Even those battered children who escape their parents‘ hatred and survive into adulthood (or who are rescued by welfare agencies) are so damaged in personality that they can never have normal responses to other people. Sometimes their ability to love and accept love has been completely destroyed. They trust no one, like no one and expect no one to like them; they are aliens in a world that rejected them when they were born and allowed them to be tortured. when they were helpless, and now that they are stronger, they declare a silent war on life. At the least, they lack all compassion; at the worst, they inflict the horrors they endured, on their own children. There is a cherished belief that the biclogical act of parentâ€" hood automatically brings with it all the love and responsibility that children need. and that parents who abuse their children in any degree can be taught to behave properly by means of a few lectures or threats. Studies of this "battered child syndrome" indicate that neither of these assumptions is true. We all know people who are parents in name onlyâ€"and who don‘t learn from repeated parenthood: welfare agencies report that bad parents who claim thov have changed and now love their children and want them boâ€"&. behave in just the same way as before â€" and sooner or la‘s: ne child ends up in hospital again. Unfortunately, much of the cgislation in Western society which was created to protect chlidren is based on these now outmoded ideas and such fine agencies as the Children‘s Aid still work on the assumption that "a child prefersâ€"to be in his own home (even if a bad one} cather than in a foster home," which is why children are returned time and again to parents who are unfit even to look after pigs. I remember a classic case in Toronto some years ago. which was settled on this fallacious pri®iple: a young Dutch couple allowed a childless hushand and wife to adopt their twin sons soon after nirth. They did this, they claimed, because at the time they couldn‘t afford to keep them. Some vears later they went to court to regain custody of the bovs who KN@W no ather naranie thaw aho rolll couple who nad adopt maturai parents becau parents over adoptive THE ADVERTISER â€" Thursdoy, Sept. 10, 1964 â€" Page & Drought to Colorado General Hospital with parentâ€"inflicted injuries. Figures are not available for Canada but we have abusing parents workers call "abusing parents" and it made my soul cringe. A father wrapped a newspaper around his 4â€"yearâ€"old son‘s arm and set it on fire, sending the child to hospital with thirdâ€"degree burns; out of 2 family of six children, two boys were hospitalized for broken bones, a girl for a knife wound in the arm, a baby for mainutrition and three bite woundsâ€"human bitesâ€"and another baby for drinking kerosene. Two of the small children finally arrived in hospital dead from what were vaguely desoribed as accidents. All this happened over a period of three years. When the children were finally removed from the parents, the mother had another baby and this child also died under mysterious cirâ€" cumstances. Sometimes only one child out of a family is horribly abused; in one family a little boy was chosen to be the scapegoat and he was systematically starved (the other four children were encouraged to take food from him), burned with lighted cigarettes, beaten with a steel wire, refused all treats or recreation and finally his mother tried to hang him. He was brought to the hospital more dead than alive. Other parents burned their children with lighted cigarettes, scalding water, hot stoves; beat their children with their fists or kicked them with heavy work boots; bit them or broke their limbs by hurling the child against a wall. "The world is full of violence and we all learn to live with it and protect those we love from it to the best of our ability, but the violence that is done to little children by their own parents is unbearable. 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Wed In Islington Church parents, ore T} By JOAN SEAGER _society which was created to now outmoded ideas and such still work on the assumption wn home (even if a bad one) h is why children are returned n Ihis subject acvdless of cir CANADIAN MODERN ACCOUNTING, Part 1 TRANSCRIBING MACHINES REFRESHERS PHONE FOR NIGHT SCHOOL RATES r parer turned to then favour natural umstances. I‘m 1an 36 40 40 48 52 56 weeks weeks weeks weeks weeks weeks ng Etobicoke Reeve John P. Macâ€" Beth, and Robert Speck. Reeve of the Township of Toronto, are among distinguished guests inâ€" vited to the second annual outâ€" door exhibition of paintings and sculpture which will be held at Valhalla Inn, Etobicoke, on Sepâ€" tember 11, 12 and 13. The exhibition will be officially opened on Friday evening, Sepâ€" tember 11, by the Hon. Stanley J. Randall, Ontario Minister of Ecoâ€" nomics and Development. Folâ€" lowing the opening ceremony, Mr. Randall will be presented with an oil painting for display in the new Ontario House in London, England. This particular painting is a view of the plaza of the new Toronto city hall, with the old civic building in the background. l1 is the work of Toronto artist Stephen Nyilas During the three days of the of vellow chrysanthemums The groom was attended by his brother, Vincent Badame as best man, and ushers Peter Parissi, Raymond Bernys, Miâ€" chael D‘Amico. Following the ceremony a reâ€" ception was held at Anthony‘s Dining Lounge where the bride‘s mother received guests attired in a dusty rose silk shantung gown with matching hiplength silk lace jacket and tufted organdy hat trimmed with matching lace and wohite accessories. The Other invited guests include C. M. Murray, Deputy Reeve of the Township of Toronto. Carl Madâ€" gett, M. D. Henderson and W. Courtney. Representatives . in both the Provincial and Federal Governments expected to attend include the Hon. H. L. Rowntree and Mrs. Rowntree and the Hon. Paul T. Hellver and Mrs. Hellyer. The bride‘s sister Miss Carmeâ€" linda Verdone was maid of honâ€" or. Miss Nancy Ditoscia, Mrs. Janet Pariss:i, Miss Marie Baâ€" dame were bridesmaids, Miss Carmelina Molle was flower girl. Their floorâ€"length gowns of aqua, holiday crepe had a panel that draped in the back of the empireâ€"line gowns. Matchâ€" ing rose headpieces adorned their hair and they carmied bouquets of vellow chrysanthemums Given in marriage by her faâ€", ther. the bride chose a fullâ€"| length empire gown of ripetide.| The front of the A line gown was | appliqued with lace flowers A| chapel train draped the back from the empireâ€"line obi sash A large rose headpiece held her‘ bouffant veil in place. She carâ€" ried a charming bouquet of yelâ€" low mums and white roses. o look after their chaldr they voluntarily surrende should not have uphe‘d There is no worse against their children. WJ ally sterilized and impris mais. A child is a sacre The church was beautifully decorated . with standards of w hite and yellow chrysantheâ€" mums, w hile members of the Saint Michael‘s Cathedral Choir enriched the ceremony of the nuptial mass agains ally st mals. for ar The wedding of Ines Maria Verdone. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Aldo Verdone of Etobicoke, and George Andrew Badame, son of Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Badame of Long Branch, took place recently in Our Lady of Sorrows Church, Islington, with Rev. Francis Hogan officiating. Presented by Over 3000 paintings, sculpture and other works of Canadian art on display and available for purchase. On the benutiful grounds of the CARLING PLANT Highwoy 401 at Airport Road KIWANIS CLUB OF THE KINGSWAY anyone Islington Artists To Exhibit At Nordic Court Art Show Opening Ceremonies 6:30 p.m., Friday, Sept. 11 This weekend . Admission 50c (Children under 12 Free) Demonstrations of arts and cratts ny AUTUMN FESTIVAL OF THE ARTS who SEPTEMBER 11, 12, 13 plus exciting entertainment outdoor art exhibit in North America. abus FREE PARKING When d risoned ed hen ir t parents in this instance were unfit ut it was feli by many people that their rights to the boys and the law when they changed their minds. e than that committed by parents liscovered. they should be automaticâ€" for life, or destroved like mad aniâ€" ist and no punishment is too harsh . visit the largest Mr. and Mrs. George Andrew Badame posing happily followâ€" ing their recent morriage in Our Lady of Sorrows Church, Isâ€" lington. Bride is the former Ines Maria Verdone, doy@hter of Mr. and Mrs. Aldo Verdone, Etobicoke and groom |%he son of Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Badaome, Long Branch art exhibition Ruth Watson of Winchester street will demonâ€" strate her technique of portrait painting. Reputed to be among the world‘s top portrait artists, Miss Watson has displayed her work in various parts of Canada, Bermuda and the United States. Ia addition, a number of Etobiâ€" Mrs. Joseph W. Spence was hostess to the executive of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Metro Toronto Pharmacisis when they met recently. groom‘s mother assisted wearing a gown of wedgewood blue broâ€" cade with silver threads. A panâ€" el draped the back of her floor length gow n. Her matching headpiece was fashioned into roses with white accessories Tea & Bridge Planned By Auxiliary Imc coke residents will be repreâ€" sented in this art show. These include William Earls of Indiaâ€" nola Drive, Ella Grace of Branâ€" caster Court, Faye Kerns of Conifer Drive, Owen Brown of the West Mall, Ann Grimm. Eric Mellish, Jane Magill and Chrisâ€" tine Long, all of Islington. For their honeymoon trip to Quebec the bride changed into a pink dupuoni silk suit with matching waist length cape, a petal pink hat and black accesâ€" sories. The couple now reside in Cooksville. The art show will be outdoors in the scenic and floral setting of the Nordic Court at the Scandinavianâ€"type, motor hotel. Hours of this unique art show will, be from 11.00 a.m. until sunset during the three days and there is no charge for admission. SCHOOL o DANCING register now for FALL TERM . . . STUDIO OPENS SEPTEMBER 17th Photo by Yamada _ The Women‘s Division of the {Canadian _ National Exhibition has received more than seven ‘hundred entries in the annual ‘baking and home canning comâ€" |petition this year. En‘ries were ‘judged by a panel of fourteen judges working in teams of two _ Lydia Chase Ranney was an American who, came with her husband to farm in the area around Ingersoll, Ontario. Lookâ€" ing around for a source of reâ€" venue while her husband hackâ€" ed a farm out of the wilderness, she decided upon teaching. But when her older pupils marched away to fight William Lyon Mackenzie, she was obliged to look around for something else to do. Finally, Lydia decided to make cheddar cheese, a skill she brought to her new country from her native Vermont. The lush grass of the surrounding counâ€" tryside imparted a special tang to the cheese, and it wasn‘t long before Lydia‘s â€" cheeseâ€"making not only established her own faâ€" mily‘s fortune, but also revampâ€" ed the whole economy in the area around Ingersoll. Bottled Canadian ched d ar cheese spread is the main charâ€" acterâ€"ingredient in these moist, delicious Cheese Pan Buns. They would make a wonderful accomâ€" paniment for soup, eggs, fruit or seafood salad. And they can be served in a variety of ways, fresh from the oven, cold on split and toasted. Canadian cheddar cheese, now recognized the world over as a‘ gourmet‘s dish, first grew out| of a skill brought to Canada oy‘ en immigrant of a century and a half ago. | in the East Auditorium of the Grandstandâ€"and it took most of the day to complete the job Although entries have been received from British Columbia, Saskatchewan and New Brunsâ€" wick, most participants are from Ontario. In some classes entrants feel that the cakes and pies should be baked within 24 hours of judging time and since they must be delivered to the CNE by 10 am. on the day of judgâ€" }ing. many bake through the eveâ€" ning and drive half the night to get to the Ex on time. Savor The Flavor That Made Ingersoll Famous Most of the annual features have been repeated this year, but there are five adult and one junior special competitions. The best entry in the Yeast Bread and Rolls class by Mrs. G. Humâ€" phrey, 349 Woodfield Rd., reâ€" ceived the Special Chatelaine Award of $25. Her entry was white bread. Iced coffee cake was a new class this year and the award of $15 for first prize was donated by A&P Co. Ltd. It was won by Mrs. A. Wilmer, 50 Cambridge St. Galt Jams. jellies and marmalades were eniered to compete for a Certo Award. The winner, Miss Hot or Cold Culinary Skill Displayed in Home Baking Competition Yield â€" 32 buns cups milk tablespoons granulated sugar teaspoons . salt tablespoons shortening cup (‘2 pound jar) process Canadian Cheddar cheese spread CHILDREN 3 YEARS OF AGE AND UP 6th ST. AT LAKE SHORE BLYD. W. THURSDAY, SEPT. 10 â€" 3:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. SATURDAY, SEPT. 12 â€" 11:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. CHEESE PAN BUNS WEST POINT HALL REGISTRATION AND INQUIRY C.S.D.A., A.G.V.A. 4 cup lukewarm water 1 teaspoon granulated sugar 1 envelope fast rising active dry y>ast 6 cups (about) preâ€"sifted allâ€" purpose flour Scald milk; stir in the 2 tableâ€" spoons sugar, salt, shortening and cheese spread. Cool to lukeâ€" warm. Meantime, measure lukewarm water into a large warm mixing bow!l; stir in the 1 teaspoon suâ€" gar. Sprinkle with yeast. Let stand 10 minutes, then stir well. Stir in lukewarm cheese mixâ€" ture and 3 cups of the flour. Beat until smooth and elastic. Work in sufficient additional flour to make a soft dough â€" about 3 cups more. Turn dough onto a floured board or canvas The Adult Cooking Feature competition for dill pickles was won by Mrs. Fred Hinan, Lynâ€" den, Ont. Prize $25. Cherry pies were a popular eontest item; forty pies were enâ€" tered." Miss Pauline Miles was also winner of the $25 prize in this class. Special Junior Baking Competition item was a twoâ€" layer sponge cake with any fillâ€" ing and the prize was $15. The winner was a boy, Roy Wilmer of Galt. tlour to make a solt dough â€" about 3 cups more. Turn dough Doc'orS‘Lawyers onto a floured board or canvas # and knead until smooth and Must conspll’e To elastic. Place in greased bowl. # Grease top. Cover. Let rise in Keep US AlIVB Pauline Miles, 214 Rusholme Rd., Toronto, won the Certo Trophy and $25 for orange marmalade. MICHAEL KIRBY I€E SKATING IT‘S FUN TO LEARN OPEN HOUSE â€" SEPT. 13 â€" 2 TO 5 P.M. HOCKEY CLASSES RED KELLY PROFESSIONAL INSTRUCTION ALL AGE GROUPS â€" PARTIES BEGINNERS â€" EXPERIENCED SKATERS _â€"_ ICE SKATING SCHOOL 4217 Dundas St. West â€" BE. 3â€"1228 CHEESE e ACROBATIC e TOE e MODERN JAZZ Sponsored by PAN BUNS a warm place, free from draft, until doubled in bulkâ€"about 1% hours. Punch down dough. Turn out onto a lightlyâ€"floured board or canvas and knead until smooth. Divide dough into 4 equal portions. Shape each porâ€" tion into an 8â€"inch roll and cut into eight lâ€"inch pieces. Shape each piece into a smooth bail. Place 16 balls of dough into each of two greased 8 or 9â€"inch square cake pans. Grease tops. Cover. Let rise in a warm place, free from draft, until doubled in bulk â€" about 45 minutes. Bake in a moderately hot oven (475 deg. F.) 25 to 30 minutes. An old saying. often used by members of the legal and mediâ€" cal professions, states, "If your family physician can scare you into taking care of your health and your lawyer can scare you into behaving yourself, you‘ll live a long and fruitful life." Call CREDIT MANAGER at CH. 9â€"7523 1958 Olds. Hardtop Full Price $27 Monthly $543.