" NYLON NET Look as pretty as any of your guests in this sheer nylon net party apron. The Easter holiday season is an entertaining sea- son so you'll certainly want to look pretty yet protect your frocks. This sequin-trimmed style covers right down to your hem- line. On the same leaflet you'll find directions for making three other aprons; dark chintz with MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL Woman Is Tortured by Doubts After Marriage to Divorced Man Dear Mary Haworth: Twelve years ago I was a travelling sales- man, 30, married at th e time. However, my wife had left me, as she couldn't stand being alone. I met a girl (I'l call her Mildred) and told her the truth-- that I was married but couldn't call it a success, and eventually my wife or I would get a divorce. The next year my wife sued for divorce, which was granted (un- contested, six weeks later. In this time I was dating Mildred, and we }| wonderful children, drive two cars, PARTY APRON white ball fringe, white taffeta with red rick rack and diaphan- ous white organdy with gold rick rack. If you would like to have a copy of this leaflet called, four hostess aprons, just send a stamped self-addressed envelope to the Needlework Department of this paper requesting Leaflet No. S SS-114. Miss Audrey Read Honored at Showers Miss Audrey Read whose mar- riage to Mr. Peter Francis takes place today, has been entertained at a number of prenuptial parties. Mrs. Harry G. Palmer, King Street East assisted by Mrs. Wil- liam McLeese, was hostess at a kitchen shower. Miss Joan Jackson, Tylor Cres- cent, entertained, the guests be- ing members of the knitting club. The bride-elect was presented with & mixmaster. Miss Kathleen Sheridan, Rich- mond Street East, was hostess at a miscellaneous shower, Mrs. Marshall Francis entertain- ed at a miscellaneous shower giv- en by relatives of the future bride and bridegroom. The girls from Accounts Receiv- ables, General Motors, co-workers of the bride-elect arranged a din- ner held at the Cadillac Hotel. The fuure bride was presented with a combination waffle and sandwich Miss Lois Campbell, Warren Av- | Mrs. Harold Wells and Mrs. Har- sw old Halliday were co-hostesses at wi a bathroom shower at the latter's home, Miss Hazel Waring present- ed Miss Read with a bride's book. SWEETNESS AND LIGHT A new deodorant that's also an anti-perspirant comes for the very first time in stick form. Watch for it. Grand for travellers, weekend- ers, girls who like 'the slickest, easiest way to use this good grooming necessity. These days most people work under pressure, worry more, sleep less. This strain on body and brain makes physical fitness easier to lose--harder to regain. Today's tense living, lowered resistance, overwork, worry--any of these may affect normal kidney action. When kidneys get out of order, excess acids and wastes remain in the system. Then backache, disturbed rest, that "tired-out" heavy- headed feeling often follow. That's the time to take Dodd's Kidney Pills. Dodd's stimulate the kidneys to normal action. Then you feel better--sleep better --work better. Ask for Dodd's Kidney Pills at any drug counter, 53 See the beautiful new McCLARY REFRIGERATOR with wonderful "QUICK DEFROSTING" You just push a button, Jack "Look for the Store with the Yellow Front" . 68 Simcoe St. N., Oshawa LIBERAL ALLOWANCE FOR YOUR PRESENT REFRIGERATOR OR ICE BOX. EASY TERMS on display now at BIDDULPH APPLIANCES own our home and have an income above average. The situation sounds good--but believe me, it isn't, In our fourh year of marriage Mildred developed the idea that I am some kind of a beast. If I don't get in until 11 p. m., I am accused of being with other women, etc. Her argument is that she knows I'd do it, because I did it with her, when married be- fore. She forgets that I wasn't liv- ing with my first wife at that time. And the fact that Mildred is often out umtil 2 a. m. or later at womens' club parties doesn't make her more reasonable with me. To settle the argument, I've asked her to leave, or I will go. But then she says I am trying to run out on her, which isn't the case, of course. Although she ha everything, she makes life very unpleasant for the children and me, I love my home and the chil- dren, but I can't say I love Mildred any more as she really won't let me. Should I force the issue and get out? Or live in chains because I dated her before my divorce? Id Ske to have your answer. FRIGIDITY FRETS WIFE Dear F. B.: You may be a dif- ficult husband in ways that you don't suspect, or that Mildred can't define, possibly because she hasn't much perspicacity or skill with words. But even so, I think she is causing most of the mal- adjustment here. It occurs to me that she is a frigid woman, deeply disturbed by a sense of inadequacy and insuf- ficiency in relation to you, No doubt she used "sex appeal" as knowingly as she could to attract you during the courting phase, hence assumes that you are vul- nerable and weakly needful on that score--the more especially if you aren't well-loved at home, as you weren't before. It isn't uncommon for a frigid wife to share a flurry of interest in sex in a new relationship, while the novelty lasts, or until she be- gins to resent the "penalty'" (as she sees it) of child-bearing--ted- ious and disfiguring, frightening and fettering, from her view. When she reaches this turning point, she tends unconsciously to reject sex- uality, as brutish male exploitation of her affecions; and a h same time to become disagreeably jeal- ous of her mate. FIRES JEALOUSY Actually the exploitative tend- ency is in herself, in her uncon- scious striving to negotiate a non- self-giving parasitical attachment to a tamed protecor. And her wachful distrust of the ill-used spouse is really a neurotic project- ion of self-reproach. Latently she knows she is giving him a dirty deal, hence she vaguely feels and fears that retribution, in the form of rivalry for his love, will over- take and undermine her. In the circumstances, you need mediator help with Mildred, to save the marriage for the chil- dren's sake if possible. If there is a Family Service Agency in your GROUPS, CLUBS, AUXILIARIES NORTHMINSTER JR. WA The Junior Group of North- minster WA met on Tuesday even- ing at the home of Mrs. Ralph Kimmerly with 36 present. Mrs, William Fitches welcomed two new members and also Mrs. H. A. Mellow. Mrs. Allan Gar- butt conducted the worship ser- vice. Mrs, Garbutt opened with a poem and Mrs. Melville Bell led in prayer. Readings with morals were given on Bible types of modern women by Mrs, -Harry Middleton, Mrs. J. C. B. Mac- Millan, Mrs. Clifford Theberge, Mrs. Douglas Stainton, Mrs. Har- old Hawkshaw, Mrs. Arthur Berry and Mrs, William Baker. Sum- ming it up, Mrs. Garbutt con- cluded with "The Ideal Woman of the Home." . The president conducted the business. Various members of- fered to drive their car to Brook- lyn on Friday evening for the skit the group was presenting under the direction of Mrs. Lloyd Woods, The group agreed to submit reci- pes for the Times cook book. Mrs. Ralph Kimmerly and her group are to be in charge of the WA meeting at Northminster Church on May 6. Mrs. Douglas Burden volunteered to convene the dinner for the Bay of Quinte Conference on May 27 and Mrs. Clifford Kell stated the requirements for same. Refreshments were served by Mrs, Garbutt and her group, and it was announced the May meeting would | be held at the home of Mrs. Harold Cornish. ask how to open Mildred's eyes to her neurosis, and how to int- erest her in getting cured. Or probe the telephone directory for a city or county mental hygiene clinic, which offers advice along these lines. M. H, Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or per- | locality, discuss the problem with |sonal interview. Write her in care a psychiatric counsellor there, and!of this newspaper. NORTHMINSTER WA, GRP. 1. Group One of the Woman's As- sociation of Northminster United Church met at the home of Mrs. Staley Carkeek on Tuesday even- ing with Mrs, R. W. Yeo presiding. The devotional period was led by Mrs. E. S. Dafoe, Mrs. Ira Gil- lette and Mrs, Stanley Disney. Mrs. Yeo welcomed the WA president, Mrs. Ewart Cornish, who was a guest at the meeting. It was decided to continue to make aprons as the demand was so great. Plans were made for a lingerie demonstration to be held this evening at 8 p.m.; to cater for a wedding recention and for the 'old fashioned tea party" to be held at Northminster House on May 20. It was announced that the next meeting would be held at North- minster House on May 12. Re- freshments were served. NORTHMINSTER WA, GRP. 2. Group 2 of the Woman's Asso- ciation of Northminster United Church met at the home of Mrs. C. C. Keeler on Tuesday evening, Mrs. A. K. Sargant presided, Mrs. W. J Langmaid read the scrip- ture. The minutes of the last meet- ing were read by Mrs. E King and the treasurer's report given by Mrs Keeler. Tickets were handed out to sell for the Coronation tea and bazaar to be held on May 27 at the home of Mrs. H. O. Perry, Rossland Road East. Moving pictures were shown by Mrs. J. B. Thompson. meeting will be held on May 19 at the home of Mrs R. Cole. CHRIST CHURCH WA | The monthly business meeting of | Christ Memorial Church Woman's | Auxiliary was held Tuesday after- noon in the parish hall. The president, Mrs. H. W. Ward | presided. Mrs. Allan S. Evans and IMrs James Scarrow led in pray- The next | THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Friday, April 24, 1953 ® er. The scripture was read by Mrs. W. R. Fisher. Mrs J. M E Drum- mond, secretary and Mrs. Herbert Coggins, treasurer, gave their re- ports. The date for the annual spring bazaar and tea was decided to be May 27. Mrs. H. W. Ward, Mrs. Allan S. Evans, Mrs, James Scar- row, Mrs J. M E Drummond, Mrs J. E. Long and Mrs. Herbert Coggins were appointed to attend the 67th annual meeting of the To- ronto Diocesan Board of the Wome ans Auxiliary of the Church of England in Canada to be held in Toronto, May 4 to 7. Refreshments were served at the close of the meeting by Mrs. H, B. Pennell and Mrs. Ernest Pope. 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