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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, April 13, 1960 MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL "Worried When Husband's Job Interféres With Family Life Dear Mary Haworth: My hus-| band is 41 and I am 33. He works| for an engineering corporation. When he first got this job, 10 years ago, he was different. His interest is not in home life (which includes a son, 17) since he worked up to be head of his department, with five men under Now him first workers sec- and his fellow ond. Also he stays out nearly every night, drinking with "the fellows." I am home most of the time; but when he takes me out he has to have at least one of his drinking cronies FORBIDS WIFE If I try to question him he al- ways says "You are arguing There is no reasoning with him any more that he '"'in tends to go and as he pleases," and if I marriage to continue to ask him any questions I am with course nt our mind what nearly out of my not knowing take worry to Please answer soon, before I do something des perate.~C.G MAN IS WRONG Dear C.G.: As 1 get the pic- ture, your husband is off on the wrong and knows it. That is why he harshly refuses. to dis- cuss your questions, or to offer any reasons for his "changed" behavior He is in conflict about much the neglect of his fam foot with himself is doing, to 7; yet he that he seems his office comes! doesn't feel ready to canvass his mistakes and try to do better. Since he isn't being honest-and- straight with himself, naturally it follows that he hasn't any sensible or even plausible replies to give you, as you try to 'get through" to him about the trouble (whatever it is) that has come between you. Thus he shuts you off, with a show of ill humor -- which is really a guilt-triggered defence mechanism--when you worriedly manifest a heartsick desire get closer to him in understand- ing, to revive, if possible, the "togetherness'" spirit of your early-married years. GET EXPERT HELP Although he has built, and is adding to, a barrier of wrong- doing between you and him, still it seems he is not of a mind to break up his marriage alto- gether. Hence his present policy (if such we may call it) is simply to try to bluff you into keeping quiet, and going along with his wastrel selfishness--regardless of what you may think or feel; or| suspect or know (that is to his discredit) As for what you should do: Get first hand professional help from an expert in family counselling You need an adviser who can go over the story in detail, in a se- ries of confidential interviews, and guide you to a sound and purposeful program of action, in dealing with your husband's -un- fairness.--M.H. SAYS WE DON'T TELL Dear Mary Haworth: Where to}. "uh "EASTER BUNNY LITTLE sister will be all set | pink or blue. Its lovely double to find the the Easter | collar is set off by ecru lace bunny left in this charming | and ocean pear! buttons. Tiny dress designed by Celeste puff sleeves and short, full the lollipop set. Made of silk | sleeves are other details organza, the frock comes in | --By TRACY ADRIAN eggs can the books you mentioned re-/ask the management to order a cently be bought? You never do|copy for you.--M.H. say in your column; but will you M 'H i th 1 make an exception for once?-- ary aver counsels through her column, not by mail Dear S.L.: If your local book- or personal interview. Write her store hasn't the book in" stock,!in care of this newspaper. All-White Look Heads HOUSEHOLD HINT Deviled ham spread on toast points and topped with scrambl- ea eggs makes a delicious mid- night snack. Spring Fashion Parade tremely popular with high fash- ion designers. The bones and the palest mauves and pearl grays are also cited. SOPHISTICATED SIMPLICITY Both the dresses and the col- By ELEANOR ROSS Spring fashion merchandise might convince you that design- ers have been dabbling in white wash. They've whitened almost everything we're likely to wear, from hats to shoes. __|ors are sophisticated enou; White coats, white suits, white|any occasion, yet cut fo dresses, hose with a silver-white enough for informal wear--which cast and that always - popular makes such clothes right for the white . costume jewelry, along|iravel-light voyager. with white fabric or whi leather gloves and white shoes, piece and sleeveless, make us fashionable women inlgmooth and fitted, the white. 4 QUALITY OF COLOR extraneous trim or detail. The cream and beige and bone| Paris, as well as our designers, colors have had so much white have sponsored much jersey, a new elusive quality of color. Yet well. they go well with the snowy-white| ONG STO! clothes décreed for town as well 1B as couptry wear. . [to make, is White is flattering and beauti-|of the same he dome ome ol ful just as long as it remaids| The main difference in this snowy white. So it is nice to know year's stoles, over those of other that so many o fthe fabrics used|years is the much longer length are washable and that leather has|y o¢ yours go practically to the been made safely washable, £00. floor and leave it untrimmed. WHITE SHOES Many of the nicest white and The new white luster leathers|pastel jersey fabrics are wash. used for shoes come clean with/able and take well to frequent a dab of a sponge dipped into|launderings. thick suds. If you spot - clean promptly, your white shoes will HISTORIC SITE continue to look store-new. LONGUEUIL, Que. (CP re' , x )--An So, come summer, we'll be see-| 514 'stone cottage in this Mont. ing the white-shod foot in town, . g :\real suburb has be y as well as in the suburbs Es eeu deslared 2 country, co-ordinated with white piety iane of Mother Marie R g dresses and white summer suits.| wh, "in 1843 founded the Suni Women who sew their own : : clothes will find beautiful white| Ga nolic order of the Sisters of cs on the yard goods count-| ye Many of the dresses are two- | the bodice|: I whole de-| sign done with a minimum of| added to them that they give a|fsbric which wears and packs Another fashion favorite, easy! SINGER SPECIAL SALE o£ LIMITED TIME ONLY! ACT NOW! Bonafide Reduction from regular price of this model « Superb straight and decorative stitching, buttonholes, monograms, etc.--all without attachments. Only 52% por wok on the may SINGER Bodget Plan SINGER SEWING CENTER 16 ONTARIO ST. OSHAWA OA Trademark of THE SINGER NYG. OO. TER VIE! DRESS-UP TIME! NEW HATS... Any man looks Better in a STETSON HAT. REGULARS, LONG OVALS, ROUND OVALS 12.95 JOHNSTON'S (OSHAWA) LTD. 8 SIMCOE ST. N. ers. Easy to make, and a top favor- ite, is the simple little jersey dress, styled for the simplest sort of sewing. Yet the finished pro- duc: has grace and distinction. The off-whites, such as ivory| and the palest blonde tones, and | ithe palest possible beige, are ex-| Why WOO BIG EASTER SALE Welcome Easter with Candy Filled Baskets Chocolate covered creme filled egg, flavours of vanilla, maple, raspberry and chocolate. -----o <3 3 A a is Py Dy ag 3 a oa » ® gaily decorated 98° Colourful baskets filled with Easter Goodies, Cello gift wrapped with ribbon bow on handle. Surprise and thrill the children on Easter. Many other sizes available from 49¢ ® children's favourites and Decorated cross boxed. 10¢ each PAIL filled with cand 25¢ Chocolate novelty assortment, choose from Peter baby bunny, chick, basket, rooster and egg. hen on Rabbit, 10¢ each New! Chocolate covered marshe mallow filled standing bunny by Smiles. a <3 Lv qa of chocolate covered malted milk. Individually 39¢ each Richly decorated choco- late Easter egg with marshmallow centre, individually boxed. Boxed Chocolate Novelties. Your choice of Bunny, Rooster, Hen and many others. 39¢... 49%... Free! Names applied icing on chocolate pedestal Easter egg. In colourful see- thru JUMBO chocolate Easter egg Every child will love these gaily coloured Easter jelly eggs. Surprise! Colourful book box opens up to reveal chocolate bunny and squirrel ¢ inside. 89% each idea 15¢ each Always a favourite, fruit boxed. A real Easter treat. filling. Names applied free. Eoster creme eggs by Smiles packed in gaily coloured egg crate. A novelty please. is. 157 Brg Prato engin SF & 3 k Sie A Mg , a wa with our hardy oe dilies; cof other favorites. gifts, too! Lowney's nut egg, individually box. 59¢ each with solid marshmallow Easter Lilies . Hydrangea . Potted Mums Cinerarias . . Mixed Pans . ANT ~ FLOWERS ¢ Bring Easter glory into your home ! ! $920. potted plants! The selection is wide and so beautiful course, and many They make grand a 44 ' [TET ANE 4.00 10.00 6.00 2.50 5.00 . 2.00 to 5.00 to 3.00 to 1.50 to 2.00 to /F 5.00 Doz 5.00 Doz. 5.00 Doz. 1.50 Doz. .. 2.50 Doz. to 10.00 Doz. Carnations Snapdragons . .. Stocks.......... Daffodils ...... Tulips ........... Roses ...... 5.00 1. Mrs, 130 Eastmount Ave. OUR THANK YOU NOTE! It was delightful to see so many people out last Sunday, from all of us, a sincere thank you for making the show a pleasant success. The Winners of Our Door Prizes 2. Leo Gallagher, 298 Jarvis St. A. Fetchison and 3. Mrs. R. Branch, 92 Oshawa Blvd. N. 39 that's sure to 10%2 KING B. REED & SO FLORISTS ST. WEST, OSHAWA, PHONE RA 5-1131 AJAX SHOPPING CENTRE, PHONE 1040