enclosed, voicing good wishes to the bride. Just to telephone regrets was scant courtesy. Except for the bride's im- mediate family, anyone who knows her well and has her con- sent or her mother's may give a shower for her. The guest list usually is drawn from cir- cles connected, by kinship or friendship, with the hostess, the honored guest, her parents and the bridegroom's parents. Bury the hatchet, all of you. M.H. SYRUP FOR QUEEN Governor Keyser of Vermont has sent two gallons of maple syrup to the Queen as a token of appreciation of the Queen's gift of two swans to Swanton, Vermont. Mrs. Keyser included in the gift her recipe for maple butter- nut cake. but in ourselves, that we are | underlings--."" I think our hab-| its of thought and behavior fate-| fully shape our lives for good or| ill. | Should you break with George| and go out with others? Posi-| designers showing fur-lined coats and jackets in which nutria skins are featured. In New York, George Carmel creates rever- sible coats in nutria which when reversed show the nutria trim. Canadian designer, Irene of Montreal, enjoys working with nutria skins and chose two off- white mutation skins from Cana- dian Nutria Limited Associate Ranches to create a deep cloche for her fall collection. Her design embodies an aura of the Garbo era through the sheen of pearls and its double-furred brim edged in grosgrain ribbon. 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