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One of the you're getting mar- , if.†fé.;.__ he: ways to do this is to ried. and for many ‘W' ;. ‘3’ I ‘3. research the costs of couples. the biggest 31" g: f. if ‘:’~.‘ having a wedding by source of stress is - 11,5 if. “ “if: “if talking with friends how they intend to j 1:5 ’_ it; and family who have pay for it all. '7! 17. 1g 7’1 " already been mar- “We‘ve been argu- ., fl ' J§ , . 321-. ricd,orbytalk'lngtoa ing a little more than 4’ “ï¬g 3;- ‘ ‘ a ;. ï¬nancial adviaor. » a we used to. deï¬nitely a is at!“ , ‘. 2 ~ The second tip is ., w I a about money." said a ' .. - ' "" ‘m ' to have a discussion . Ciswanathan. who with anyone who . ‘ ».. 1 lives in Waterloo and works as a programmer may contribute to the budget. such as par- . "" , ' at Research in Motion. â€It's a balance ems or grandparents. and to establish how “ between what we need and what we want (in much each group will contribute. , the wedding)." “Commit to that budget to avoid carrying ~ . It's a problem that many couples debt over intomarrledllfefhecautioned. " encounter when they ï¬rst set out to plan He said when couples enter the planning their wedding how are they going to pay for stages of a wedding the majority tend to everything? Many rely on their parents or underestimate how quickly the costs can perhaps other family members to cover at add up. it's easy to allot for the big costs like least part of their costs. but (Ziswanathan renting the hall or paying the caterer. but the ~ and Kumar are going to try and pay for most smaller costs like personalized table settings j ofitthemseivea andunlquedecoratlonsadduplnahurry. SunUfaFlnancialadvisorMattWilhelmsaldfliereareï¬vekeytipsforcwpiestoavoldthe 1 'We wanted to pay for it out of our own 1hat's why it's important for couples to wedding bill blues and plan for their married life together. pocket rather than go into debt,‘ said build in an extra cushion of about 10 per ‘ (Iiswanathan. “The goal is to do it ourselves" cent, he said. cussion should take place before vows are tlnandal adviser who can guide them on the . “(Our parents) have offered to help with His third tip is for newly married couples even exchanged, he noted. path tocreatingavlable ï¬nancial plan. } some of the costs. but they haven't revealed to have what he calls the 'money talk,†Fourth. he encourages new couples to Clswanathan and Kumaragreed withWil- toushowmuch,‘addedKumar. whichglvesbothaideatheopportunity tobe livewidunflieirmeansespeclallywhenthey helm. and their one big tip to couples They are still in the early stages of wed- up front about spendinghablts ordebts. and are just starting out their lives together, and planning a wedding now is to try and . ding planning. but so far it is shaping up to ban thecouplewlll handle moneytogether. to establish savings programs in order to account forthose miscellaneousexpenses be a big event. 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