WAI l HU!)(.HIONI(ILE ' Wednesday Mirth 25 £015 - 9 L_ ,,,..,,,,a , ,, V ~ ~ ‘ ' ° f d j i iii llzlts to THE CHRONILLh t L1v1ng or to ay ___ ___.. __ .__. _____ ____. _. _.,kï¬,_._ __ . . ‘ Government, ShOUId tloii‘t torgetr the\ Will still require should not he the ultimate law of more thall a lync [3th US With C‘51 warrants horn tourts do take their how we live, hut rather the old sayâ€" l am responding to the letter At HUI“ “It â€Us†“D“ unto “ill?“ 1“ W“ WUUlLl ohn lennon once said: “l.ile is what happens while you I figural,“ the “mummy,†\ “at llits \‘t't's|tl|l ot the hill may not have them do unto you.†r are busy making other plans" Paula Henriemeer. 22 “la“ i - ( at he perlet tr hut it (an aluays he ‘llltlUrIllnillt‘ly our enemies don‘t old. W3; trw’ng to “Klâ€? out what to do with her life’after â€up,“ w,“ A“. putting â€ll-g“ illllt‘lltlt'll iii the hittire to ï¬t the K'lll’ ahide by either (it the ahovtn so universtt\ when doctors told her the\ discovered tumours on r immoral or inllaniiitaton remarks rent situations that Will arise, or to must be countered in other ways. ‘ hwmianiix ' , that tould present a danger to out â€N“ M“ “JFT‘TUUH‘ “f ehanges l dl‘“ l")l“' [hill â€ml" â€l U‘ are Oncologists were halfled that a woman so voung could l minim on lat ehotik or iii emails I â€W "W1†W “A"? a“ 1“ lWlll'W that “0 (â€W have such a high“ aggressive “be of ovarian eatteer, fen Yeah l m. nâ€; “mp-rem,“ \r)“|' great tear I would preter to teel the_\ are l'dll or does cheek the Internet and i “K“ on April 1200; Paula died peatelullv surrounded In t ()f'1‘|\]],g[}]|]\ll\~‘l]1’\tl “a, it a to doing something rather than pre all its forms rightnow. lam Certain l “munâ€! home. ' ’ pron-tr otir totintr\ thetlt out mitt “WWIâ€?! â€WW H â€0 “WNW? 1†â€11“ that “W†If “l†â€W†government ‘* l Paula was a student of mine in a drawing tourse I taught at ï¬les at random l‘ff'l‘lt‘l†“New" “1“ lilfl'dll,‘ “WW not doing “t “1h†g""“"â€â€"‘“" l Wilfrid laurier Universitv She was also the ï¬rst subject I wrote l It is not lllu'l sis has nothing that lSIs toitveris tan strike am prohahly are and I Wish them all i about when l was given‘the â€mum“, l)t'lll‘l to do than read otir llllll\l(l “NW“ at (“H “NW and 11“ W l†“l†â€W lUCl‘ l“ the WW“ at being able HI[\‘ to mate a column for this news- w â€" l “at tun-mp, â€alumni†"(mm “M tapital ( it\ to do this sort of thing to help keep i Pal-"T nine years‘ ago next month. I to kill time Ihe\ are otil\ sl‘t‘lilllg |\l\ is the one spreading learr otir world a hit safer Asl reflect, I'm reminded ol’l’aula's \l l ‘\r ‘ K ‘ l ; _. “t m“; and ‘ het p and a â€w my,†hut unless all gtnerriments take lwtll also het‘ontatting ntylot‘al enthusiasm for the visual arts. as she , ‘ stop heuple trout musing harrii to «U “0†“kt" «Wilda wants “L “I“ d“ Ml) 1" WWW“ hl‘ vote 1†favour of would often arrive an hour earh,r for ll \‘ â€m ( â€um“ so initiiediateh‘r it totiltl he (lisasâ€" this hill. “a“ Alone m the studio. gm, worked n mu read U, hm, the â€H“ to“ trous tor st) main and in so main It lets me sleep better at night i diligently- while “£0ng to the music ‘ ritiist knots that these are most WW“ knowtng W“ M" duinu somethtng l ollohn lennon. She was often the last '. unusual “In“ and rm- “mam“ Ar.» Hail to understand the horriï¬t ahottt this situation rather than to leave 3 V4! hrutal l"â€â€™l’l" “ht,“- Mm “1-H“ n) tear ol it "stolaiion" ol otir (ham-r doing nothing lhis commilmpm to my course , N l he to talu- met the norld and rtiri it NY “lull“ MW†“W“ din ordinary gave its manv opportunities to talk a h\ then tmrt xersiiin tit terror New)“ “Wt“ ld‘“ “Wlm l‘ "W the t We dismissed music, her favourite I atri slltt‘ the titl‘sl'tlllllt‘lll “Ill “till“ “l l‘<"'l‘lt’l by WWIâ€): PM“ hands hooks and ï¬lms In the blog -'l’l"'|â€' U, “up some urn-“mm other in riiaiit hateful wats Mary Klpl'cl' ‘ she gram-d m 2002 em. wrote that my _ l litith assumed to titerseet sis and Perhaps the ( hatter of Rights Waterloo “a“ was her favourite ' l ~ 7 -- â€7 77 â€" â€" â€" â€" 7 ,_,77,., ~â€"~A It was while completing her double MARSHALL ‘ l o o a mayor in sot’iologv and ï¬ne arts that WARD ‘ One Of my favourlte things â€" VOlunteerlsm t l‘atila realiyed there was something w" 7 ï¬-q i l wrong. In an entry dated Der, My 3003. she wrote "As oftodat l t ll‘ttllllllt‘ rhiiiu illltllll t rii,,n|.'m\r lhe total ol 33 Tl: hours iii mediation. (Ullllltl triathing no life at the age ol 3) reathed a toniplete turning point I l M “M Mi t an i,. “an mu...“ it,†in the â€m and t ttllllllllllll\ ediitatioti ‘ lhnl'tWilflilll rant er " «rt tit turner tittittiiiritg and grownup all lhese tttiiithers are staggering when mu think of l l lrom that point on, Paula used her hlog to keep friends and lltt‘ “in Mien sllllllt tilt tsiili ti ltlll'l glimpse tit the ltnpat t on iittlnidttal ll\t"s and thet llllllllllllll) l l supporters informed on the status ot her health proVidiiig Us 1 slllisllltlr and th. sot.riilitt~iielririt1sritm or are ltlt'tlds and laiiith have a huge tiripart on voliiii l nith tip to date news til her surgeries her treatnienisr her llttltslt‘t'lllt‘ll lll'ii iht lliii-tl li-tpetiil people on the teensâ€! ltttlnitliials “ho “I‘ll" IIlWIlH'tl in the tutti hopes and fears til grim ittiitiio as r liilrlreti through their t him ht sports. arts In early entries \l|t‘ t'ldmlnt‘d her spiritual beliefs about t in†tti Hi li it l'l,llt n i and titrtts with t , or st hool are more lilreh to volunteer as death and dying \s time moved along she shared her stories rziisrit t'o l‘lllli'ilv tsirlt h zirlllllt'ss lr‘t‘llllg ‘ “I |\‘ adults I watt hed on own mom and dad ‘ trt mhatistitig l hetttotheram and let-hogs ol iiiinetv and hits wiltuist tl tit ‘l lll‘ll‘. 'r‘l!lllttlrtlll\ _ ~ ‘ volunteer non stop as I made on \\.t\ I nation over her ltiss ol indepetitlerite \iid in late 2004 sllt‘ my,†“wt“ r ~‘ mâ€, “Wt W'l‘ H†w†S(l\\ through hrowtites, tonipetitite sports ‘ ‘ stopped “tiring her blog altogether her tinting int reasiiigh â€nits t‘rttt tor zts t-irtt 'lll‘ t‘lt'lllllilllll“ and assorted st hool minutes Ihope iii\ insareoltltlï¬ttilrtruthsandthegraserealitt otrhesttiiatton het tttnt lllt‘lltlllll as so lllr r: tip \\!lll thildrert dl't"sllrlll-Irl\‘lllllllt’llt ed [was torttiitate to speak With l‘aula on the phtiiie shortlx “mun no“. tttll “Minn“ P ‘\lrrltlsl El) pet tl‘lll ol wiltiitteeis get helote her passing and what astounded me most ahttiit lllt \l\ "llltl llvltlllill‘ itiiriti ilthlll i aria ~ ‘ ll)\’ttl\t'\l lwtatise ol the sot ial lieiieï¬ts It ‘ i Hl|\l’l\.llltlll was her unwavering l'lllllllsltls'll \\llllt‘ fll\ . titans ‘ i ll)! t ittltllllllllt‘til in utlirnieeriritg t 4, makes good sc'rtsr, as \oltiiiteerin)1 hiiilds ‘ ‘ missing art and miisrt despite her strained llrt‘ttlllllltl anil \1l\ll than l : <ttilltttn purple > ‘ ‘ trust, trieattiiigttil relationships and ( oiri diminished \t)|t(' at t taintinti lot I l" r i t nr or t anathttn, V llllllllth tiiitiet redness “It that dat her desire to hear ahotit tll\ art t lasses and aural l t and int r sttllllllr et on an ; ' l “ant ll†al It“! hit [Hollis It'l\ â€it tuiienl prop-t is “I'lt' as genome as when she nas it healitr't illllllltll lM‘sl‘s lt it .it1iiittt tllll [tart til it». 1 1 groups 4»! trieiitls worktop together tit srtitleiit will) her tsliole llll' ahead or her ("1 tint-nit irriitxttlt lll 'tt lll'tlt' than lllll‘ l l llmtltdlw lttt llH‘Ir ttrgtltII/altttns â€tie ‘ she was lll\‘(ll\l‘ll iii the planning tit her i)\\ll tin-mortal Htlllllirl hill tititi rota the lllulll‘sl Ltlt til l_.a,,,_.‘, 7 7 __ 7} good example is the tip< noting “intuit; ] ‘ st'l\ll e A painted sell purtrmt was (’|\|)l.|\i'tl as limit ll'lt|)4rlt~ tnhmtwukm t,, t m x t“ HIt, “mm W.†stars lashion Show lot Ilospit e on i\prll i liitagiiiealhtiiti played throughout ihe\tsitatitiir m, , Wu p, , t , ni tn“ t. vita. “up†,,i tum,» lllll I D lot the past r’ll teats women iii out tommiiiim Paula‘s death whit h l struggled w‘lll)‘ made me think about males u'llsl when wit rotisitlt-r the llltlllllitlllf\ tol haw stepped lorwartl to raise more than $0,001") llll llt'“ most people list- their Iivesas il tlie\ re lll‘slllt iliIe We tend uiitet't ltoiirs retpiitisl lot high st liool graduation Mil ll’fll’" " “dell‘fl'W â€11410“ Imamne â€H" â€1?th l â€W†t tit ltml ourselves into l)t'll(‘\|l]g we are iii altsoliite ttirrtiol til irttit-errtiy ltltt‘.ltlt s ‘.tlltlt|ltll‘ ttirrllltllllIH and and work has on lltrsptros tiltllll\ todelnet their lree pro r out time here A diagnosis nl (ant er H1 ltlllt‘l lrle threateiitirp t lltl‘llt nt t Mitt h h. i t totes \> l‘. tint-taunt in lltl‘s niaiiittiinu to lartiilies Ill need ‘ t disease shatters these assumptions inittzlt t ritploxnietii t lllllttlt l ind itiit more about Nhittiiig Mats tot llospite at l (tn the upfotniiig ll) year (Illnlw'l'sdr‘s lll l‘aula‘s death In. l 4â€, 4,11,“ â€nun,“ “Hp NM w al ‘.,):A|m,‘,g“,,,t, \s\s\s hospit e\\.tterlii4i i a l'\t‘rll\i‘ see you there i reminded of how (let-ply emu hed l am to haw“ known her ‘lltt‘ til» lituixili. itii stililllll'il~ lllit the H. tlt‘lltl'i "‘ aiitlllowproudIremanttohaveheenherreather ll’lltlll lllrltll'. tits l’tll'lt‘tlltdlril\iilt|lll1‘4ls\\|rtt Aitreti Nturirsrlti in (ourtrlrrol Illt‘IrlIt'IlIRllUIM'H i °~ thatâ€, â€to“ than 1 ton ltirttri tn‘r w H t“ WWW†‘wltilittttt intt-rluirtlortirtdtt n'rorv'rirretirt tutmiillor l l UltrtlurIIlVirrtlrttirns-lrtriieit‘ritertiriiliutiil in†H, “in†r â€it out†t rtttttrttttttrt, New, hm“ ‘rtrirtmiemu/(herttrll'tristirtrih'ermrtliorrittr/ollme t ‘ [nun/(ttn'lrmmiitrtruthful/I trvtrtiu'ltrirrrurtlirirtt ri.t, i'l)1r|)‘trl ‘l‘l ‘.'tlllllltt‘r‘s tri ‘lll t ltit‘irllllllllll t] hero/i lllll/r‘ll"‘1l"'â€\tl/l†l ‘