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(MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL work through you. With Ged all linings are possible. I personally have learned that | Mate's Anti-Social Behavior Causes Wife Great Unhappiness Dear Mary Haworth: This is very urgent. I am 42; my won derful hushand is 42; and we have three children, ages 14 iL We have had minor problems but were able always to talk them out, However, in the last three years my husband has changed so much, it doesn't seem possible, | 1 have tried so hard to under- istand him and accept the change; {but I need help for myself, and guidance in helping him, if pos- | sible, | He has become self-absorbed, |self-admiring; almost, you might |say, self-infatuated, Formerly he Isat like a gentleman; now, his |seated posture is sometimes em- barrassing. He is slothful, socially inactive, sexually indifferent to me (even scornfully rejecting) {He tells me that he doesn't need me or any woman, this is a very simple thing to do; yet there is no adjective I could use to describe its power. VY, MEETING AN OLD FRIEND Dear V.Y,: You are offering me én introduction to an old friend the latter is preferable in this But thanks, anyway, I was & case--without delay, MH, reader of Emmet Fox's writings as long ago as 1940; and in due 12 and CANADIAN READER SPEAKS 0 met the author himself Dear Mary Haworth: To begin, g self effacing, very memorable, let me say that 1 have been one yory fine human being. MH, of your very devoted Canadian Mary Haworth counsels fsliers in rans aid tave to through her column, not by mail your column, P or Pessonal. Juierview Write her are ( ne r, I have read numerous hooks|. S8re of Wis Dewspaper, you've recommended; and one, Hanosh Whitall Smith's The Christian's Secret of a Happy Life (Revell) so changed my life that I should have written and thanked you long ago. However, at this point I feel compelled to ask you to read a book, and reconsider your ad- vice to those worried parents who feel that their daughter, 20, is Pa of / > ini life, Y il th fat they may have 1 accommo WIFE PRESERVER THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesdoy, September 21, 199 § date themselves to a8 misfortune they can't prevent, POWER OF PRAYER [DAILY CHURCH GOER | Meanwhile, he goes to church daily, though not to the sacra- : ikl "IT'S FUN TO HAVE A BIRTHDAY and great - grandson of Mr, and Mrs, Blake Chesebrough and Mrs, F. M. Shepherdson, all of Oshawa Photo by Mary's Studio st birth Kenneth Wilfred All smiles for his fir day today is Wilfred son of Mr, and Mrs Prescott, Summers wil fred is the grandson of Mr, and Mrs, Wilfred Prescott, Sr CHILD GUIDANCE For Success In Spelling Study One Word At A Time By G, CLEVELAND MYERS It seems safe to assume that I have watched a great many most children at school never children, including my own, when learn to do this they were in the grades, stud Some may remind us that there the spelling of a | are published studies which indi- or more words cate it is better to read over and found one who chose own over entirely again and again a accord to master the prose or verse selection until it is one word before goir memorize than to learn it part Suppose there part, though most persons in a column: pickle, dirt, don't choose to do this, onion, women, The child would. But when a child learns the pronounce and spell pickle once, spelling of a short list of words, then dirt and so on Then he he is not trying to memorize would go over all of them again, words in their order but aa : . the spelling of each word, Any: TEACHERS DO SAME way, he hardly will have occasion Observing many teachers lead: (, use these words in that order, ing children in the study of the i I wonder why this problem has spelling of a list of words, I have not heen attacked by scientific found them doing as the chil 8 es, dren do, Presumably the chil studies dren learned this way from the HELP AT HOME teacher, {| Relying on common sense in Too, some children have told| the meanwhile, you would do well me it is more Interesting to study as you help your child study each word once than to stay at spelling at home, to have each each word until it is learned, | word typed or written on a ecard, street on h pelling of ng to the nex were five words hy these Then have him stick to one card SPELLING WORKBOOKS {until the spelling of its word has heen mastered, (My hulletin, Home Helps in Spelling, may be had by sending a self-addressed, U.S, stamped envelope to me In care of this newspaper.) PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our son, who will enter the first grade, Is left-handed, I'm There are many workhooks in spelling, Those 1 have examined usually have the child spell and write a word only once hefore attacking another word, None of these workbooks have had the child pronounce and spell (or write) over and over each word until its correct spelling Is mas tered, PRINTED PATTERN NZ Follow this smart path to summer al low the rounded curve wide - and - wonderful skirt Both designs are by that master shape-maker Estevez, and both silhouettes are included in this "special" couture pattern, If you can't make up your mind, | make both au A dramatic play of color contrast in the | Originals peints up the striking seaming of the bodice, If you wish, vell your shoulders in | sloek pattern; lure or fol of the sheer organza, ® chiffon or ors gandy, ana matching pique, shantung, silk faille or | choose SLEEK OR SWIRLING SKIRT ha linen for the rest of your dress, Wherever you go in your ex clusive Estovez, you'll find ads miring glances turning your v Printed] Pattern M221 is available in Misses' Sizes 10, 12, 14, 16 and 18, Slim dress 16 requires 2% yards 35 inch fabric, one yard for cons tiast yokes, Send ONE DOL. LAR for Printed Pattern M221 to The Oshawa Times, Pattern Department 60 Front Street | West, Toronto 8. Please print | plainly YOUR NAME, AD- DRESS with STYLE NUMBER and SIZE, | size ments, I am small, gentle, affectionale, very feminine. I have a light hearted disposition, and hold a part-time office job, 1 am not very active in community pro jects; but love doing for my hus band and children and devote most of my leisure to them, Wha is wrong with us? Why has my husband changed 50? EE, NEEDS SPECIALIST HELP Dear EE: Your husband is emotionally ill, it seems, Your description of the change that's come over him gives a picture of a man whose personality is deter lorating Certain aspects of his recent behavior, for example his with {drawal from normal patterns of social activity, his evident ab sorption in auto-erotic fantasy and his allegedly self-sufficient scornful rejection of sex love in marriage, suggest that his lilnces may be schizophrenic Thus, 1 think you are correct in saying the problem is very ur |gent, As for what to do, it is ob Ivious that your husband's condi tion, and your need of guidance call for specialist help, My ad+ vice is to consult a good psychi atrist or psychoanalyst--perhaps | worried for fear his teacher will force him to write with the right hand, A, Chances are she won't, Most teachers today don't tamper with handedness, However, if you and the teache: together can persuade this boy to learn to use his right hand in writing, without resistance in him it might prove to his advantage Read The Golden Key, by Em# met Fox; this is a chapter from his book Power Through Con- structive Thinking (Harpers), It is the most wonderful statement of truth I have ever encountered.| It gives the A-B-Cs of scientific To line up the two sides of a row of snaps, first sew all the snaps on one side, then rub chalk on them and press against the material where the other halves are to go; this merks the spots perfectly, GREEK FIGS Among Greece's fruit exports prayer that enables you to geliin the first five months of 1960 yourself or anyone else out of any were 684 tons of figs, compared difficulty on earth, You gel your- with 430 tons in the same period self out of the way and let Godithe previous year, THE HOME DAIRY OSHAWA AND AJAX THURSDAY-FRIDAY-SATURDAY SPECIALS NEW CHOCOLATE METROPOLITANS 3/19¢ APPLE PIE 39° GOOD EVERY TIME FOR QUALITY, FRESHNESS and FLAVOR Shop at the bakery with the large variety, Specials are Also Available At-- BAILEY FOODS, Oshawa Shopping Centre and THE FOOD SHOP, 42 Simcoe Street North JAYN-MODDE DRESSES 77 KING ST. 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