PS Ar A Th LSSLH0N Sh AG I INES SN ANE : 1 A -- - - ANT Y ¢ = A i i: Lie "Dear Anne Hirst: Before my husband left for overseas he told me he did not intend to come n EE A and now --he has. written his mother that he iInttends to divorce me.- We were married + five years ago, and have a won- derful son, Until a year ago we got along beautifully, but then he started listening to his mother's complaints about me "and he has been Impossible to live. with ever since. We quar- relled" harshly, and I could do nothing * that pleased him. His family, by the way, never really welcomed me, and relations with them have been strained all through our married life: "Despite "all this I still love my husband. I know he loves the boy who needs a father, too. He sends me no money except the small sum government allot- ment, and for the past couple of months he has not written me at all, though I send him mail regularly. - "I've been. writing to another soldier whom I knew before 1 m-t my husband. He has grown fond of me and my son, but 1 have told him I intend to stick to my husband as long as 1 can. "What shall 'T do? Fight the divorce (my husband has no true' grounds), or let him have his freedom? Shall 1 tell the other man to forget me? He is a {ine person, and my son gets along awfully well: with him. I am only 24. T can't tell my par- ents; they are -old, and 'T don't want to- worry them. I do need help. 7 ANXIOUS" * I have considered your situ- *.ation from every angle, and 1 * * believe it would be a waste of ir Zoo Parade! . Baby friends with all these farm and See how fast makes creas pets! Embroidered in colorful array on a cozy quilt. Use scraps for the gay, little animals, Zoo parade quilt! Pattern 654 embroidery transfers, appliqué pieces for quilt, 32 x 44 inches. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box . 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New Tor- ~ onto," Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. . INSPIRED IDEAS pees and pages of novel designs in our NEW Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Catalog for 1955 Completely different and so thrilling! Send 25 cents for your copy now! You'll want to order many of the patterns shown. back to me and"our little boy, - put asunder.' _ kiah "fighting. He iu * enérgy and money to contest * the divorce. You may be in- nocent of the charges broligh against you, but your husban is detérmined, to get free. If you do fight the case it could result in a lohg drawn-out exe pensive battle, and you cannot sure you will win. 'If that should happen, . you would have your husband back -- but what would it mean? less satisfactory situation than living with a man who does not want to live with you, and whatever the outcome, his family would resent you more than ever for the gesture. Though your husband loves his son, the constrained feeling be- tween you parents would not make for harmony, sters do need a father, but you could not hide the tension that would exist, and its.effect on your little boy might be most unfortunate, . I suggest you tell the other man that you €annot see. him again, or even write, while you are another man's wife. Other- wise, your husband's lawyer could make things most un- pleasant. 'When you are free, vou will have time enough to consider the future. * . - WE RAR AE A AE JL SE JE JR BEE IR NE IF SF IF NF RR SRS Cr Sa Where there is no harmony between parents, children reflect the tension and the family life is threatened. If this situation confronts you, ask Anne Hirst's counsel. Address her-at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. [AG LLSSON R. Barclay -Warren, B.A. B.D. Hezekiah Attempts Reconciliation 2 Chronicles 30: 1, 6-13 Memory Selection: The Lord your God is gracious and merci- ful, and will not turn away his face from you, if ye return unto him. 2 Chronicles 30:9. A sticker on some cars reads, "The family that prays together - holds together." The family altar is unknown in most homes. What a pity! Quarrelling and bickering have no place in a home where the. family prays to- gether. If there arises a differ- ence of opinion, prayer will help to solve the problem. A husband' and wife are on . the verge: of quarrelling should say something like this: "Let's not be foolish. We took each other for better or worse. The 'Bible says, 'What therefore God hath joined together let not man Now let us start reading the Bible every day and praying together. We've: both made mistakes. In sinning against each other we have sin- ned against God. Let us turn from our sins and ask God's for- giveness. Then it'll be natural to forgive each other." The same method will: work in the larger circle, too. realized this' and applied it to obtaining a 'reconciliation with the northern kingdom with whom his predecessor had been' invited them to come to Jerusalem and keep the feast of the passover. Some of those who received the invitation laughed in scorn. But others humbled thhemselves and came, There was great joy in Jerusalem. "Then the priests, the Levites, arose and blessed the people: and their voice was heard, and their. prayer came up to his holy dwelling place, even unto heaven." If we want our tensions. re- "lieved let us turn to God. It is hard to conceive of a Young- , NDAY SCHOOL 'Heze=-- Young Apprentice - Aboard Ship oT want you" Dick sald "Come on here. These two staunchions will Ie your dob. you'll have to polish. morning. Have you ever pqlish- ed staunchions?" " 0; never." ~ Fo "You do it with this sand- paper, which we keep here; and remember, sand-paper can be used until it rubs fo dust. Heave around on these staunchions, now, and let's see how bright you can make them." The two staunchions were the steel staunchions just forward of the after-capstan. To clean them, I had to stand on the grating; it was at this point that I began to understand what a miracle the ship was. I was standing on a grating, a work of art, such as I had never seen. How had men cut and fitted hard white wood so exquisitely into this lattice? The coamings round the grating, -supporting it, were other mir- acles; but nothing to the as- tounding deck. I began now to appreciate the deck; it was of a darkish' wood; and all the deck was laid with it. ., . It was of a hardness which I had never thought wood could have. . . . "Looking at the deck?" Dick said. "It's African oak. When it is wet tomorrow, you can take off your shoes and stockings and slide on it barefoot; it is quite impossible for you to get a splin- ter. Now, heave round." He had given me a tin contain- ing sand-paper, rags, and a sort of brick; I took some sand-paper and 'began upon a staunchion. . Round the brow and the ankle of this steel shaft were plaits - of dark cord, which seemed to have neither beginning nor end; certainly, 1 had joined a miracu- lous world. . . . I. worked at 'my stainchion, which did not become much brighter, because I was so thrill- ed by all that I saw... . "Come, Come. That isn't the way to make a staunchion bright," Dick said. "Just watch me for a moment." Certainly, his method made the steel like silver; I found that I could do it, and that it was great fun. "Those will be your staun- chions, every morning," Dick said. "Now get a bucket from the - manger, fill it at the gangway and don't fall in and drown your- self.' learned a good deal by it; that buckets can have rope handles with fascinating knots on_ them, "that a tide may fill a bucket with a surprising rush, and that when full. of water it can' seem .very heavy to a little-boy's arms, and that what slops over will drown his shoes. --e«¥rom "New, Chum," by John Masefield. Summer Star! 5 ro gi] ~~ 4563 SIZES 10-20 byte Aol ty Perfect topping for your pret- tiest summer fashions! You'll sew this smart little jacket quickly, easily -- love it all season! Tuxedo front and turned-up sleeves are so flatter- ing; the back is a graceful flare, Choose a soft pastel wool -- tan} foes SAE ¥ Rr OP ingly Re FB) Ra ob a i a I did -his bidding, and - BICYCLE BUILT FOR GROWTH -- A bike that both grows Up-and. ~foldy up is demonstrated by Sari Clymas, left, and Chris Vierick. It folds for easy storage, left, and its handlebars and seat adjust to the size of the rider, as shown at right. Flexibility of this bike, imported from Japan, makes it suitable for a youth of any age. HE'S A HERO -- "G.I. Joe," an Army pigeon has been awarded a service station citation as an "outstanding hero of World War I." The .pigeon saved 1000°Bri- tish' trodps from possible anni- hilation at Colvin, Italy, by fly- ing a message to them warning of an impending 'bombing. a Real Hillman Are -These Sherpas From the Sherpa pcople is drawn the corps of porters whose work in all ports of the Himalaya has "commanded the utmost respect and admiration of mountaineers of all nations. Many Sherpas who have become professional mountain porters now live permanently in Dar: jeeling, marches from their home coun- "try of Sola Khombu, In stature they are about five feet six inches, deep but not broad chest- ed, the neck and shoulders well muscled but the arms not. They carry loads on a head-band wh never possible rather than the shoulders. The hair is dark and worn at the back in a pig- tail, - although -the Darjeeling Sherpas have now taken to cut- . ting the hair ghort.. Their skin is a pale brown, not dark; in that respect many of them can- not be distinguished from a South European. They wear a toga like upper garment and trousers - of home-woven wool, and on the feet long Tibetan boots of dull red. cloth, soled with hide, which come up al- most to the knees. . . . Even in high camps the first thing I have often heard in the morning is the chanting' of prayers from the Sherpas' tents. . ... ' The Sherpa people are semi- _ nomadic, The different families have houses "at different levels in different villages, and move up and down according to the - needs of seasonal crops and grazing. It will thus be seen that they get much practice in ac- climatizing, Their bodies in con- sequence adapt themselves to which. is only ten- words, when he remarked that a. very -great deal of what we call education is no more than the substitution of reading for experience of life. Above all, the Sherpa can' laugh. His sense 'of humor is broad.and quick, He + 1s cheerful by nature" (being Mohgolian)- and that is a great help in mountaineering "where conditions are so often uncom- fortable. The Sherpas are indeed . the happiest people I have ever met. Time means nothing to them. . In this they are more 1 . extreme than the Scottish west highlander, who says that when God made time he made. plenty of it To the Sherpa. time does -not seem to exist. -- From "The Story-of-Everest," by W.-H, Mur- ray. CA y 51 £7 HRONICLES VA Gwendoline P. Clarke I am really tired -- tuckered -out, exhausted -- and a dozen more "adjectives might well be . applied. And the reason -- dogs and cats. Or to be more. specific, one five-months-old puppy and two full 'grown cats. Our recent dogless state be- came less and less to our lik- ing so last Wednesday a friend and 1 went down to Oakville to the Humane Society to see what they had in the line of waifs and strays. Honestly, it is - a wonder I didn't come home with six dogs -- there were so "many that were appealing_and needed a home. However, my choicé was finally 'narrowed down to a stray black and white collie, probably about two years .| "and one part: collie' who had been sent in to be sold hecause the owner had another dog that was frightfully jealous, The col- lie was a lovely dog but as he was a stray the caretaker had no knéwledge of his past history: and was afraid he: might stay ~ with us for awhile and then wander away again. The pup, hereafter referred to as "Mac" has all the markings of a Ger- man Shephertl except that his nose is too long and his -ears flop over a bit. But he is as keen as mustard and already he has 'appointed himself as my guardian. . It was after six' when I got home that day. Partner and both the cats were in the house. Mac came in on the run, Up went the cats' backs and for a moment 'I thought the fur was going 'to fly. Mac was friendly enough but not so the. cats. I put them both outside but that wasn't much good. They were just plain curious and came back again as soon as an opportunity . Ginger FARM | \ resented itself. So for two days pero occupied keeping the peace between the dog and the cats, and getting Mac accustom- ed to his new home, That hurdle - is crossed so now I am concen- trating on a few of Mac's less desirable, habits; also grooming Yee 8 day 'and fesding h wice a day an him . '¢verything a dog should have. Right now we are hav- . ing a tussle of wills, Our wood-. .shed has two. storeys. e thi the proper place for a dog the lower part but Mac finds the - uppen:floor more to his-liking, a from it he can run 'into the kit chen every time the door is opened. So yesterday Partner and I rigged up a gateway for the top of the stairs so now our friend must stay where he be- longs -- but under protest. Our visit to the Humane So- ciety Kennel was quite interest- ing and it is certainly a busy place and quite obviously neces- sary and doing good work. There was a variety of dogs -- two big white Samoyeds -- which most of us think of them as sleigh dogs. Another white dog had been brought in for ob- servation as it "had bitten: a child -;another -- a collie -- was in for observation for biting its owner, There was a beagle hound and a number.of smaller dogs and a three-legged cat with three kittens, one of which she wouldn't feed. There: was also a monkey who resented our presence very noisily, Only "a few of the .dogs were strays: Others, like Mac, had been brought in, in the hope.a new "home might be found for them. While we were there a woman came along with a cocker spaniel that was to be destroyed. I asked her what was the matter with it. "Oh, nothing," she an- swered.. YA friend left it with me and I don't want it." As she spoke, the poor little thing, al- ready shut up in a cage, looked up at us. with its big brown pleading eyes. I didnt know how she had the hefrt 'to 'leave it. In another cage there was a beautiful golden retriever pupp, - which had -evidently got itse lost. The caretaker was quite sure the owner wouldiclaim it before very long. Well, the country really has a although from the amount mud there is around you might wonder if the ground will ever dry up. The orloles are back, singing and 'swinging from the -elm trees, and the meadow larks are flitting from fence to fence. And, 'we had our first dish of rhubarb today. Oh yes, and our mysterious friend "Mr. X" has turned up again! He wants to know if there are any more grandchildren. who might like | B AAS AS SANS SENS SSN . : . . * j A an etched glass. Sorry, Mr. X, the answer is "No", But still we haven't forgotten you. Daughter and I were speaking of you the other day and wondering if you were still around . . . and wherel I noticed the postmark on this - letter was "St. Catharine's" but. that doesn't mean much = a letter can be mailed anywhere -it one happens to be out for a i ie ry "Speaking of letters, I am glad ~ we don't "have Toronto mail , service where even local letters take' two days to reach. their destination. If Daughter writes me a letter I get it next morn- ing: It I" write her one it takes - two days. Just one more sample of the advantage We gnjoy by living in the country] suppose slow mail delivery is one reasom why there are, 6 so many long distance telephone calls. 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