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Jo Aldwinckle, Women's Women Editor Dial RA 3-3474 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, July 29, 1960 7 'Many Hostesses For Lillian Bathe, Bride-Elect row avenue, in Honor of the future bride, assisted by Mrs. Armstrong. | Miss Lillian Ruth Bathe whose { marriage to Real Vital Chartrand i |will take place in St, Gertrude's {| Roman Catholic Church tomor- | several pre-nuptial parties, il A { Ineld %| Motors of Canada. Mrs. Merle Lambe and Mrs. R. Coulter were hostesses at a|Douglas Hopps and Mrs. Donald ineighborhood miscellaneous show-| Morrison were co-hostesses at a miscellaneous shower at the| uated CE | er. Miss Mary Lambe assisted in 'row morning, has been feted at| William Mounce were hostesses lat a kitchen and pantry-shelf miscellaneous shower was shower at the former's home, by her co-workers in the Kenneth avenue. H J. §| Wiring Department of General Bathe, mother of the bride-elect, 1 poured tea. VISITOR FROM ENGLAND ENDS LONG SEPARATION A long anticipated reunion of | street. It is 51 years since they two sisters is a reality this | were together as Elizabeth and { bo ti isit of Mrs | Nellie Fenton. It was during summer hy ihe visi WTS. | the war when Sgt. Ernie Alfred Asher of Daybrook, Not- | Barker visited his aunt in Day- tinghamshire, England, with | brook that she determined Mrs. Ernest arker, Clark | knew. She has been amply rewarded. She 'loves Oshawa' and wishes she had persuaded | her husband to emigrate here 30 years ago. some day to come to Canada | --Oshawa Times Photo Metropolyt-Parodowsky Vows | SOCIAL NOTICE Given in Two-Ring Ceremony ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Frank Godden, The chapel of St. a : + | "Tall Trees," Whitby, wish to Andrew's|outlined the neckline. Lace fash- United Church was the scene of|ined the sheath sleeves, anq| 2nnounce the engagement of their a wedding last Saturday after-|part of the full skirt was caught x noon, when Sally Marie Paradow-| with silk organza loops and em-| ¢ Wavy Bees Wickes sky, daug of Mr. and Mrs. broidered with seed pearls and wil A an 0 rs: 1 Th 1c Bernard rdowsky of Trent- mother of pear] sequins. A coro-|) oWwdaie, Outano. ne mar. ham, Manitoba, was united in net of organza butterfly and|'ia8e is to take place on Satur- marriage with John George bugle beads with rhinestones Metropolyt, 1d her fingertip veil. She car- George Metr |ried a cascade of white chrysan-| The double was) themums and Briercliffe roses. performed the Reverend! Mrs Alexander Pankiw George Telf MA, DD. Mr. matron of honor, and the brides-| Join Robertson, organist, played maid, Mrs. Michael Bonk. Both|gshawa and the late Mr. Ter- Tue ds, "and "Olwore identical street - length|illegar, to Michael Joseph Dil- Perfect Love. gowns of pink nylon sheer over| SON i Given in marriage by heritaffeta, designed with scooped, | Dios all of Oshawa. The wed uncle, Mr. Jo ; of g necklines and short|ding is to take place on Satur- |S They wore matching day, August 20, at St. Mary of : f aindeaux, of pink petals dotted|the People Roman Catholic sitk- organza « th simulated pearls, white ac-|Church, Oshawa. vell. The bodice featur yoke| cessories and carried nosegays of| ' of Veinna lace, embroidered with! white chrysanthemums framed] ENGAGEMENT mother-of-pearl sequins and seed| with pink tulle. Mr. and Mrs. Harry Bohoniu pearls. Loops of silk organza alsc R sh to \ son ks, Whitby United Church. ENGAGEMENT ar b, leagth gowr man; ushering was Mr |riet Mary Catherine, to GROUPS, CLUBS Li Ne ut er oy ARUXILIARIES home of Mr. and Mrs. Alexan- and Mrs. Stephen Salmers, Osh- der Pankiw, wu street, awa. The marriage is to take where the w g dinner was |place on Saturday, August 20, at SA HOME LEAGUE served. To receive the guests, the (3. p.m. in Runnymede United The regular meeting of the Sal- br om's' mother wore a Church, Toronto. vation Army Home League was held on Tuesday afternoon, July sheath dress, and jacket of ice blue silk shantung with a white hat and accessories and a cor- X sage of pink carnations. Assisting Mrs. Charles Cathmoir led in| was the bride's aunt, visiting te singing of a few choruses. from Poland, Mrs. A. Kuba, who e devotional period was led| yore a silk crepe dress with little by Mrs. William James. black hat speckled with "white 1 i Mrs. William Stubbings led the|and a white corsage of baby For Islamic Wife singing of the hymn, "What alchrysanthemums. For their| By ALI MEHRAWARI Friend we Have in Jesus', fol-| noneymoon trip to New York and : rte : ! | TEHRAN (Reuters) -- For the lowed by prayer by Mrs. William points, the bride chose a blue|gyct time in Iran, a young wife, | Four-Year Battle Ends in Freedom Saunders. Mrs. David Owen gave|.heath dress of blue chiffon OVET | invoking the human rights dec-| a reading on Mexico, then told floral print with white accesso-||aration has sought a divorce many interesting things about ries and a pink corsage of car: | and won a favorable decision Mexico that she had seen and nations. |from the Supreme Court. heard while visiting there. On their return the couple will| Twenty-one-year-old Fakhri Ta- Mrs. James Scott led the sing-|reside in the Metro Apartments lebi complained to the Tehran ing of the hymn, "The Great on Cromwell avenue. Guestscourt four years ago that she had Physician", were present from St. Catharines, |been forcibly married to a man Mrs. James read an article on Jordan, Burlington, Toronto, by her brothers. She claimed that patches and strikes. The meeting Bowmanville and Georgetown. [the marriage should be nullified closed with the Lord's Prayer. -- -. on the ground that it was con- Tea was served by the Cheerio WIFE PRESERVER tracted under duress. Group. She said that her two brothers ti took her by force one day to the ST. GERTRL DE'S CWL matrimonial notary office where An executive meeting of St. they forced her to marry Akbar Gertrude"s CWL was held in the Zanjani, a close friend of theirs. parish hall July 18 with Mrs. | She later fled. Walter Branch presiding. Among other things discussed was the annual retreat to be held at Our Lady of the Cenacle Re- APPEALED For four years, she fought a continual battle to win her free- ATS -- | Ouse Paint | youngest daughter, Mary-Ann, to ter of Mrs. Archie Terwillegar of |ily. Mr, Michael Bonk was be st Toronto, wish to announce the en- Michael | gagement of their daughter, Har- ng [1 Friends and co-workers enter- Frances Sparks, Diane Hopps | to meet the sister she scarcely |tained in Harmony Church Hall,|and Christine Sparks assisted the when the bride-to-be was presen: | hostesses in serving. |with a coffee table and lamp | From her co-workers of the| por TOMORROW Entertain Mrs. Norman Rae and Mrs.| Mrs. Mrs, Murray Sparks, Mrs. home of Mrs. Sparks. The Misses Arthur ? | tables to match, along with many| General Motors Wiring Depart-| other attractive gifts. The host-| esses were the Misses Gladys| | Gedge, Gwen LaLonde and Peggy | Milne. { | Mrs. Don. Woods and friends | entertained at a miscellancous| | shower at the Woods home, Wood-|} ment, yellow woolen blanket and pillow | Morrison, Jane Hammond, Elsie cases with a yellow border. Miss Bathe received a Following the rehearsal hurst avenue, Oshawa. 'MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL day, August 20, at 3.30 p.m. in| Dear Mary Haworth: T am very| Disconcerted About Discord Between Parents And Brothe reject Jim's parents as social {disturbed about discord between | misfits, and a detriment. in the| (my parents and my brother and new social vision they have for | brother, gest the maladjustment with Jim | |and Mary must be a 50-50 prob- {lem. 1 | The engagement is announced| his wife. They have cold feelings | their lives. This kind of split with Was| of Frances Antonia Lydia, daugh-|towards all branches of the fam-|family (though not uncommon) is including her mother and|generally self - despising in |sence; and such ambitious striv- But all other branches of the|ing has been known to lead to lon, son of Mr. and Mrs. Edward family have harmonious relations|Schizophrenic "|with mother and dad, so I sug- disturbance in rather fragile characters. You can't do much about it. {This is Jim's and Mary's prob- em, Your parents should under- | We, my husband and I, have take, wisely, to cultivate feelings | through her column, not by mail| TO MARRY IN AUGUST i 2... : The engagement is an- nounced today of Miss Harriet Bohoniuk to Mr. Orest L. Salmers whose marriage is to take place on Saturday, August 20. The bride-to-be is the daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Bohoniuk of Toronto. She grad- in nursing from the Clean Your Venetian Blinds In a New and Better Way Venetian blinds and their care| As for cleansing agents, finde have been going to college! ings revealed that, of all those | Experts from the department used, only ammonia water afe |of Home Economics of Ohio State|fected the appearance of the fin. | University interviewed over 100|ish of white steel, aluminum or [pomemakere in their Sovvey 20d wood slats, Vi ave come to some definite an OTHER FINDINGS | pertinent conclusions. Every woman has her favorite] The round brush or V-shaped vacuum attachments seem to {method for keeping Venetian {blinds looking nice but mone of Work equally well, Dusting ~loths the methods seemglhng satis- | didn't help much if the blinds |factory! As if we 'didn% know were very soiled. that! | The experts devised a wonder- Well, some of us use our vac. | ful cheesecloth dusting glove {uum cleaners, others go over the [made of four layers of the fab. blinds constantly with a dusting ric. These gloves do the blinds cloth and give the blinds a spe. |qquickly, efficiently and with the cial going-over a couple of times least effort. la year. Working on blinds that had | been neither dusted nor cleaned in two years, the experts came PERSONALS up with some interesting ideas. |FIRST STEP Guests from out of town at the, First, the blinds were dusted Metropolyt-Parodowsky wedding with vacuum cleaner attach- included Mr and Mrs, John Sor- ments, the cheesecloth gloves kupod, St. Catharines; Mr. and|were moistened with a cleaning Mrs. Don Kohut, Jordan; Mr. and polishing wax and, as the and Mrs. Steve Pankiw, Burling-|gloves became soiled, they were tsn: Mr and Mrs. John Tepluck replaced with fresh ones until the and Rose, Toronto: Mr, and Mrs, |Job was completed. Lan Krbe, Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas| The upshot of the survey University of Toronto last year and is a Toronto Public Health nurse. Her fiance graduated in pharmacy from the University of Toronto last year and is on the staff of Oshawa Medical Pharmacy. The ceremony is to take place in Runnymede United Church, Toronto. THE STARS SAY There are some planetary re- strictions - now--especially where your opinions to yourself. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, trip to Edmonton proved doubly| your horoscope promises an in-|joyous for Mrs. Martin Meir of {MES feresting year. The next five| Salvadore Sask., when she found and for wh months, especially, should see yy, sisters and a brother whom Please write or telephone RA many of your fondest wishes she had not seen for 40 years. come true particularly those dealing with job and finan- cial advancement. Don't offset gains, however, by spending un- isely during September, The first six months of 1961 will be excellent for creative] work and business interests, and| | both May and June will be fine for travel and romance. Some| hold. In short, practice a policy of hands-off, no butting-in, all in a spirit of non-critical charity. | M.H. | Mary Haworth counsels) been made buffers and hear both | of loving loyal non-attachment to- or personal interview. Write her| k (sides and I have suggested pro-|wards Jim's and Mary's house. in care of this newspaper. fessional counselling. But as Jim| has a master's degree in social| work, he feels vastly qualified to| '|evaluate his own faults, end others'. | My brother's children, ages 8 and 10, have been especially adored, .as they are the first grandchildren. But now they are |tense and shy with the grand- parents, which the parents cite as proof that the grandparents, especially dad, aren't happy peo. ple. Jim says the children can't have a creative relationship with the grandparents, thus event- ually will have to be removed from their bad influence. Grand- |daddy abounds with youthful en- |thusiasm around the children, | land has invited them places with- lout permicsion from Mary and | Jim. "PLAY IT COOL?" Jim and Mary can't seem to see | [or even try; |are ideally suited to one another | In an ingrown way. They consider my ideas self sacrificing. I feel| |we should accept the bad with | the good: that unity in family life | {includes the different generations with all their problems and riches; and that we have to ac- can love ourselves. Jim disputes | these points, . . . | I feel like telling the grand: | | parents to play it cool, issuing no |invitations, as they've had to| things from other people's view; |# though we feel they| | | cept our parents' faults before we | if treat House in Toronto from Sep- tember 16 to 18 finite date was set for the y or 4. nted sever- dom, Each time that doors were |practically beg Jim and Mary to slammed in her face, she tried a|visit in the past. We are all sep- new approach, Her case travelled | arated by hundreds of miles. I through practically every court, [know they never could give up and passed through many hands. |the grandchildren, though as it is {they are losing them now. Please Finally, she appealed to the Su. Before storing a partly-used an preme Court, arguing that the Is- iti-lof paint, mark a thin line on out- lam religion makes the full Jor. 18 2a sh, the|cide at level of leftover paint, | agreement of both parties, free y nt to take place onl, » + ._|from coercion, rime condition a Sunday in January. A definite Then you'll know without opening| of" marriage." After considering date will be set later. can how much remains. the case at repeated hearings r-- mr St m------------ |and lengthy deliberations, the Su- {preme Court quashed the pre- vious rulings and pronounced in | favor of Fakhri, | The case now has been referred | {to the religious authorities, who are most likely to endorse the Supreme Court ruling. After that, | Fakhri's marriage to Akbar Zan- |Jani will be officially and legally #§ nullified. | When Fakhri refused to live with him, Zanjani married an- | other girl two years ago. He has |two children by his second mar. | |riage, but still refused to divorce | | Fakhri. | | Iranian and Islamic laws per-| |mit concubinage and multiple | marriage. A Moslem may have four permanent wives at. one time, provided he maintains them #4 all on equal terms and in equal | | comfort. 'He also can have con-| cubines, provided that he can | afford to provide for the children | 'land give them a small pension. | | RARE TRIAL Fakhri's case is one of the will. make help me see the problem clearly. K.P. | | SON MIXED-UP? Dear K.P.: I prefer to let the Seven moths old when this picture was taken, Kenneth Arthur Holmes has climbing ambition to be one year old. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. i "I'M GETTING THERE . . Je Hw I' Harold Holmes, Kawartha ave- i nue, and grandson of Mrs. Holmes, Oshawa, and Mr, and Mrs. Percy Carswell, Toronto. --Photo by Hornsby narrator tell the story in his own way; but I've had to cut your letter drastically. Still the con-| densation runs long, and half the| [story isn't included. I mention | this so that readers will under-| stand, if my comments allude to| unpublished data. | It is my impression that your {brother Jim is a neurotic fellow. a mixed-up childish character, | maybe 'spoiled rotten" by hope- | ful but inconsistent mismanage- ment of his potentials in his formative years. Perhaps he was pushed ambitiouslv. off and on, | beyond his capacities, urged to make more of himself than he could, with integrity. | At any rate, it seems he is in- volved in stressful social preten- tions in his role as husband and educated man. It seems he is trying to identify with a system of snob-values, possibly related to his epncept of professional status, that cause him to feel cut off from and embarrassed by his origins. I gather that he is anxiously in revolt against his parents' sup- "You may be surprised by the small amount of medicine your doctor prescribes for you. . . surprised that a few tiny tablets will quickly restore your good health. The power concentrated in small doses of today's unusual social activities are also indicated then. Domestic matters are under generous late March, however. In general, keep OF executive. Jeyes, Georgetown. influences, happy home life. Mrs. Russell Mackay and gr. JOYOUS MEETING > EDMONTON (CP)--A wedding) cries and comings and are always very accept 13-3474 local 18. You are invited by the Social Departmen tc send in any little items of interest. News of teas, | » octhetic qualities of the blinds. urprise parties, showers, anni-| An we have learned that it is ich there is no charge. Jonk, Bowmanville; Mr. Thomas| seemed to indicate that dunking {the blinds in the bathtub and hosing them down isn't calculated Mrs. John Nash, Front street,ito help the life of the cords, and you may look forward to an|nas as her guests her daughter|tapes and mechanism of the exceplionally Curb emotionalism and anxiety in/daughte Donna, from Victoria, | 3.C. while Mr. Mackay is stat-|Sary bs this| personal relationships are con-| A child born on this day will ioned at Hamilton with the Royal|in fine condition. |evening the bridal party will be cerned. Avoid strife and bicker: | be endowed with the qualities to Canadian Navy Cadet Training. |pRACTICAL AND AESTHETIC entertaining at the future home|ing: also a tendency toward ag-| make an excellent broker, banker of the wedding couple on EIm- gressivenes and-| hinds. In fact, it was decided {that water wasn't at all neces- ary to keen the Venetian blinds The survey also disclosed that {we are more enthusiastic than ever about the practical and E0- wise to use the cleaning wax able method right from the time of installation and to drop the old bathtub - and - hosing method of periodic cleaning. AST UNS AUS ATT LST ATLAS LS AS Se TWO MODERN STORES RETAILERS TO THRIFTY CANA IN OSHAWA OPEN TONIGHT UNTIL DIANS 9 P.M. DOLLAR DAY § Great Variety of Styles! HALF APRONS 2 for 1.00 Pretty little half aprons in at- tractive cotton prints, Choice of attractive colors. Good- looking. Practical. © Special Sale Price. TEA KETTLE 1.00 SPECIAL! 3-PT. TEA-KETTLE --Lightweight aluminum Ket- tle that whistles when water boils. Reg. $1.49! Sale-Priced! SPECIAL! to 242, 46 to 52. Dept. first thing tom: styles in this Spec from Rayon, French Note the Great Variety of Sizes! 12 to 20 162 to 2415 46 to 52 LADIES' MOCCASINS Special Purchase! 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Yet he feels But if the wife wants "0 |free, you say, to borrow money | ants a Givorce, from' them, 'time and again, de- she cannot get it unless ner hus-| en; ' : .~ | spite your dad's various - band agrees. There are no courts bd A recent Sarions Rees here, as in the West, in which A the judge studies the case and on hn the surmise that | berg or "No" to divorce «nus unethical behavior" is : linked to Jim's and Mary's "hopes and dreams for their children." You say: "They feel gland (CP)--Polly|they have only a few short years ind Mrs, Clarence Green- Flynn, a widow in this Lanca-|in which to influence the children tree, all of Oshawa. shire town, is to marry for the|and they don't want any bad in-| --Photo by Cadieux, |third time. She celebrated her|fluences around. . ,." Stouffville 100th birthday this month, In other words, Jim and Mary "miracle medicines" produces MORE cure--FASTER-- than tablespoons of yesteryear's drugs. Size doesn't determine healing power--aonly potency does. 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