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FITTED FOR ALL Something new for the round and the short, the tall and the thin, or any shape or size what- ever, is a self adjustable waist- band. It is the latest innovation in shorts fashions and will fit any figure without tightening or lett out. The ones shown are of with generous. cuffs and deep roomy pockets. Two invis- ible pieces of elastic are insert- ed in the waist to allow a two- inch stretch for fuller figures. The same feature insures a trim fit on a smaller midriff. Worn with a classic striped blouse with extra long shirt tails. -- By TRACY ADRIAN. CHILD GUIDANCE A Quick Penalty is Needed When Children Throw Stones MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL ¢ Man Seeks Advice Regarding The Advisability of Marriage Dear Mary Haworth: I am 27, one of your man readers, and I would like some advice on myself and my dim future. I have a heart condition, an aftermath of scarlet fever when I was about nine. My family doctor and others tell me the usual story--I'll live to have gray hair if F follow their orders: take it easy, no smoking, drink or hard labor. I keep these rules. The doctor tells me, over and over, that my only trouble is I worTy too much about myself, which is the worst disease of all and that I am sick only when my sinus bothers me. Many times he tells me, too, that I should marry, settle down and stay home, as this is best for me. Apparently he thinks I run around drinking of hts, because once I told him that I don't care any more about angl) A e problem is -- should I marry. Would it amount to mak- ing some girl a young widow? I am not afraid for myself, but I don't want to hurt someone else in future. I avoid girls, dates and so forth. I could have married twice but didn't. Am I doing the right thing Please answer. E.C. SELF*RELIANCE Dear E.C.: As I get the picture, Jou are the helpless type psycho- ogically, quite apart from having a heart condition. You ,are more afraid of the role of self-reliance, or of carrying responsibilities, than you are fearful dying pre- maturely, should you marry. Possibly your dependent temp- erament is a by-product of family mollycoddling, in the wake of your memorable illness at the age of nine. Or maybe you had a fairly continuous history of childhood ills, culminating in scarlet fever --hence were conditioned to being the center of clucking solicitude in formative years. If so, that ex- perience in itself, unavoidable though it was, may have done more to disqualify you for self- confident living than the heart lesion, which merely required you to manage your actions foresight- edly. It seems you have a cardiac neurosis, an obsessive pulse-taking worry about heart health -- A wretched anxiety about a pre- sumably imminent hour of death. Actually this well known latterday affliction has nothing to do with the heart except imaginatively, inasmuch as countless persons suffer from it, whose hearts are perfectly sound. REAL BENEFITS Whether such neurasthenia re- lates to blood sugar imbalance-- as suggested by Dr. E.M. Abra- hamson and A.W. Pezet in their interesting book 'Body, Mind and Sugar (Henry Holt publishers)-- or whether infantile feelings of insecurity are at the root of it, is an open question. Yet even blood sugar--or rather, the 'S ability to manufacture and utilize it--appears to be subtly influenced by individual morale. Thus by the time melancholia manifests, basic physical and psychological factors may be already interacting, in a so-called vicious circle. - In general, specialists find that persons with car diac neurosis tend, like ulcer patients, to be dependent souls--wanting paternal type sanctuary an uncertain world. And my impression of your case is that you'd be better off married than single, provided you luckily choose a congenial, sens- ible helpmeet. For one thing, good marriage affords steady compan- ionship and devoted care and, for another thing, it invites attention away from self by drawing you into a pattern of participant activ- ity with the partner. Living alone in a vacuum as you do, your mind automatically stagnates in a wel- ter of self-concern. M.H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- sonal interview. Write her in care of this newspaper. CHILD ENTERTAINMENT A child who is sick in bed needs entertainment to help pass the long hours. If he is well enough to sit up, magazines and a few cray- ons with which to color pictures and a blunt pair of scissors for cutting out 'dolls' will help to pass the time for the little one. THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Thursday, June 18, 1953 7 GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES SUNNYSIDE LADIES' AUX. The Sunnyside Ladies' Auxiliary met on Monday with 16 members present. Thanks were expressed to all those who had helped to make the opening a success. The prizes were won by Jo Ann Den- sham, McKim Street, (bedspread and matching rug); Ronald Par- fitt, Eldon Avenue (handmade quilt); Mr. Daniel Riordan, Drew Street (handmade pillow cases). Members were reminded that the meetings would be held the first Monday of each month com- mencing with the next meeting on July 6. Mrs. Clifford Sewell and Mrs. Arthur Crowells won the weekly prizes. Refreshments were served by Mrs. Alfred Goodall and her com- mittee. CANADIAN LEGION AUX. The regular meeting of the | Ladies Auxiliary to Branch 43 of 'the Canadian Legion was held on Tuesday with Mrs. Clifford Pilkey | presiding. Mrs. Hutchinson from Peterbo- rough was present for the meet- ing. One application for member- ship was read and accepted. Mrs. . 'Eric Jacklin read cards and letters PRINCIPALS IN RECENT CEREMONY Mr. and Mrs. George Anthony Oshawa will be the home of Fairhart whose marriage was solemnized recently in St. Greg- ory's Roman ' Catholic Church. Formerly Miss Victoria Ann Maier, the bride is the daughter of Mr. Adolph Maier of Regina, Saskatchewan, and the late Mrs. Maier, and the bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Charles Fairhart of Oshawa, and the late Mr. Fair- hart. --Photo by Hornsby Studio. of thanks. The poppy committee report was given by Mrs. Joseph Wilson. On Sunday June 21 the Legion will cemeteries and all Legion mem- bers who were able were asked to attend. ADEQUATE REST Fatigue can prove an insidious poison that interferes with diges- tion and the body's general me- chanism. Adequate rest is advis- able to prevent or, if necessary, to alleviate the trouble. By having regular retiring and rising hours, with enough rest so that the alarm clock isn't regarded as an enemy, each individual can best decide his own sleep requirements. 1 be placing wreaths at each of the | We Especially Invite the LADIES! To make our store their store when shopping for MEN'S FURNISHINGS Select your gift here for Father on His Day, June 21 OR RAE MEN'S WEAR 10 PRINCE ST. A Few Doors North of King | stones or other weapons, but that By CLEVELAND MYERS Every year, many children are | when he is attacked it is ho~ r- seriously injured by stones, and | sometimes the victim is the child | who threw the first stone. Recently, I received two letters | on the problem of playing and fighting with stones among young children, one from Oklahoma and one from Ontario, Canada. The Oklahoma mother wrote: "We have a problem which in- olves the neighborhood boys, | ages four to six. There are seven | of them in the block, and two of them are my own, four and five. They have begun to throw rocks at each other when angry or arguing. I think I am safe in say- ing that no one child seems to be the trouble-maker. EAGER TO CO-OPERATE "Since this is so dangerous, all of us mothers are very concerned. And we are eager to co-operate in solving the problem. "I have tried every angle I know of--whipping, short separa- the helpless ones from bullies, and able to defend himself with his bare hands. Be very exacting with your own children .in the home in regard to throwing things at each other. The Canadian mother writes of the "untrained children of the district, who do hazardous things such as throwing rocks, but whose parents have no interest in help- ing them. They seem to think that growing up means being the best fighter in the whole neighborhood. "I have a boy, five, and I see that he behaves using your methods successfully. I tell him to use his fists only to protect not to fight for his rights." Commending her, I wrote to suggest she also should encour- age this lad to use his bare hands in self-defence against those of his own age. (My bulletins, *'Quar- reling and Fighting" and "Your Give YARDLEY for FATHER'S DAY because YAKDLEY gives Dad . . . A WELL-DRESSED SHAVE... Lather your face from the Yardley Shaving Bowl. You'll hardly feel the razor as it wipes off your beard. $1.50 «oo With COOL SKIN . , ¢ Child and His Playmates," may be had in a stamped self-addres- sed envelope sent me in care of tion from others involved (bring- ing inside 15 minutes or so), and pis, Rugs Besse Gaol bag me Yardley Shaving Lotion closes the neighborhors for three days after my eldest was actually hurt by one of the rocks. I have tried to reason with them. Nothing seems to stop them for any length of time." 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