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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, April 27, 1967 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL They 3 |liberal arts and music. In con- Has Mother Right To Interfere In Daughter's Choice Of Mate? Dear Mary Haworth: My, daughter is engaged to a very fine young man whom she loves very much. Both attend the same university, living on cam- pus. I am very disturbed by the fact that he refuses to attend|him parties with her or learn to dance. She is a lively girl and 1 am worried that her happiness would be short-lived after mar- riage without some social re- spite from the struggle of mak- ing a living and rearing chil- dren. are both interested in versation, she flits from one sub- # | frequently over trifles. MR. AND MES. J. H. (BERT) WEIR Celebrating 35th Anniversary Oshawa Pair Feted By Friends Mr. and Mrs. J. H. Weir, Law, years. The couple are members ject to another while Sam be- labors one topic. They quarrel I am enclosing for your peru- sal a copy of a letter I wrote to him, following a discussion we had. Yet when I invited him to join our family for a religious celebration, he preferred to stay home alone, even though parents were out of town for the holiday. When we don't have other company, he doesn't hesitate to come to dinner. Do you see any basis for a good marriage here? Can you advise where I, or my daughter, his| billing. Dear F.R.: Your letter to Sam is transparently manager- ial. He probably feels a strong distaste for that aspect of your interest in him. In a would - be helpful, but clumsy, way you are exhorting to conform to your ideas of what will make your daughter, happy in marriage. In your Sam is marrying While pointing out his short- comings, you 'butter him up" in sparkle, he will be a soclal| clinker all his life. In signing off, you allude ad- miringly to Sara's greater gift than your own) and say: "She'll of expressing herself (greater| ments of a satisfactory help- mate may not be Sara's. She is your daughter, yes, but an en- prs pop GG THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA tirely different berson, even so and maybe with a sneaking sympathy for ber dad and an un ious determination to be a better mother b of In short, you are "selling" much too aggressively, and thus may be sowing seeds of defeat for yourself and Sara in respect to him. The average man is apt to develop obstinate sales resis- tance even to what he wants if long subjected to that type of pressure. If Sam is a fine young fellow, and if Sara hopes to marry him, and if they are in love and en- gaged, my advice to you is to stay out of their interchange. Sam won't be marrying you marry a less malleable male; onc who won't be pushed around as you push dad. Is there a foundation for good marriage here? Marriage is as good as the character of the principals, since this is the sub- stance of which marriage is FOR TOMORROW Refrain from taking any ac- tion that might disturb house- hold conditions, Use your lei- sure hours to work on hobbies of a constructive nature. Spend cash only when absolutely ne- pasar and keep within budget lyour horoscope indicates that a LP PTY A Np AA FOR THE BIRTHDAY prove stepping stones to find If tomorrow is your birthday,|gain before year's end. Personal relationships will be dispiay of initiative and enter- En prive during the coming year|Nghlighted in mid-year; also in cudld yield excellent results|December, so it would be well where your finances are con-ito capitalize every possible EE ity "" hy chance taking. Good: mile PTvOrtunity 10 make new coms ment will be allimportant. [t2cts. This you can do through travel and social activities-- In job matters, you may have to take on some both of which will be governed additional sponsibilities in June or August{by generous influences -- espe- but, well-handled, they couldicially during July and August made. If they are persons of good principle, with kindred social and religious backgrounds and a repertory of shared cultural interests, that ought to do it. The dancing, party-going man isn't always the most stable in the long run. FUR COLD STORAGE ON THE PREMISES the same breath, saying how much the family likes him, how happy you are to include him in the fold, etc., which no doubt give him an uneasy feeling of being already roped and branded; as if the courtship were out of his hands and as if he were the cornered quarry and not the pursuer. Further along, you draw com- parisons between Sam and your daughter, giving her the star You say: "She is your oppo-| site in temperament, which will make your marriage very in- teresting and alive." in any case, and your require- A FINER BLENI YOULL BE PRO UD TO SERVE! } ) of Your Furs for ATTENTION ALL FUR OWNERS A Messace From MORRISON FUR CO... WHY TAKE CHANCES THIS SPRING? IF YOU HAD $1000.00, WOULD YOU LEAVE IT IN YOUR CLOTHES CLOSET? OF COURSE NOT. Bring it to the bank. Likewise, put r furs in cold storoge, ot MORRISON'S. We of toes Dn iate Pith Un. aug Deli hy Fur 3 Remodelling, Repair and Cleaning Storage ! "NO NOTICE REQUIRED, WHEN COAT IS DESIRED" MORRISON FUR CO. DIAL RA 5-6312 , Free Estimate for Service, . Our price? nr Sampiete, Tur Swice 2 KING STREET WEST, OSHAWA If he has any imagination at FUR COLD STORAGE ON THE.PREMISES pe, all, he must construe this to mean that, back of your blar- ney, you regard him as deadly dull, and also as a hint that, street, were honored recently atjof St. George's Memorial a surprise family supper on the(Church. Inigia seek proper counselling? without the help of your Sara's occasion of their thirty-fifth wedding anniversary. The supper was arranged by the couple's only child, Miss Verda Jane Weir, and was held at the Central Hotel. There were 22 members of the family t and all-from various points outside of Oshawa. Mrs. Weir was presented with an orchid corsage by Mr. Del- mer Neimann and Mr. Weir re- ceived a white carnation bouton- niere. The group left later for the MOFFAT Balmoral Hotel, Bowmanville, where approximately 60 friends and business associates had gathered. The honored pair were presented with many gifts including stainless steel cutlery, a matching coffee and step- table, and several gifts of CANADA'S NO. 1 RANGE money. Open house was held on Sun- day afternoon. The house was gaily decorated with 35 coral roses and a large arrangement of chrysanthemums and carna- tions. Both groups of flowers were gifts to the couple. Miss Helen Weir, sister of Mr. Weir, made both wedding cakes used at the Central Hotel and the Balmoral Hotel. Each was decorated with a small vase of flowers. The vases were owned by Mr. Weir's parents. Congratulatory mess ges were received from South Por- cupine, Ottawa, London, Wind- sor, Toronto, Barrie, Kingston, Cleveland, the West Ohio and Te from out of twon were Mr. and Mrs. H. Sieferd, Craig, Randy and Dennis of Livonia, Michigan; Mr. and Mrs. E. Cox, Detroit, Michi- as Je. and Mrs. A. Paynter, Mr. lene and Phyliss, Mr. and Mrs J. Molloy, Miss Helen Weir, Ut- terson, Ontario; Mrs. T. 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