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(are {irespassing should angrily| d without per fon of the take responsibility for having the | order you to leave his property, owner. The authors seem fo sup- proper change on hand for each| would "your children hear youlpose there is no moral issue in- child on a regular day .of the apologize to him? Better still, volved. week--say, stories are, of course, re- {would they hear you ask permis i THE STARS SAY 1 feel that the question of adop- | rather an incidental aspect of | family living, to be harmoniously wesdoy, September 27, 1960 8 YAR OSHAWA YIMES, Tomi, : | tect tat te question of adr, CHILD GUIDANCE resolved in time, if Tom's tem-} | worrisome problem to decide, but | MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Bv Example Children Le Y Xamp e en arn ision of the owner of any private jected. . . . | perament and attitude were com-| . in |property to willy actos it? oli O jonall fortable and kindly, T Bec Good C metimes, of exempll- have entreated rents not to Ponders Adoption Of Children fu - 0 Become itizens iomeimes, ished, of exemplbave eniveaied, paresis ni | gy poTRELLITA | FEELINGS MIS-PROJECTED | Fn h "arent Wl) EE ren, WE er. . I surmise that you find him 8! By G, CLEVELAND MYERS [, Those living on the edge of a speak of the owner with con-\to enter or play about a house|T OF, TOMORROW resourcefulness By er New tep er bit difficult, more arbitrary than! When our eldest son was sbout|town or city may have rich|tempt as a "crabby, mean" per-under construction. Here I also) Initiative and enterprise willl iii bay off in amiable, in matters of opinion, 88/43" our family, while on a long|opportunities to hike and explore, son. How would this .parent feel beg of parents to train their chil. P3y Off mow, but don't try 10) Travel and ion for family unity, if and whep|® Fe; but you aren't willing 0, motor trip, stopped in 8 wooded|the woods and fields and streams. in the place of that owner? |dren not to enter or play around he marries you, HEAVY HAND ON REINS? when admit any imperfections in yourigiace to eat our lunch, | [Jove as yet, Thus you impute the" prin $e meat 1 peeled a ba-|{SHOW BY EXAMPLE [ABOUT EXPLORATIONS {an empty or abandoned building. |... "wily "work to your detri-lMay and June favor romance, | difficulties to cireumstances, BOL| ona and threw the peelings be- Suppose you are with your chil-| Suppose you and your hiking PARENTS' QUESTIONS ment, Use tact and diplomacy in Those in creative lines It is my impression that he isto the make-up of the man. lyond me into the brush, where-|dren on such a hike, Do you set| family came upon an a , Our three children of the putting over ideas. make great strides during preparing simply to take over| first three months of 1961. with a heavy hand, to run the by your reference to his uncom-ia Boy show his way, without due sen-|fortable childhood -- Tom is a peelings, in this col Dear Mary Haworth: I am 2a widow with three small children, one of whom is a boy. As their father was an only child, this son will be the sole bearer of the family name, I loved and respected my late Q 1 In all likelihood--and judging upon 1 was rebuked by this son, an example of good citizenship house or cabin, The children elementary grades are on allow-¥#0R THE BIRTHDAY Poy Scout, 1 recovered the|and guide your children accord-\would be eager to enter and ex-\ances. But often there is a| If tomorrow is your birthday, |for some good news of a business humbly apologized, and ingly" | plore it, And what if they knocked | scramble on a. school morning your indicates that you|nature early in January. A child born on this will husband and have been very close to his parents since his death, They are very kind and more than generous. Now, however, with a year of grief and heartache behind me, 1 have met Tom, and have fallen in love with him, We plan fo marry soon, | Tom adores the children and it| seems 1 should have no problems) at all, But as Tom was brought up in a family whose name dif- fered from his, he wishes to] adopt the children as soon as pos-| sible, so that we can be a more united family group, If he does adopt them, they will forfeit an inheritance which is substantial, if not excessive, ROB LATE FATHER? Tom has a good income and feels that family unity will benefit the children more than monetary gain, Do we have the right to rob the grandparents, as well as my late husband, of a name bearer? Could the children, perhaps, as- sume Tom's name until they are of age, without legally changing it? Although Tom feels very strongly about this, he is an in- telligent open-minded person and will appreciate your opinion on the subject as much as I will. Sincerely, G.8. CAN'T FARM OUT DECISION Dear G.8.: You are the key per- son in this situation, and you will have to take responsibility for making a sound decision, However, you should be that you know Tom very well, and know that he is a man of the finest caliber, in his disposition and capacity to be a good hus- band and praiseworthy father to your children, before you sign away their natural title to the family surname and certain lega- cles, It is my belief, frankly, that constructive adoption, wisely mo- tivated by genuinely sympathetic concern for the children's wel fare, matures rather slowly in the climate of a good second mar- riage. Therefore, I am not in sym- pathy with Tom's hasty insistence sure sible respectful consideration indeligible facts of previous tory that he can't alter, It may be that unconsciously he is primarily interested in eras-|forts to make ing, insofar as possible, the mem- ory of his predecessor; because he has secret misgivings that he can't win on merit, in comparison, if the door to the past remains open, through con- tinuing close family ties to the children's paternal grandparents, matic and dominant in his ef- like a man. As of now, he is reading his perhaps past into your children's future 1 mark; and 1 think he should get | psychiatrically clear on this point experience, which is wide of the 8, practice of bad cit for | neurotic character, who tries 10 was deeply impressed. his-| belie his chronic insecurity feel-| | ings by being excessively dog- Sometimes the family on a trip| will pause at some out-of-the-way | place to explore, It may afford interesting experiences. However unless standards are high, some of the group may be tempted) Suppose you and the childreniout a few windows with stones when climb over frail fences, breaking|just for fun, or did some other change, them down. Suppose you leave damage? gates open, Suppose you trample down crops or help yourselves to fruits on the way, And, if an owner of property on which you and your children As editor of a children's maga- I don't have the right|should attack major objectives | with confidence between now and.be emotional, sensiti e and y A. Suppose one of you parents' the end of 1960, especially those persistent in the y zine, 1 must receive and read, in the course of a year, i stories about children' exploring an abandoned house which they) or more | Ito qualify as a helpful--or at least through her column, not by mail {mot harmful--stepfather, MH. or personal interview. 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