obedience is essential to forming good character. The good soldier, as well as the good leader, bows to higher authority in good spirit and toes the mark reliably. It is a truism that one isn't qualified to give orders until he has proved his MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Praises Her Parents For Their Strict Upbringing ee FW Dear Mary Haworth: 1 am a worldliness doesn't necessarily 11 or happy wife and other, - mar-lead to happiness. M.H. YHothe? Jou get a 0 ' judge ried 10 years, with four lovely] by your own behavior, not {OBJECTS TO CURFEW you by y s Share. T ive m0 problems; cl ry sewer: 1 wil be by, he orders your ater gives the recent letter from the girl,|13 in November. When I go to What does bi a Ey a 3 14, who worries about her par-|friends' parties on Friday or you op Ty 2 A or athority ents' strictness |Saturday evenings, my father whiner rela i301 2 ie it : | has me come home by 10 o'clock |And just mow you are ng This girl has written that she|,¢ "ine jatest. Other guests get whiner, which isn't good. M.H. isn't allowed to go swimming, |; a at 11 or 11:30 amd some| Mary Haworth counsels ancing or do the ole Siojore even younger than L {ong ar STM date her when she is permitted These are neighborhood par-iy, oro of this newspaper. as new hairdos, practical, too. Beach Accessories Take On New Look entirely of rows of finely pleated By ELEANOR ROSS like something one might wear circled by a white nylon ghition|briméis wr 4 yiatium beauty --] e your ce of colors. to a cocktail party. scarf. You can. be a blonde, THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, August 23, 1961 § One example is a cap made black nylon, topped with a flat Beach accessories are nicer|velvet bow. Now doesn't that than ever, not only in color, de-| approximate one of those dressy sign and style, oy because they afternoon little hatlet jobs? It] have shed much of their zany|sure does, but it's a swim cap, | look. Fun stuff is nice when it|the sort of beach accessory it's is pretty, as it is this year, The|so hard to resist, even if one new swim caps are as much fun|doesn't really need it. and they're For the popular knit swim- suits, there are caps made of One current collection of swim |fringed chenille. But the conver- caps features synthetic fabrics|sation piece of them all that on a light rubber base. Some|We've come upon so far in our are made of rows of tiny ruf-|beach visits, is the chignon cap. | fles, some are completely cov- This is a cap made of sculp- ered with feathery flowers, and tured rubber which looks just others look for all the worldilike a hairdo. The chignon is en- to start dating next year, and ties so it takes me only five | that she'll never find a husband) minutes to get home. But, when SAFE IN CANS and her life will be wasted. | 55k father's permission to get| yo. (are to store leftover can- Your advice was wonderful, as; says 10 o'clock is Bl Tre he Pon TIL, Be aye ey ag. [1ed fruit, vegetables and meat spective and told her to ask God| py you think he is being fair? (I? the original can. Cover the » Sead ber in > tne: = AY. {can, and then refrigerate the ideal husband and to guide her) Y.. In the spiritual|leftovers as soon as possible, growth so that she 'will be Wn LR to Ruthor.| advise food specialists at Mac- wonderful wife. ity is the channel whereby God's|donald Institute in Guelph. Try STARTED DATING AT 18 grace reaches the individual. ito use them up quickly -- next My teen life was much like Similarly, in family life, filialiday is best. hers, except for the fact that my parents were far more strict. My dating age was set] ' at 18. Then I was allowed one| Onl at JURY & LOVELL S date a week and had to be y home by 11 p.m. i I had several dates with one| boy, but wasn't giddy enough for| him, I guess, and we didn't en-| joy ourselves much. ! After this venture into the] great social whirl that I thought | I'd been missing, I turned with relief to group activities at church, where I had begun to feel secure among friends i Picnics, wiener roasts, hikes, occasional skating and bowling parties, summer camp meet- ings and conventions were on the agenda. There are always eligible per sons in these groups and the best part is the fellowship with boys and girls brought up by fine parents who have the same standards and beliefs that your family has. At 19, I met my husband at a prayer service, though we had | noticed each other before on the| street, in church, etc. I was al- lowed to date him once a week for the next two years; then I was allowed three dates a week the third year, with a midnight | curfew. HUSBAND REJOICES | We married when I was 22. A week before the wedding mother rapped on the floor from | upstairs at midnight to remind | Sharp 4" £3.5 Trionar Lens Selectron Semimatic Changer Smart Self-Contained Case 500 Watt Lamp High Velocity Fan Helical Focussing Ralph it was time to leave and I could have wept at the hu-| miliation. | But, in the years since, I've| thanked my parents time and , again for guiding me so care- | fully through the most con-| fusing and, indeed, shortest pe-| riod of my life, so that I might Jo the happiest of women dur- g the longest, most important Phase, through which I am liv- g now. Sleek, Low Silhouette Styling Slide Pre-viewer Preview Projection Screen in Cover 89.95 9-95 At All JURY & LOVELL'S Stores OUR PRICE the utmost respect and love be- cause of the person I was when he met me. Our children see this and react the same way, which makes it so easy for me to be a good wife and mother. I want S.R. to know that your| advice can lead to a wonderful life, if she will but follow it. D.L. Dear D.L.: Thank you for this kind testimonial to the potential worth of my comment to the anxious 14-year-old. She has a great deal going in| her favor, of course, if she sticks to her family's design for living and grasps the fact that 1 My husband feels I ox "Everything 8 KING ST.E 530 SIMCOE ST. S RA.3-2245 OSHAWA RA 5-3546 ROSSLYN PLAZA - RAB-4668 ALSO STORES IN BOWMANVILLE AND WHITBY PLAZA TWO MODERN STORES IN OSHAWA OPEN FRIDAY NIGHT UNTIL 9 P.M. MISS EVE RAMSAY Dominion Corset Fashion Co- ordinator and Sarong Consultant will be in Walker's Foundation Department, Thursday, Friday and Saturday, August 24th, 25th, 26th, Visit, and discuss your garment problems with her. =» SArENG] always walks with Yyou...never rides up When you walk, stretch or bend, this girdle moves with you. Its criss-cross features see to that! Power net high waist girdle, satin lastex back panel, batiste front. Side zipper. Sizes 23 to 42 $10.00 *REG. T.M. HOURS: MON, - SAT. 130 - 6 FRI. 9:30-9 Walker's of OSHAWA FOR THAT WONDERFUL FEELING OF FREEDOM, CHOOSE with the famous criss-cross front, the girdle that walks with you but won't ride up. In slimmer power net with ; flattening front panel of batiste jacquard Sizes 24-34. just §5 Trade Mork Reg'd, Choose your Sarong of PHONE 728-4626 RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANADIANS A Back To School Necessity RUNNING SHOES Black and white lace to toe boot with white trim, toe .guard and ankle patch, ven- tilating eyelets and arch cushion insole, Little Gents' Sizes 1.29 1.49 1.69 1.89 SHOPPING CENTRE 226 STEVENSON'S RD. §. PHONE 723.2209 Youths' Sizes Boys' Sizes Mens' Sizes DOWNTOWN 21 SIMCOE ST. §. 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DRAWN BOARDS, each . .. ..-..oxcas 88¢ IRONING PAD & COVER, each ...... 88¢c TOMORROW - FRID ALL NEW FALL SPORTSWEAR FOR BACK-TO-SCHOOL, BUSINESS OR TOWN WEAR AS ALWAYS -- WE HAVE THE LARGEST SELECTION IN OSHAWA TO CHOOSE FROM - LADIES' SPORTSWEAR Lm. OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE PRE-SEASON SALE AY - SATURDAY ONLY! -- 10% OFF! A DEPOSIT WILL HOLD STILL LOTS OF SUMMER ITEMS LEFT - AT REAL GIVE-AWAY PRICES i = SY E FO LT