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A STURDY LITTLE MISS / . 'Wendy Diane Donabie is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. R. J. Donabie, of Batawa, formerly of Oshawa. Wendy, who was two years old in December is the granddaughter of Mr. Jesse Don- abie of Oshawa and Mr. and Mrs. P. C. Livie of Toronto. Photo by Home Portrait Studio. CHILD GUIDANCE Eisenhower's Early Training ' Is Outlined By Columnist By G. CLEVELAND MYERS The' five Eisenhower brothers, "including Dwight, the President of the United States, had a family life and upbringing that were signif- "icant. © They shared with their parents in worship 'of Almighty God. They "learned home obedience. Not only did they have effectual restraint in their early years, but they were also required to do regular chores and to do them well. They learned to take responsibility when effort was required. They learned to work hard and be thrift. These boys also TRANSFER DESIGNS By ALICE BROOKS Like a fresh spring breeze, these 'sparkling motifs refresh your home beautify linens! Just picture 'the colors--sunny yellow, sky blue and pretty peach. No embroidery, just iron on aprons, guest towels, dres- ser sets. They make such pretty Easy! 'Washable! Just iron on! Pettern 7155 has 8 color motifs from 10 x 4% to 2% x 1% inches. : fend TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins for this pattern (stamps can- not be accepted) to The Daily Times - Gazette Household Arts Dept.. Oshawg, Ont. Print plainly NAME, ADD: , PATTERN NUMBER. y ' Why don't YOU invent a gadget? Every 15 minutes somebody thinks | up something that will get pat- ented -- and thousands more have dreamed up gadgets they've never marketed. February Reader's Digest tells how the Gadget-of-the-Month Club helps amateurs develop and market their inventions. It gives some tips on which fields are wide-open for new ideas (and warns which are overworked) . . . and gives a glimpse of the money and fun to had many opportunities to make choices of their own, their, parents believing that they should. So one gathers from the book, "General Eisenhower, Soldier of Democ- racy," by Kenneth S. Davis. PARENTS DEEPLY RELIGIOUS The Mennonité parents of the Eisenhower boys were deeply re- ligious, and lived their faith in God. The father read the Greek Bible. The mother and boys used the King James Version. The parents never quibbled philosophically over nar- row shades of difference between right and wrong. Some things were clearly and eternally right; some were always wrong, and the boys met decisive punishment for de- liberately doing wrong. The boys were not harmed by too many luxuries. While the father earned a very modest wage at the creamery in Abilene, Kansas, where they lived, the family had sufficient income to supply their simple needs, and they never lived beyond their means. They had a garden and some fields from which the boys sold considerable produce over and above what the family neéded, This money helped supple- ment the father's wages. There was a horse, some cows and other live- stock, which the boys cared for as soon as they were big enough to do 80. RIGID DISCIPLINE Chores began with sunrise in summer, and long before sunrise in winter. Definite chores outdoors and indoors were required. The family discipline was rigid. If a boy failed to do a good job of, say, hoeing the corn, he was at once sent back to do it over, even though it might be late in the evening. Any attempt to play hooky from an assigned chore brought swift, and generally, corporal punishment. Each one knew, therefore, that dur- 'ing work time he must give all of | himself to work. But there was enough tine for play. As soon as he was old enough, each boy went to work in the Belle Springs Creamery. Quite a contrast with the modern theory that the way to get children to learn to help at home is to make the chores so attractive the children will beg to be allowed to do them! (My bulletins, "Teaching Child Respons- ibility" and '"How Train Your Child to Help at Home,"" may be had in a stamped envelope sent me in care of this paper.) MARY HAWORTH'S MAIL When Infantile Mother-in-Law Insists On Stealing Spotlight Dear Mary Haworth: I would like to give Christmas back to the children, where it belongs, instead of dancing attendance on an infan- tile grandma. How can I do this next year? I want to be prepared. For 23 years my mother-in-law's system of celebrating Christmas has made the day a nightmare for me. Each year I've had to take our children, as they came along--one at the age of two weeks, in 20- below-zero weather--to a Christmas tree at her house, where she un- wraps mountains of gifts, while we examine our two or three exchan- ges. Then a quick trip home for naps and to tidy up our tree, and back again to grandma's for dinner at four--a groaning board that she Slaves over, as she emphasizes to all. 4 The children are severely repri- manded if they don't behave--ex- cept for the littlest one, who is always her favorite and can do no wrong. The older children are so tired and bewildered at the day's end that a visit to my relatives, en route home, is out of the ques- tions. Indeed to get home for an early bedtime is almost impossible. Then for days grandma complains that her work wasn't appreciated. I'd love to have a family dinner for "just us. And her daughters would love to take turns entertain- ing the grandparents--and so would I. But always there is her tearful annual reminder that she wan't be with us many more Christmases-- and back we are in the same ordeal. I am nearing the age when the tensions and horrid remarks are unbearable, and to top it all, my husband, her only son, says these awful celebrations must endure as long as she lives. Can you suggest a humane deliverance? V. Y. ACT YOUR AGE! Dear V. Y.: The truth is, you don't have to dance attendance on the infantile grandmothe:, to the extent that you describe-- even if Henry (let's call your husband) feels that he must. The fact is, you simply haven't the adult character and common sense (as yet) that would permit you to chart a reason- able course to accomodate your circumstances from year to year. Your mother-in-law's Christmas policy means that she is trying to blind herself and her children to the passage of time and the alter- ations it works in relationship. Each Christmas she strives to turn back the clock to years when her children lived under her roof, their hearts centered on her--hence the annual summons to a full Christ- mas day with her. The secondary aim of this pro- cedure is to absorb her children's children and their co-parents into her family circle. Thus she seeks to establish dominant claim to them, in a kind of campaign of rivalry against the in-law grandparents' co-equal relationship rights. BE FONDLY FIRM Your mother-in-law is a "mom," by Dr. Edward A, Strekcer's éom- passionate definition in "Their Mothers' Sons' (Lippincott). With- out really loving her children, she clings to them as to the coin of "emotional security," fearful of losing their attention if she relaxes her coercive demands. My advice is to give her sympa- thetic evidence of filial interest the | « | year around, and then at Christmas | cut your visits to one a day--either | morning or afternoon, as you think best when the season arrives. If Henry insists that morning and afternoon visits are binding on him, let him go freely, with your bless- ing--but invoke more leisure for the children and yourself. M. H. Mary Haworth counsels through her column, not by mail or personal interview, Write her in care o* this newspaper. HOLLYWOOD HIGHLIGHTS New Gadget Called "Telemeter" Could Revolutionize TV Business By BOB THOMAS PALM SPRINGS, Calif. (AP)-- This desert resert is the guinea pig for a new gadget that could revol- utionize the movie and TV business. It's called telemeter. Many leaders in the film industry say it's the way to make new movies pay off royally on TV, How? By having people pay to see the pictures the same way many pay for electricity: putting a coin in a meter. The telemeter people needed a locality to prove to doubting Thom- ases that their device could work. Palm Springs was chosen, It had been out of the TV picture due to topography. Nestled at the foot of Mt. Jacinto, the town was hidden from the unbending waves of the seven Los Angeles TV sta- tions. Other resorts 20 miles farther into the_desert could get TV re- ception and advertised accordingly. This was bad for Palm Springs' business. One trailer camp opera- tor reported losing 50 potential cus- tomers in a week. The trailer own- ers drove on to TV areas when they discovered they couldn't get reception on their sets. So the town welcomed telemeter's plan to set up a community an- tenna system. The company's en- gineers rigged a coaxial cable from the highlands down to the town. Facilities now are available to all comers. Installation charge is $150, and telemeter expects to do a land-office business, But bringing TV to blacked-out areas is only part of telemeter's ambitious program. In a month or two, the company plans to equip the Palm Springs sets with meters. Set owners will receive an extra channel with a scrambled picture. By plunking some coins in the meter, they can unscramble the picture and see a new movie or a top sports event. SOCIAL NOTICES ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Alan Burrows an- nounce the engagement of their daughter, Joyce Aileen, to James Douglas Kellar, son of Mr. and Mrs. James Kellar, all of Oshawa. The marriage is to take place in the rectory of St. Gregory's Roman Catholic Church on February 6. 'lon Saturday. TO MAKE THEIR HOME IN OSHAWA In St. George's Anglican | the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Church recently Mr. and Mrs. | J. H. Mayne of Oshawa and the Kenneth Egerton Harris exchang- | bridegroom is the son of Mr, | | aes Harris of Dover, Kent, ed nuptial vows. Formerly England and the late Mrs. Har- Miss Betty Mayne, the bride is Photo by Hornsby Studio. Oshawa Students GROUPS, CLUBS, Attend Youth Forum| pyatiains and OCCI attended the World Youth Forum held in Massey Hall | TWEED GROUP The Tweed Group of the Wom- h an's Association of St. Andrew's by Mr. R. S. Bishop were Grant PS Soph Rich, Jim Sharples, Jim | United Church met on Thursday, Burnett, Ronald McNaught, Doug-|January 22, at the home of Mrs. las po acpougall, Jean McClellen, |p, E; Stewart. Michael Olin, Jerry Thompson, | Marilyn Bootfi, Morley Kalnitsky, | MS. H. BE. Grose. president, Bill Martin, Bob Logan, Randy E . ati Jacobson Katharine Polson | other members of the executive Tho trom ©, £0 >is al the coming year are Mrs. H. se OCCI accompanied | Trew, treasurer; Mrs. D. I. Mac- by Mr. D. I. MacLeod were George |leod, secretary; Mrs. George Maines, Ruth Collidge, Ann Gat- | Richards and Mrs. W, H. Bennett, chell, Tony Leskowsky, Laverne telephone committee. Cathol, Domald OWnyK. Des | "pans fo the comin year's ac Shaw, Lloyd Williams ' Eleanor | 1Yies, A Spring ies aid hobby Gay Beverly Bull David Borna sale, rummage sale, home-baking olive Bovk ' Vs | sale and talent money were dis- e yo, . |cussed. The group intends to con- ' Jepreseliiayves from; Ane senic nue its catering for teas and re- | ceptions. their schools are Grant Stephen- | P son, Jim Sharples, Jim Burnett, SCOUT MOTHERS' EX. Ronald, MeNauglls (Douglas Mac The monthly meeting of the Ex- Boy Jerry Thompoon. Maril {ecutive Board of the Mothers' Booth, Tony Lok ol Donald | Auxiliaries of the Boy Scout As- ol ynyk Bob Aldsworth. Pet | sociation was held in the Athol Stow. Lioyd William Orth, TLer street Scout Hall on Thursday, 2 4 Oy Ams, | January 22, with a fair attendance. | Mrs. W. J. Corbett presided and Canada, Produces ja imple- reports of the different committees ments valued a ,349,000 in| were read. Plans were completed 1951, an increase of $21,000,000 over |for the District of Oshawa Moth- ris. Those from OCVI accompanied THE DAILY TIMES-GAZETTE, Monday, January 26, 1958 7' held in King Street United Church on Tuesday, January 27., It was announced that on Feb- ruary 26 at an open meeting, Ad- miral Sir Richard Bevin of Eng- land would présent the Queen Scout badges to the boys who had earned them. The folldwing events will be held in the Athol Street Scout Hall: January 29, 3rd Auxiliary home cooking sale; February 9, 15th Auxiliary card party; February 26, 5th Auxiliary home cooking sale; February 13, 8th Auxiliary card party in the Hillcroft Street Scout Hall, FRAME HOUSE BURNS WOODSTOCK (CP)--Fanned by high winds, fire Sunday destroyed of Wocdstock district, wellknown Oxford poultry breeder, Loss was estimated at about $5,000, partly covered by insurance. Firemen managed to prevent flames from spreading to a nearby barn. FOR SPRING! By ANNE ADAMS EASY - SEW 'go everywhere" dress is smart in cotton or dres- sier shantung for bridge afternoons. Comfortable sleeve, shirtwaist bod- ice and pockets-in-panels--call this your favorite dress for right now and on into the spring season! Send for it now! Pattern 4848: Misses' Sizes 14, 16, 18, 20; 32, 34, 36, 38, 40, 42. Size 16 takes 4'2 yards 35-inch. This pattern easy to use, simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has com- plete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY - FIVE CENTS (35¢) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted for this 'pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. fond order to ANNE ADAMS, care of The Daily Times-Gazette 1950. lers' Auxiliaries conference to be Pattern Dept., Oshawa, Ont. Anniversary Coup Honored by Frien Mr. and Mrs. William Gardian, Olive Avenue, were at home to a large group of friends and rela tives recently on the occasion of the 25th anniversary of their mar- riage which was solemnized in St. Stanislaw's Church, Toronto, with Father Dekowski officiating. To receive the guests, he bride of 25 years ago, ,wore a two-piece dress of Killarney green knitted boucle and a feathered orchid cor- sage, the gift of her daughter, Genevieve. ' Dinner was served by friends of the silver-wedding bride and bride- groom. An anniversary cake in- scribed, "Congratulations on your 25th Anniversary, Mom and Dad," centred the head table. The toast to the honored couple was propos- ed by Mr. Joseph Halik who was present at their wedding. Mr. Tony Rzadkowski of Toronto also expressed good wishes. Mrs. Gardian is the former Katherine Wodynska, daughter of the late Mr. and Mrs, Phillip Wodynska and Mr. Gardian is the soi of the late Mr, and Mrs. Lukasz Gardian, all of Poland, They have one daughter, Mrs, Gene Rymdzionek, and a son, Rob- ert Gardian, also a granddaughter Wyasmin Rymdzionke. They have lived on Olive Avenue since their marriage. From her husband, Mrs. Gar- dian received a gold ring set v.ith twin whole pearis, and from her daughter, a set of dishes, Out of town guests and those in attendance from C(shawa present ed a monetary' gift, Gift bouquets of colorful flowers were received om Miss Lee Tutak, Miss Sophie atrick and Miss Helen Patrick; also a congratulatory message from Ottawa. Mr. and Mrs. Gardian are mem- bers of the newly instituted Polish Catholic Church being held at pres- ent in the Polish Hall at Eldon Avenue. Guests from Toronto were: Mr. and Mrs. T. Rzadkowski, Mr, and Mrs. 8S. Miuk, Mr. and Mrs. C. Arczewski, Mr. and Mrs. J. Wine bel, Mr. and Mrs. J. Gardian, Mr, and Mrs. W. Ziatarki, and from Brampton, Mr. and Mrs. 8. Dziar- maga, Mr. S. Dziarmaga and Miss B. Asquith. LODGES AND SOCIETIES REBEKAH LODGE NO. 3 The regular meeting of Oshawa Rebekah Lodge No. 3 was held on Wednesday evening N. G. Sister Nelda Thompson presided, assist- ed by VG Sister Alice Hayton who reported a number of sisters still on the sick dist. N.G. Sister Nelda Thompson wel- comed visitors, Sister MacKenny, Brooklin; Sister Gladys Morgan, Rebekah Assembly Musician of On- tario; Sister Eva Hastings; DDP Sister Brooks, DDP of Collingwood; Brother Fields, DDGM, of Barrie, Brother Morris and degree staff. The initiation of the Rebel degree was conferred on two cane didates by Barrie degree staff und- er degree captain,' Brother Mor- ris. NG Sister Nelda Thompson welcomed visitors from Sunshine Lodge 222, Oshawa and Brooklin. Refreshments were served in the Lodge dining hall by Sister Elsie Morgan and her committee. FOR SHORT PEOPLE VANCOUVER (CP)--A new club formed here restricts membership to persons less than five feet tall. The club will sponsor dances and social evenings. - Richard . BOTH FOR 517 home permanent refill kit 28 KING ST. E. 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