10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, October 28, 1959 CHILD GUIDANCE " By G. CLEVELAND MYERS With several growing children in the family there is the problem of training each to respect the rights and possessions of the other 'children. It's wise to begin early to train the first child, and then later ones, to respect your rights and | possessions. Having learned this Ron" the child has good prepara- tion for extending this respect to others and their possessions. CHILD'S OWN THINGS | Very early each child has things he considers his own. Try to see that no brother or sister takes or uses these without the owner's consent. Make sharing of a child's own things a matter of |persuasion and his satisfaction |from sharing. Bv learning early to "respect the possessions in terms {lof toys and other material things lof his brothers and sisters, the |child ean also learn later not to ~ [take or use their money. [FALSE CHARGE Children Should Be Taught To Respect Rights Of Others if each is provided with an in- expensive strongbox he can lock. This would help remove tempta- tion for any of the children to take money belonging to the oth-| ers. PROPER RELATIONSHIP Of course, if a proper relation- ship were cultivated in the famiiv, every child would feel secure in| having a special unlocked con-| tainer for his money. i Related to these problems is the {working out of a budgeted allow- ance for each child, especially af- W 'd Return To Pioneer Days REGINA (CP)--Mrs, Mary V. Peck, who travelled in covered wagons when a little ginl in cal ico, made her latest trip in an airliner. The 86-year-old woman found the air trip "wonderful," she said, although she had a touch of air sickness. Mrs. Peck, who now lives in Atikokan, Ont., was born in"Mis- souri in 1873. The family later, moved to Indiana and then to South Dakota. The Indiana-South Dakota jour- ney in covered wagons drawn bv mules took almost three months. Sioux Indians went on the war- path soon after the family reached the Dakotas and the family took refuge at the county Later the family emigrated to Canada by tents near Fort William, Ont., un- til log huts could be built, "We had no windows and just | an opening for a door," recalls the sprightly octogenarian. "I re- member hanging a carpet across the , Opening to keep the bears out." | BACKACHE BOTHERING YOU? It ¢ id b [ 2 i d of irritate DEWITT'S KIDNEY & BLADDER PILL bring t and S i ying prompl ang 4:75 mes) seat until the militia. controlled the warring bands. 'ter he is five or six. The allow- ance should include necessary éx- penditures, such as for school lunch, plus a small amount he could spend as he pleases. (My bulletins, Allowances and Honesty and Truthfulness in Chil- idren, may be had by sending a self-addressed, U.S. stamped en- velope to me in care of this news- {paper.) PARENTS' QUESTIONS .Q How can I help my son. eight, to look directly at pecplc; | i POSTAL CLERKS. $3900 Post Office, Department train and settled in| OSHAWA, Ontario Moke it a real treat for the youngsters this Hallo- we'en. Have a stock of Smith Beverages on hand. ® LEMON LIME © ROOT BEER ® GINGER ALE ® GRAPE ® ORANGE ® CREAM SODA Many a parent hears the com- yk when they are talking to him? HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BRETT Two years old today is Brett Michael, son of Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Harrison, Rossmount avenue, Brett is the grandson of Mr, and Mrs. Carmen Mec- Isaac and Mr. and Mrs, Arth- " Iplaint by a child, from five to 12, that a brother or sister has {taken some of his mo~ey. Often he charge is false. To have a ltrial of the accused child may lead to false testimony and arouse |antipathies between the children. Any punishment growing from this trial may have doubtful or bad effect. ur Harrison of Oshawa and | pearing a complaint by one great-grandson of Mrs. Thomas |opjlq that he thinks a brother or Farrow, Oshawa, and Mrs. |gister has been tampering with Thomas Baldwin, London, Eng- |his money, the whole family land. {should sit down calmly to talk Photo by Ireland |the matter over. It's no time for charges and countercharges bv THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Another good day -- promising advancement in all worthwhile en- deavors! Keep your, mind on im- portant goals, therefore and work toward achieving them. Don't be distracted by non-essentials. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that the coming year will be a good one in which to capitalize on your in- Ch for travel and some any child. new social contacts should|clear that, uate one sees an broaden your horizons between Other person 1 e ne 5 Money 45 early June and early September, things, it 2 0 sale or and happy domestic relationships|Plame anybody. are indicated for most of the grRESS RESPECT year, In this connection, however,| 1p this family council it should BY S2 ven a possible ig be made, Sloar how serious a a y curbing your in-\importan s for everyone in nate spirit of aggression and your mp family to respect the posses- impulse to domineer. These trends sions of every other one. Then a could cause needless friction. Jian might i Jorked ou ere i i , wily by each chi as a 8 - A child born on. this day will tainer for. his money kept at a be loyal and affectionate, but not place known to all the family. especially demonstrative, |" The children might feel happier nate spirit of enterprise. Job mat- ters should progress under plan- etary stimuli and, where finan- cial matters are concerned, you will, in about a month, enter a eycle which should bring great prosperity by mid-1960. You will | have to cooperate, of course. Plan moves with your usual good judg- | ment, and take the long-range view rather than speculate in| hope of making qui¢k gains. Avoid | extravagances, too--especially in| DEAN MARTIN GOES IT ALONE Since he split with Jerry Lewis, Dean Martin has become a first-rate dramatic actor. How has he done it? Read this week's Star Weekly. 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