With a regularly scheduled visiting program} persons Do find yourself a marâ€" riage counselor before you get even more mixed up in your thinking. DEAR DORISâ€"Visiting the elderly, whether it be done by personal contact or teleâ€" phone, is a very important service that any of us regisâ€" tering any concern for our fellow human being can offer. Apart from alleviatâ€" ing loneliness and the fear of being ill and not found in time, many happy experiâ€" ences can be provided for both visitor and visited, in a constructive vein. A new educational venâ€" ture, a program of field studies at the University of‘ Waterloo will provide students with a living laâ€" boratory for observing the patterns and process of social organization. It has been designed for _ exâ€" perience and training in participant and nonâ€"particiâ€" pant observation, partly to observation, partly to stimulate the excitement of learning and scientific discovery in the realm of social relations â€" and structures. Field _ placements _ will range from the formal organization . of _ factory, hospital, school, and maâ€" gistrate‘s court to the inâ€" formal relations in family, dropâ€"in centre, and dorâ€" mitory. Systematic obserâ€" vation and recording of organizational and interâ€" personal activities will be U . of W. introduces living lab. program can‘t see it when you are washed up, I‘d say it is you who needs the professional help. In any case, it is imâ€" possible for me to sort out all the people and feelings involved from long distance, and with so little to go on. A This woman is in dire need of professional help, and maybe if she reads your colâ€" umn she may seek such help and realize her mistake in trying to hang onto him and save her marriage, because I do feel that it is I he wants still. DEAR â€" WOMANâ€"If â€" you At the beginning I had quite a strong hold on him and he just couldn‘t resist me and now, in the past few months, he has tossed me aside like a wornâ€"out shoe. He says I was ruining his marriage and that he still loves his wife and she is a real prize to take him back. I believe I am the one who is wronged, and I very much want to get him back. My husband had no objection to the friendship. DEAR DORISâ€"I became inâ€" volved with a married man who told me his wife did not understand him. On several occasions we were intimate. I‘m married, too, and his wife and I had â€" what I thought was a beautiful friendship until he broke down and told her of our sorâ€" did affair. Now she won‘t even look at me. Waterioo Chronicle, Thursday, August 12, 1971 The Other Woman Doris Clark Although at first prinâ€" cipally intended for social science _ students, it is hoped that in time the field studies program can serve interested students in other branches of highâ€" er learning. Plans for the future include the developâ€" ment of a training unit to assist communities strickâ€" en by disasters, so that students may, as useful participant â€" o bservers, learn at first hand how human beings and their organizations _ act â€" under conditions of stress derived from drastic change. H. David Kirk, profesâ€" sor of sociology, has been appointed to direct the program. The field studies office is located in Room 814, Arts Library. supplemented by reading and â€" seminar discussion. Academic credit will be given through the sociolâ€" ogy 324 course. Try writing one simple incident out in full, and subâ€" mit the sample, with your summary, to a prospective publisher. . The â€" Canadian Market List for Writers lists several possible ones. This list is available through the Canadian Authors Associaâ€" tion, 22 Yorkville Avenue, Toronto 5, Ontario. Ask for The Writers Guide: Cost: DEAR WONDERINGâ€" Not if he has asked her to write. If they haven‘t talked about it, she could venture a card first, telling him what she is doing and being sure her new address is readable. To Wouldâ€"Be Writer â€"There is plenty of drama in that upâ€" set childhood of yours, but could you write it? What you have given me is a fastâ€"movâ€" ing summary. A story would have to include conversaâ€" tion, incidents, some desâ€" cription of scenery. Some authors would think there was enough here for a book, handled properly. Let‘s hear from some of the other spots in Canada where volunteer visitors are organizing themselves into new â€" adventures in friendship. DEAR DORISâ€"If a girl goes away, is it improper to write to a boy she may like? If we can build in the attiâ€" tude that someone cares and in fact makes it work, then our elderly will get a tre mendous lift in spirit. One Who Works With The Aged DEAR ONEâ€"And that‘s for sure! I do believe more and more of us are seeing our eldâ€" erly friends as people, with personalities and feelings and a need for continuing interests. And with warm and â€" intriguing _ thoughts and ideas to contribute to mutual friendship! may read together, enjoy a walk in the park, or simply thrive on conversation. It can be a twoâ€"way street. We all realize the important element is the human conâ€" tact. Wondering Inglewood man heads ] Marsland Engineering _ _ Cabin camping for tots Safety stamps West Germany â€"recently issued four postage stamps on traffic safety topics. They deal with illegal passâ€" ing on the Autobahn; meetâ€" ing stationary objects on the roadway; keeping to the right of the road; crossing of high ways by pédestrians. There were 10 criminal charges laid, as well as five for liquor offences and two each for impaired driving and driving while under susâ€" pension. Five persons were injured last week in five of 10 acciâ€" dents investigated by the local provincial police deâ€" partment. Investigations were conducted into 97 other‘ occurrences. Property damage was esâ€" timated at $10,220 in the accidents. There were 142 traffic charges laid, 74 of them aâ€" rising from radar checks. The Kitchenerâ€"Waterloo YMCA camping department is organizing a camp at Lake Belwood for youngâ€" sters, five to nine years of age, Aug. 30 to Sept. 4. Designed to introduce youngsters to the camping life, it will provide them with cabins, complete with bunks and mattresses. Each cabin will be manned by two staff persons at all times. Registration will be limitâ€" ed to 70 campers who will share in rowing, fishing, crafts, campcraft and hikâ€" ing activities. . The company, founded in 1926 by Mr. Marsland‘s fathâ€" er, Stanley Marsland, owner of the Marsland Centre, is Waterloo‘s largest single inâ€" dustrial employer. It was sold 2% years ago to Leigh Instruments Ltd. of Carleâ€" ton Place. The new president was born in Kerwood, Ont. and is an honors graduate in busiâ€" Inglewood, Ont., took over last week as president and general manager of Marsâ€" land Engineering Ltd. He succeeds Lawrence H. (Larry) Marsland who re CA W ATERLOO FUELS Call Us for Installation of Furnaces, Burners and Boilers 24â€"HR. EMERGENCY SERVICE PHON E.J. (Jack) Pollock, 43, of 5 injured LIMITED 86 Erb West, Waterioo Phone 742â€"4419 Your Independent Distributor of Sunoco FUEL OIL, GASOLINE and DIESEL OIL Up to the end of July, 2,372 properties were listed for sale on Photo MLS, up slightly from 2,365 listings in the January â€" July period of 1970. The greater number of properties sold this year has raised the salesâ€"toâ€"listâ€" ings ratio to 42 percent in the 1971 period from 33 perâ€" cent in the first seven months of 1970. July sales advanced to $4,944,192 this year, comâ€" pared with $3,880,298 the same month a year ago. chery, water safety instrucâ€" folklore are other programs Photo Multiple Listing Service real estate sales in the Kitchenerâ€"Waterloo area rose 44 percent in the first seven months this year to $33,443,140 from $23,375,231 a year earlier, G.A. Ulmer, president of the Kitchenerâ€" Waterloo Real Estate Board Inc., reports. Marsland _ Engineering manufact ures electronic components. It has 700 emâ€" ployees. mute from his Inglewood home to Waterloo. He is married with two . sons and one daughter. with the Canadian General Electric Co. Ltd. for 21 years, during which he was Barrie marketing manager of the small appliance diviâ€" sion and Toronto general manager of the home enterâ€" tainment products division. 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