woman CAE Wade sin ve Py RS RAR RSI a Perfect tea is so easy to make with ~~ "SALADA" TEA BAGS ¥ "Dear Anne Hirst: Can you pos- | + sibly explain why all my life (and I'm not far from 40) [ have never wm. been able to hold a man' "I've tried to be all that is ex- pected of wom- anhood -- sweet, kind, understand- ing, charming & intelligent. 1 am considered at- A tractive, and have no trouble in attracting equally nice men. "But-- "After an eligible male pursues me, sparing me no end of affec- tion and vague promises, the friend- ship gradually goes havwire. | sense that he becomes bored. Aware of this, I grow seli-con- scious, unhappy, and unable to con- verse on impersonal subjects like world _affairs, politics, sports and other sujects that interest 'men, NO MAN OF HER OWN "1 can only think of things 1 will never have which the average ' eets-----hushband, home, chil- dren. "I am a professional young wo- man. and certainly should be more interesting than a simple house- wife who only can talk food prices, children, and what new clothes or "jewels she can coax out of her hus- band. "Here 1 one will too. late. "Men only seem to look for what they can get, someone to practice lovemaking upon so. they'll know how to~proceed when their own true love arrives. "Do vou think there is hoping the right along before--it is wait, come a destiny that controls our iives? That no matter how desperately one tries to change situations. it is to no ° avail? ) "That perhaps my particular _des- what all wo- get--their tiv is never to have men want and usually --man, anda home of theirown?------ A LONELY GIRL" * "Many a fatalist believes that * what is to be will be, and is con-. * vinced-that it is futile to struggle * agamst one's predestination. * | am not one of these. by Lana Whedon This favorite! And filet-crochiet, which really protects, you know. Ideal Make three chair- backs, use two for scarf-ends. will it's Crocheters! chair-set be the family Chain and double crochet--this is simple to dol Chair-set Pattern 839 has charts; directions. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS. in coins '(stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St, New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NUMBER, your NAME and AD- DRESS. . Send Twenty-five Cents more (in coins) for our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft Book. Illustrations of patterns: for crochet, embroidery, knitting, household = accessories, dolls, tys . ... many Iobby and - gift ideas. A free pattérn is printed in the book. PE LE IE IE RE EE IE TE TE TE EE TE EE JE EE JE REE EE EE -passing you "by? Cheer up! ANNE HIRST | Your Family Counselor * When a woman knows what she wants, I think she should lay her plans to get it. Jirst, deserve it and prepare for it, then use her ingenuity and common sense to pursue the search: One ex- perience after another shows her what not to do, and if she is hon- est enough to admit her mistakes she will make fe wer of them. Frank analysis #1 one's self. is a great help. + Many a girl who wants to land * a man vields to his lovemaking carly, shows a too-fervent eager- ness to oblige him. This is not smart, for the man concludes she has been as free with her favors with other men she knew before him. Other girls snub x man with such hostility that he decides she 1s not capable of emotion. A man can be repulsed so graciously that he feels he does not appeal to her, but that she has too much self- respect to stoop to conquer. 'Some professional women - as- sume an arrogance that is ana- thema to romance. Positive in personality; they cannot discuss any topic without showing how superior they feel. They forget that womanliness, a willingness to listen, judicious flattery, and a sense of humor still can bring a male to his kneés--just as a cozy dinner she prepares herself can dissolve a bachelor's will power, we When a man is low and out of sorts, he turns to the girl he feels at home with, one who asks him no questions, fits his mood like a glove, who is sympathetic and tender at the right moment. She is the girl he wants to come home to--and that .is the real test of his feeling for her. J. Examine yourself ~ as though you - were somehody else. Per- haps that will give you an idea of what is wrong. When a girl has had your ex- perience of fatlure, and alihost LE SE EE EE EE EE + EE TEE JE EE SE EE EE LEE JE IE SE TEE I 3 | * given up hope, and then suddenly -- the right man appears. we like to call it destiny.--And how grateful she is that all the other men she knew passed -her by! Never give up hope. The most comforting thought to hold is that we never know what tomorrow will bring i * * Do you feel that love and life are To- morrow is another day, and per- 5] haps it will bring your dream. Keep ° yourself in the mood for that. and don't despaiir. It may help to write to Anne Hirst. Address her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. -- First Frost First frost comes, and then fine fall days; and then comes winter. [For generations it has been hap- pening this way, and if the farmer says, "It takes a frost to clear the air," he speaks from experience. [First frost, and not long after comes Indian summer; when. time scems to pause a little while, per- haps for the final harvest and a breath-catching before frost strikes deep and winter comes, Thus does the vear turn, any year. "*==The open days, the inviting out- side days, are nearing their end, Four walls and a- fireside are im- portant once ore, or we are thrown back, or soon will be, on our own resources, to work our way through another winter to an- other spring. We must come to know ourselves again There is the budding. and the leaf-spread, and the falling of the leaves, and . the "time of root strength. In each ycar_as well as in -cach lifetime... Now 'comes tlie time for root strength; for deeper understanding and more firm be- lief. As the leaves fall, the essential shape of our.world becomes more clear each day, and so does our relations to it and to ourselves. It is easy to live with a green and growing world. A gray world, with ice and. toothed winds, is quite, an- . other matter. We have to learn to live with it all over again time it comes. But we learn, i That is the heartening thing that we remember after each first frost --that we never quite forget, that the roots are there, and the firm basis of belief. Indian summer comes, and we remember, and wel- come it; and, still remembering; we prepare for the coming winter.-- From The New York Times. cach _ bers of the immediate family Modern Etiquette Q. How does one select the cor- rect implement to use at a formal dinner? A. You need merely: remember that you are 'to take the outside-- that is, the farthest from the plate --spoon or fork first. If the pieces have not. been laid in this order, the fault is that of the person who. set the table, and not yours, are in doubt, wait until your host or hostess has picked up his or her implement, and do likewise. * *® * When one is in the presence of another person and a telegram or message is delivered to him, which he must read at oncé, what should he say? A. "Will you excuse me, please?" * * La Q. What would be the best way for a man to introduce another man to his wife?" A. "Mary, this is Mr. (or, Bill- Johnson)." . * y Johnson Q. Is it necessary that one apol- ogize for writing a letter to a friend on the typewriter? A. No. not at all. Typewritten notes today are acceptable for so cial correspondence, Exceptions would be--bread-and-butter letters, * thank-you notes for presents re- ceived, and letters of condolence, when" hand-written messages are in much better talte. + + Q. Who are correctly asked to serve as pallbearers at a funeral? A. Six or ecight men who are close friends of the deccased. Mem- are never chosen, as their place is with the women of the family. If you~ 1 Not Snowdrifts, But "Mold-Drifts" -- This model "town", built on a large culture plate by GE engineers at Nela Park, was left for a few days in a warm, humid atmosphere. Mold began to grow-- _the same kind Mama sometimes finds on stale bread. But a small germicidal lamp was_left shining-on the model. No mold grew where the lamps ultraviolet light shone, but in the shadows cast by the buildings and trees, green and white mold . grew rapidly and thickly. The effect was the same as in late winter, ~ when snowdrifts in the shadows remain unaffected by the sun. So the "snowdrifts" in this picture are really "mold-drifts." oy "GINGER FARM by Guandoline D Clarke We Light Sussex feather quickly, get to be a good weight at maturity -- and are the most persistent broody hens I ever knew. We had them once--and once was enough. N.H.X.B.R. hybrids are quiet, good layers and not Too heavy or tog broody. New Hampshires--their peculi- arities we have 'Yet to find out as this is the first time we. have tried them. haven't raised any chickens at all since we acquired (Honey, Ww ell, I suppose the weather for oir Fille - cocker « spaniel. Several the holiday week-end did not please times I have wondered what would anyone but the farmer--and we happen had we tried since spaniels certainly ~needed. rain. Personally arc esseatially bird dogs. Honey proves.it--she simply ignores squir- rels but she chases sparrows, pig- "1 thought anything was: better than that spell of unseasonable heat. 85 in October--that surely is one for the, record! Incidentally on the cons and starlings as if to the hott d ) f manner born. So. what would she De fost id or gh 0 inter have done with chicken? Partner al arrive oh. 4 8+} 0g. {OF the weekend but daughter and says Honey has recently developed other habits so he has. nicknamed her "his great protector." Recently we have had two little: heifers in the backyard and whenever Part- ner comes up from the barn they- come running towards him, Honey, apparently, thinks they are out to attack Partner--so Honey puts the. calves to rout--or tries to. Well, we still haven't got chick- ens but we did move twenty old hens from the barn pen over to the brooder house. Since then I have been taking Honey with me when I' feed the hens--right into the pen itself. She sits just inside the door, after being told to "stay there," and cousin Betty went to Buffalo. Sunday night a friend and I went to the 60th Anniversary service of a village church where this. friend of mine' was brought up, The church 'was packed to the doors, morning and night, despite the fact of it being a terrible day--cold, windy and wet. Somehow the spirit of by-gone days seemed to be there -- days when the little village church was the centre of community life. Many who had once belonged to the con- gregation but had™ since moved away were back' for Anniversary Sunday. Friends who had not seen warm. "double boiler, How .Can I? By Anne Ashley Q. What is an easy method of bleaching linens? A, One of the easiest methods is by freezing. Thoroughly wet the yellowed handkerchiefs, napkins, and other linen articles, and hang them out until they have frozen - "stiff. They will come in heagtifully white and smell fresh and sweet. : * * * Q, How can I hasten the growth sof "plants? A. Make a mixture of 1 table- spoonful of Epsom salts and %- gallon of cold water. Dissolve thor- -oughly. Pour this solution over the roots of the plants and it will has- ten; their growth. i * * * Q. How can I prevent costume jewelry from leaving greenish marks on my skin? A. The jewelry should be wash- ed in warm .water and baking soda occasionally. Rinse and dry care- fully, ; > * * n © Q. How can I remove spots and stains from silk without injuring the color? A. Take five parts of water and six parts of alum, well pounded. Boil a short time, and then pour into a vessel to cool. Previous to using, the mixture must be made 'Fhen-wash the stained parts and allow to dry.- * * * Q. How can I prepare creole potatoes? A. Add minced gyeen pepper, a little corn, and a f lima beans, with strips of pimento, to boiled potato cubes, and cream in the * ® % Q. How can I fasten an umbrella handle that has become loose? A. Fill the hole in the handle with powdered sulphur. Then heat the ferrule and push it into the sul- phur. The handle and the: ferrule will be firmly fastened within a few minutes. e INDY SCHOOL | h sox LESSON By Rev RB Wasson B.A. B.D. The Hebrews in Slavery Exodus 1:7-14; 2:23-25 Memory Selection: Be strong, fear not, behold your God will come --and save you. Isaiah 35:4. Jacob's family numbered 70 when they settled in Egypt. Four hundred years later there were about 600,000 on foot, that were ; them, "But the more they afflicted them, the more they multiplied and grew." That is a significant state- ment. They were God's people and they prospered in ad- versity. It is useless to fight against God. The Psalmist was---right-when he said, "Surely the wrath of man shall praise Thee." (76:10)/ Then 'came the time When the people of Israel began unto God because of their bond- "And God heard their groan- age. 1 ing, and God remembered His covenant with Abraham, = with Isaac, and with Jacob." The dis- ciplines of adversity had- moulded ~ Some remem- them into .a nation, promised to bered the. heritage "their forefathers. "There is, au limit to the length - of time that a people can endure oppression. The. desire for freedom will finally assert itself. When the oppressed begin to pray, then de- liverance will surely come. Already there are rumblings of a beginning of a struggle for such freedom be- hind the iron curtain. If people pray. God will help' the oppressed today just as He has always done. Aches AND PAINS ¢ oF HERE 'e coll Uick COMFogy, And ¥ Como, RELIEF IS LASTING There's one thing for the headache + « . the muscular aches and pains that often accompany a cold . . INSTANTINE. INSTANTINE brings really fast relief from pain and the relief is prolonged! 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They are nice birds--so sorrow, have - developed tame and quet you would think cach one had been raised as a pet. Funny the difference there is in the different breeds of birds. Speak- a greater sympathy for their fel- lowmen--and greater "for service. ing from out own experience we ) For Lengthy Use find Plymouth Barred Rocks are Garden markers are now being good, general purpose birds, al- made in Vinylite plastic and can be though' they feather slowly and go reused often. Said to Hold their broody very quickly. White Leghorns are nervous bid- dies and fly all over the pen if they are startled in any way. Even . shape in hot or wet weather, mark- ers are held by a 14-inch noncor- rosive steel support, whilg the label is tilted for easy reading. Resistant scattering the scratch grain will to vegetable oils, kerosene, chemi- often scare them. 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