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§ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tisidey, April 18, 1961 7a (MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL | Dear Mary Haworth: Your discussion of the American ver- sus the European woman is very interesting. May I, a Euro- pean woman, add my comment? I have met a fair cross-sec- tion of American women during my 15 years in this country. Some I have liked very much; some not at all. I find the "friendly Ameri- can" is a bit of a myth. The proper word would be *"for- ward." Here in America women are friends while they can use one' another as social supports. Then they move on to new sup- ports. We Europeans are slow to call someone friend until we discover common ground for true friendship. I find the American woman very much concerned with her- self in every way. Not that she cannot sacrifice herself. On the contrary, she will go to fantas- tic lengths to achieve material success and social status. But mostly for her own and her fam- ¢ |ily's gain. MARRIED IN HAMILTON The Reverend Ross Murray Alloway and his bride, the former Miss Ruth Dorcas Bennett, are pictured follow- ing their marriage recently at St. George's Anglican Church, Hamilton. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Walter Basil Bennett of Dunn- ville, Ontario, and the bride- KEEP IN TRIM Underweight? Put Imagination And Grade A Nutrition To Work meal booster calories. The gain-|fashions in dress, cosmetics and ing trick is to take pick-ups at the times when they w terfere with mealtime appetite. displaced. If weight gaining is an uphill struggle and you remain pain- fully thin, set your imagination| soaring like a kite in the breeze. Step on the scales and picture] the pointer at the perfect pound |Ideally the best time for a pick: groom is the son of Mrs. A. R. Alloway of Oshawa and the late Mr. Alloway. The Rever- end and Mrs. Alloway will re- side in Oshawa until May 5 when they will leave for the mission field in Kenya, East Africa -- Photo by Holland Studio, Ancaster EUROPEAN SOFTER Their is something cold- blooded in that attitude and per- haps American men are aware of this when they choose to marry a woman who has values European Woman Knocks Her American Sisters should a man like a woman who ences now, stars stress caution as of this week, you enter a] Where travels concerned,|you should find in business dealings--especially|cycle which should be excellent|your best periods are late July|of the THE STARS SAY if signing papers or making im- from practical le. . By ESTRE a gning pap! g p lly every angle. land of August, and your|if you are portant deci Some misl Aspects stimulate job and finan-| chart ows a pleasing prospect|ulation and acts just like him? To me, it is very distastefu] that a young girl should tele- phone a boy for the purpose of pursuit or boss him around in any way. Perhaps some Euro- pean women are too servile, but in the main I prefer a woman who minds her place. "For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is head of the church . . . There- fore as the church is subject to Christ, so let wives to be their own husbands in everything." (Ephesians 5: 23-24). T.S. Dear T.S. You are rjght on some points, wrong rly Right, I think, in suggesting that status - seeking American women tend to be more forward than intrinsically friendly in car- rying acquaintance with other women- for expedient reasons. And right again in discerning that the average American woman's capacity for sacrifice is commensurate, usually, with her expectation of reward, sooner or later. However, I don't agree thab the contemporary American woman is more mercenary than those of other lands. It just hap-| pens that she has reaped a big-| from another country in her heart. I believe that women from Europe and other parts of the world can learn from American woman, but that the latter ninity by acquiring some of our ways. The European woman still re- |tains a softness and charm to- {wards men which hasn't been {taught to American girls, due partly to puritanical influences |and partly to too much concern with material things. he outer appearance of the American girl has softened con- |siderably in the last few years with her adoption of European hair styles. The harsh Holly- wood look (every curl in place, Women should emphasize A former underweight shares|up is two hours after one meal their difference in soul to be this potent secret with you "I had been underweight for 15 years, 56", large bones. I |hours before the next meal 'be built around the protective didn't like my angular looks, for Limit the booster calories to|go0qd plan. I weighed a bony 120. I set my easily and quickly-digested foods An inexpensive way to boost would gain considerably in femi-| ger harvest on effort, to date. Thus, in the middle and upper brackets, at least, she hasn't] had to learn to "do without" | {and make a virtue of the neces-| sity, as many of her critics in| |other lands are compelled to. | As for your notion that Euro-| |pean women surpass Americans | {on the score of feminine charm| (for men, the record doesn't bear| |it out. After all, Edward VII of |England, one of the most courted princes of all time, forfeited his |throne for love of the American | women he married. And Prince| | Rainier of Monaco, a romantic {legend, crossed the Atlantic i | mid-winter, with his chaplain, fo d {woo Grace Kelly in the gr |manner. | I am sure that many more American girls could marry European men. than do. In the ill not in-| every dress skin-tight) has been main, they tend to prefer the camaraderie of 20th century American marriage to the Euro- pean (or feudal) pattern of and, more importantly, three truly attractive to men. Why|yifely subjugation to the man's |ego. It is this subjugation angle| {that accounts, very likely, for {the European woman's studied| |artistry in "'charming'" men. It| goal--a fine figure of a woman fuck as a milk shake. If you|mealtime calories is to eat more|is her art of self defense and at 140 pounds. nave a blender, use it. If not,|go0d bread and spread. Don't/redress in relation to the over- "Every time I stepped on the/consider investing in one and settle for spongy bread, buy the|bearin Se scale I looked first at that 140|adventure with beverages, forti- pest on the market. 3 ing male. pound mark and promised my- self I was going to reach it. I did not even look closely at the | fi ed with nutritive powders such as malted milk powder,| meals at regular hours 2 $ alti x y Meritene, Ovaltine, etc. In the qon't skip meals. Get a health- nizing women's dress in this It is important to eat your Finally, about styles; I think Italy has made the {FOR TOMORROW |are governed by splendid influ-|your horoscope indicates that, ing situations are likely. cial matters; also creative ef-jof job. advancement or some kind -- 4 "HE BIRTHDAY forts. July and August will be|other recognition of your effortsiand December--you If tomorrow is your birthday, |fine for romance and marriage; [in October. nitely wind up this year "in also October. ' Where finances are concerned, black". While personal relationships Makes you want to take the long way home Behind the wheel of a Mercury, you command witha quieter ride. And Mercury's looks deserve every touch. 300 horses under the hood get you away with admiring glance. You're surrounded with style every easy, spontaneous power. Yes, Mercury responds like no inch of the way--from wide-spaced dual headlights to other. The road slips by as you relax in comfort, With glamourous rear deck. Comforting to know, too, that full-range Merc-O-Matic doing all the work, driving's as Mercury's Safety Frame wraps you in the strength of it should be--all pleasure. Exclusive Cushion-Link steel. You're home safe . . . secure . . . in Mercury "61, 1961 ERCURY THE BETTER CAR Suspension absorbs road shocks at all four wheels the better car. Warranted for 12,000 miles --allows them to ride up and back for a smoother or one full year . , . whichever comes first, AT YOUR MERCURY-METEOR-COMET DEALER bulit in Canads. of mentioned are ome modes, Mercury Monterey 4-Door Sedan--one of Ford of Canada's fine cars greatest breakthrough in femi- number where the pointer evening you could blend a dip jer respect for good nutrition|century and American women stopped . . . instead I visualized of ice cream into your milkiand good food habits. Try put-/exposed to the influence go for hake. ting food first for the next thirty | it gladly. As for Hollywood's pa- reaching 140 Ss t was really amusing how| These are bonus calories. To days. You'll be surprised at your|per doll ideas of chic, they've taste in food changed! I in-|insure the full share of nutrients heightened well-being. ed the food portions, think-|essential to proper assimilation Tomorrow: Relaxing Saves at every little bit helps.|of food, your three meals must Energy. | ade myself milk shakes . . ./ d found 'jt fun. Seemingly without effort I changed my eat- ing pattern. "I suppose it was really auto-| suggestion I was using, but any| r how it worked. One find day, the| pointer on the scales reached 140 pounds." WIDEN CHOICES Thin girls, are you game to accept that challenge? Surpris- ing how an inspired idea can give you a lift and new hope. It's like walking down a new road. To spark your appetite, change your menu; widen your choices. Too much sameness dulls the appetite and deadens the imaginat Take advantage of between- Brooks © Needlecraft Dept, tario. Print plai DRESS, PATTE JUST OUT! Our 1961 craft Book. 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