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MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Felt, Happy Secure Until Breakdown, Haunted By Fear | Dear Mary Haworth: Until a hurt I feel about his folks; and few years ago I considered my-|1 have lost some respect for him, 'self the most secure and fortu- nate woman in the world. Then 1|LACKS RAPPORT bad a breakdown. I am still try.| Ihave no rapport with his fam- ing to figure how it happened. ily, and they don't visit us, unless Am I insane? Is it hereditary? specifically invited--for which I I am depressed and just plain|should be grateful, perhaps. But |scared of everything; and so|if has hurt, especially when the [tired of trying to escape. I work children were small (and ignored lon committees, attend church|PY them). When my husband and PTA meetings, visit friends: | Visits them he comes home with and still have to face myself and|c2!ty remarks they've made the terror in my heart when I|about me or my folks. am alone. Now his mother says she ex- cialists who know ways of re- lieving your fear-feelings, while also treating the underlying dis- tress that robs you of a sense of well being. As a first step in your pitch for health, read Dr. E. M. Abra- hamson and W. W. Pezet's book: Body, Mind and Sugar (Norton publishers. LINES OF INQUIRY associated with hyperinsulinism,| a little known condition--of glan- dular imbalance--in which the body proauces an oversupply of CHILD GUIDANCE A Florida mother, widow, writes: who How Working Mothers Can Help Child To Take Responsibility By CLEVELAND MYERS | that they must be In the house to (help after you arrive. Also re- |quire regular jobs that you can of supervise during the weekend and holidavs. The more you talk about this, the less good it will do. Just make clear the regular jobs they must do while you are there to see that they do them. Don't argue. Don't "In your opinion, is there any Suppose you were a working|way they may be made to under. it yourself get mad, Just act. widow with two girls, ten and 12.|stard that my free hours woul It tells of medical research to|How much could you hope to have be much better spent with thexn show that many breakdowns are|them ease your household work?|if they would help; and that I is a/would be in a much better mood |and humor if they would do the "I am raising two lovely girls, things I ask them? ten and 12 years old. To do this. TRIED LISTS 1 must work hard and must leave| Set some penalties if they neg- lect regular jobs or do them slop- pil It won't be long before they will learn to respect your author- ity |SHOW APPRECIATION "I have tried lists and although] When they have learned this insulin. This lowers the blood su-\yyo "girls at home alone after|they will do the things listed, they|respect, try to have more good gar supply, which in turn preci- pitates a host of stress symp-| thought to indicate mental ness, primarily. responsibility than they hoards open and food lll-take, so that I will have more They act annoyed if I speak \ r their doing these jobs va ". left on tome. Show great appreciation | school. T am hoping for the best. will mess everything else up.|times with them. Gradually pre-| 4 . "| "Without me with them at all|Thev leave dirty dishes all over,|vail on them to volunteer to do toms, ranging from mild to fear times I sometimes feel they need the floors all tracked up, cup-/some jobs when vou can't be some, that in the past were often more sending a self - addressed, U.S. stamped envelope to me in care this aewspaper.) PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our daughter, ten, had a low rating on a group intelligence test given at school and she cae barely read. Can 1 have no hope for her even doing average work at school? ; A. Don't give up. Have 'her given one or more individua mental tests and studied by # competent reading expert or reading clinic, Best for mone Make their friends welcome, | "gu A " : time to spend with them, rather|them about it." My heart aches for my chili.(Detis-us for Chrismas dimer and It the condition. is accurately {iam being burdened with so My reply, in part: after their chores are done, while ren; I pray they will have more oh f tons} va existed|diagnosed, a simple remedy ox, many household chores. I find| I can easily see how difficult|you are home, courage than I. Perhaps my in- (© ep ere 0 usion os Fxiste iste: namely. the so - called Dr. that rather than helping, so Tit is for you to train your 7h-| I wish you would write me law problems wore me down; | OF Mio a shrin Tom A Sie H ely, detailed in the| Will have more time with them, ters to take home responsi os. later of your experience in this {but others have inlaw troubles|them in dread and disgust. eae 1 arris » cetalied In le they are doing their chores slop-| If I were you I would not, for|re-education. Specially formulated for babies! too, and bear up well. I can't confide in my parents, book~shigh in proteins and fais, ily or not at all. I, in turn, am some weeks, assign them any (My bulletins, Working Moth- . " y in) oi My husband is & very gentle|Who live nearby, as they have) OW iu Starches and Sugars, So 40| fussing at them to help and do jobs to do when you are not at ers and Educating Your Child in| Bree s up phlegm--ea! person; I guess they killed EY vo enough of their own . . ,|Yourse ie lavor of expor 1é more. home. Make clear to these girls| Responsibility, may be had by | ime|2nd complain how awful it is to|this possibility, by reading the| gpivit 16 aver had The suly tine thou.| Pook and comparing notes with a {be aged. My sisters live i threatened to hit me) was when I called him a "'mama's boy" and|them very much. I too would ! [said he lacked nerve to defend |like to move far away, but my { lus. He never has much to say husband says it's impractical. = and I feel we have no communi- pool and drink beer with the| I resolve to be of good cheer, | cation. Certainly I can't air any|and not worry; but the monstrous |fear hangs over me. Would good psychiatric hypno - therapy help, if we could, afford it? I know I boys, should work on myself, but how? You mean to say she wants E. P. sands of miles away and I miss|first-rate. diagnostician willing to give you an A-to-Z check-up. If it develops you aren't a blood | sugar patient, the next step is to | find a really good doctor, well versed in constructive use of tranquillizer medicine, who will | know what to prescribe in your | case, to give you respite from in- | tolerable tension. Then, later, when feeling better. investigate | ws a 7 » : (to go somewhere?' they ask. Le #9 wi [Even if sne does, how can we LOCATE FINEST afford it? Dear E. P.: No, you are not| wary Haworth counsels [ ¢ : | HONORED BY FAMILY, FRIENDS "Beer arc poo and cars cost|insane. You are sick; and very|(hrcugh her column, not by mail| f hypno-therapy, if you like. M. H. Mrs. Orlando Clay who cele- | special guest was 87-year-old | Money." the judge said. (possibly it is a chemical or glan-|or personal interview. Write her bated her 0th birthday last | Mrs. Marie Gerrow of Oshawa, | She 'aivsed strongly against dular Imbalance of some Sort in care of this newspaper. Sunday was guest of honor at a | a girlhood friend, Mrs. Clay passing judgment on others. Just hat ould be acted or tea party given by her only | who now lives at Fairview because 1 couple make no ap- cured by top quality modern granddaughter, Mrs. Elmore | Lodge was born on Scugog Is- (peal to outsiders doesn't mean medical care. GRAVY STAINS Wagg, Emerson avenue. Ap- | land on November 7, 1869. and |I'Y don't aprea' to each other. probably the quickest way to| Gravy stains can be removed proximately 100 guests called to | prior to coming to Oshawa | AS an exampie she quoted a get well is to put your good mind|from washable fabrics simply by | offer congratulations. Among | about two years ago, lived at cleaning woman who worked io work, tracking down the finest| washing in lukewarm suds. With | them were her two daughters, | Port Perry and Forest. She |Strenuously to support her worth diagnostic help available, either unwashables the stain should be | Mrs. C. R. Butson (Helen) of | has 11 grandchildren and fouf less hushand. in your home city; or in nearby (sponged with spot remover and | Prince Albert and Mr:. O. B. | great-grandchildren. ".t's he that makes the hard Manhattan. Sooner or later, if|then rinsed with a cloth slightly | Roberts (Amy) of Windsor. A | --Ushawa Times Photo. (Work worth while." Iyou keep at it, you will find spe-ldampened with lukewarm water. | Selfishness Wrecks Many Marriages Declares Judge and adjusting." 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