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| assign custoay other with final THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, July 6, 1961 § MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL brig 4 Ro og Aged y Be CHILD GUIDANCE <= [to one bondi with the ny. NY ahd 1 that the other parent may see/ When I wrote about the same a % CKEN tossed. For let Jot hat man the child at rather regular inter-/in this column several years explain much, if at all. An ex BARBECUED CHI Reader Offers Another toed. "| Heartaches Or Custody pu Eko mores wrote to ahs: J CASO gh sometimes) Qakes 4 ering) "A doubleminded man is un- Thus the stage is often set for PARENTS DIORCED But no amount of explanation] 13 SUP catchup .n . stable in all his ways." . . a lot of heartaches for the child.| "My parents were divorced io But ped old IEE oy under-| % cup finely chopped pimiento- Some S iritual Advice It strikes me that E.S's Embitter Divorce Cases The divorced parent visiting|when my brother and I were. in|stand can easily justify the par- stuffed olives P greatest obstacle to spiritual or being visited by hig Shild in- gut sary teens, Your plan would ent in the child's eyes if this|1 tablespoon salad ofl 4 x oa progress is her admitted and LEVELA MYERS kindes him when clines to or his on have kept us from Seeing our|parent marries right a or/l tablespoon prepared Dear Mary Haworth: I was)sians 2:8, 9 we youd Tor by | - indulged doubleminded- BE in the 4XD 3 father Sh] 5 ie A ou of hate'and to lessen his affection for|father, whom we esteemed." pan been getting git way even rh Drepa gery crested |B ihe letlerigeace are Ye = TOUEN ness. That's why I encouraged|o: mother is kindest to the child|to him about the other parent. the other parent. Then the child) The age of the child should of before the divorce, to remarry.| 14 teaspoon pepper irom ES. concerning her un-Hfaith ana thst not +S d, not her to exert her will in unifying| hen he or she cuts off com-|Otherwise either parent has a may be questioned and cross-\course make a difference. Q. When my son was younger 4 Dash Tabasco satisfactory spiritual condition|selves. It is the gift o ed oid/and resolutely committing her| py iooico nh" with this child left|hard time to prove he or she is|duestioned about the visit by the| To some children old enoughhe jiked to walk often with me p hick and your answer. I am wonder-lof works, lest any man ShOWld!, she scattered forces. M.H.|in the custody of the other par-|not wholly selfish and self-cen-|other parent. He may 'have fo|to understand, the cause of the anywhere. Now that he is seven 2% pound frying chicken, ; Ing if you will be kind enough|boast. : {in the custocy 0 d bitter quartered i i i is for, Dear Mary Haworth: I am lant especially if the child is{tered. hear words of hate and bitter- divorce may be obvious. Butihe doesn't care to do so. to pass on this comment of mine| All that is hocotsaty rd that European woman, living in| under 12 or 15 One of the greatest tragedies ess by each parent about theimany other children, especially] A. He is growing up. He Combine catchup, olives, oil, if you feel it might be help-jour friend to tell the Lord that|yp,ericy the last five years, and "Aliso, the parent keeping the|of divorce is the child. whose|0her; not to mention all the|younger ones, may never under- doesn't want the other kids to|mustard. pepper and tabasco; ful. ; she accepts e = pI |T have come to the lusion | : heartstrings are constantly questions and ugly words fromstand. think he needs such mothering|mix well. Brush chicken with Our friend doesn't want to go|the power of the Holy Spirit,[y i" "yore an American! 2 FF.|tugged at 2 tora. 'b any relatives on either or both sides.| Some mothers left with the|all the time. catchup mixture. Broil 45 to hell but feels no urge to com-|will do the rest. |woman I would be heartily sick reconcile such opposites: 18 ni nd mu 4.| Barring a few exceptions, the|custody of the child write me to inches from source of heat, or mit her life to Christ. "All I) If she feels unable to believe, of he endless criticism and Dear F.F.. See Chapter '8, UPPPe, BU HY EO 0 Ct putjcourt would do well, I believe, know how to explain the di- CANNED SALMON cook on outdoor grill about 40 have is an overwhelming sense/may I remind her of the re-\,o, aints constantly thrown at|titled The Minimum Req gre also after Hs ET Uli when granting a divorce, not to|vorce. Of course I could not Bone and skin found in canned minutes, or until tender. Brush of guilt," she says. Well, that is|quest recorded in Mark 9:23, 24.| pe ments For a Good Wife," in Dr. ' * decree that the child may be|know from a letter how to an-|salmon are rich in minerals and|with catchup mixture and turn 3 food beginning. for $i Beare Jesus said ly hm x Lm The American woman ss|Bdmung Bergloy S ook Divorce B Summon Practice of he tasted between ihe divorced par-{swer this, but I do usually a4 a good dietary source of cal-|frequently during cooking : cans ieve, a . i . C anting a divorce 0'ents, but assi vi i i sinned and come short of the|gible to him that believeth." And Blamed Sop Svery Samed thing |" Dr. Bergler, European - born! gr g gned to one or the vise the parent against trying tolcium and phosphorus. glory of God" (Romans 3:23).|straightway the father of the| at Mags ror Ey family life, (and_educated, a psy lyst There is a penalty for sin:|child cried out and said with)" Co" oo 1000" wi {ulin Vienna from 1927 until he "The wages of sin is death"|tears, 'Lord, I believe; help ne ne et ir nn tell. came to America in the 1040s, (Romans 6:23). However, God|thou mine unbelief.' " I suggest|. w Pape Tow to be a better|has written: "There must be, in has provided a remedy, in thea careful reading of John 3, as| "8 TCR EC SoC ET oe every good wife, an inner ac- death of His Son on the cross|well as the whole book of John. |e ous influence in family|ceptance of the following fact: and His resurrection. "Who His|S.Y. Harmon ions Y | Her husband is inwardly a little own sell bare our sins in His| Dear 5.y.: Our friend might" °' boy who must not be taken too own body on the tree, that we, |, 05" 1oaq in the Epistle of OPPOSITES QUERIED seriously, though seriously ad- being dead to sin, should live|y,,.c 1.58: "If any of you| If man is such a splendid mired." . unto righteousness, by whose|l "oicdom fet him ask of | creature, why must he be pam-| Maybe Americans aren't stripes ye were healed." (1/Goq, that giveth to all men lib-|pered and shielded from all an-|really sold on this Old World Peter 2:24). erally and upbraideth not, and noyances? Is it enough that he theory, which makes it a con- SALVATION GIFT it shall be given him. exists? Apparently he is to be troversial topic, always good for' Salvation is a gift from God| "But let him ask in faith, no-|treated like a baby but looked | another go-round in the public which we cannot earn. In Ephe-/thing wavering. For he that'up to like God. 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