Does your nineâ€"yearâ€"old boy or ecacly â€"childhood is being behind? girl seom less close to you, now that You â€"smay ieen prepzcred for his being â€"more independent and less atâ€" fecciionats, but why does he someâ€" timos‘keem not so glad to be a memâ€" ber of your family? A study of schocl age children male stt Antinch collegs disclosed that many nineâ€"yearâ€"olds ask themâ€" e~lyvos these same questions concernâ€" ing their parents! Although they may squirm . out of your embrace and balk at kissing, when ycou follow their lead in discarding demonstrative afâ€" icction, it sets them wondering. Doe§ Mother live me less because she doesn‘t hug me when we say good night? â€"Does she love little sister more because sister sits on her lap? The way out of this dilemma is to tegin at five or six to find substiâ€" tutes for the kind of fondling little children love, yet substitutes that carry with them a sense of love and pride and pleasure in your child. A pat‘ on the back, a kiss blown up the staircase as child starts up to bed, TN# 7 ‘ PP P BP P P >A NC O PP P P P P O uP _ P P P B PP 2 e C a SMITH . ELSTON LIMITED â€"Plumbing and Heating Sheet Metal Air Conditioning and Oil Burners UNION BUS TERMINAL _ â€"NORTH BAY 393 TRIPS EACH WAY EVERY DAY . AEAVE NORTH BAY 9.40 A:M. 4.25 P.M. PHMONE 101â€"2â€"3 Standard Time 11.45 P.M. if invested with a deep sense of apâ€" proval can take the place of hugs and kisses when these begin to emâ€" karrass a boy or girl. However, many youngsters put on a shew of not likâ€" ing the very kind of affection they crave from you â€" so don‘t discard petting until you are sure a child no longer needs this closencss. Then, the Anticch study found out a comparatively simple rejection bothered school children â€" that of having their questions unanswere1i. Parents are so patient with voery young childrenâ€"helving them identiâ€" fy a horse or a car or an airplane hundreds cf times. But the school child‘s questions are too often brushed off, sometimes because parâ€" ents are embarrassed by not knowing the answers, or because the questions cre intimate. Are Mother and Dad no longer interested in me, don‘t they want to be bothered with me, the child asks himself. What to do? This ‘problem of how much freedom of decision to allow a child is at the core of all guidâ€" ance, so we can‘t recommend any simple solution. But the beginning of _ wisdom lies surely in studying your childlâ€"does he show too little desire ts act on his own? Then, he needs to be encouraged to break away from your guiding hand. Does he hove an independent mindâ€" which usually displays good judgment? Then letâ€"shim ‘set the rate at which he deâ€" cides things for himself. Is he too adâ€" ventrous, and a bit rash and thoughtâ€" less about what he attempts to do? Then, see that he hag stricter superâ€" vision even if he doesn‘t like it. If the fat in a broiling pan catches fire, turn off the flame or the heat immediately. Throw salt on the fire until the fat stops burnâ€" ing. Never use water. For this problem we recommend the good old custom cf consulting the dictionary or encyclopaedia, but with Junior right at hand to catch the hobit of looking up answers. Don‘t go off by yourself to bone up, trying to preserve a sense of parental inâ€" ial‘bilityâ€"finding thirgs cut togethâ€" er is one of the surest ways of buildâ€" ing companionship with your chil1. But perhaps the most unexpected searchers is that nineâ€"yearâ€"olds, desâ€" discovery made by the Antioch reâ€" pite their objections tc parental resâ€" trictions really don‘t like too much freedom _ Children often feel resentâ€" ful of parents when they themselves have done things they ~later regret. Why didn‘t Mother ‘keep me home the way Billy‘s mcther did, the r2â€" gretiul child is apt to feel after a disâ€" appointing adventure. By HELEN HALE Two glasses which have stuck toâ€" gether can easily be separated withâ€" out breaking the glasses if you will {il the inner glass with cold water and run hot water over the outer glass. When you nced kindling in an emergency, roll seversl sheets cf newspaper together and tie a knot in them. . After all, parents must provide the balance wheel. Household _Hints THE HOME MAAKER‘S â€"PAGE by HELEN HALE If your tlrimble is too large to stay on finger, wet finger befote inserting into the thimble. When suede shoes become scuffed in spots, rub gently with an emery board to help bring up the nap of the suede. Brush with a stiffâ€"bristled brush. Glass decanters are easily cleaned by plccing crushed egg shells in them with strong soap suds.. Shake well, then rinse. Separate stamps * which have stuck together by placing a thin sheets of paper over the stamps and running a warm iron ever them. RECIPE OF THE WEEK Fluffy Potato Pancakes (Serves 4) 2 cups grated potatoes 4 eggs, separated ; teaspoon baking powder 1 teaspoon salt 1 tablespoon fleur To prepare potatoes, pare and soak in cold water for 12 hours. Grate and drain thoroughly. Add egg yolks. salt, baking pcwder and flour. Beat well Fold in stiffly beaten egg whites. Drop by spoonfuls onto a wellâ€"greased skilâ€" let which has been heated. Brown on both sides. Serve with applesauce. ing" with panâ€"broawned potatoes, preâ€" cooked in their jackets, and plenty of hot csoffee on hand to satisfy extraâ€"hearty‘‘ appetites. Your family will enjoy the nobelty of a ‘"he‘p yourself" kitchen party. Make your next day meal planning that much simpler by preparing plenty of gravy to heat up and serve with the cold meat an easy soluâ€" Remcmber that gozrd food and origâ€" inality in service are the important "wmjusts" for a successful kitchen party. So, instead o° the usual platâ€" ter, serve the meat on a cuttingboard and let the guests make their own sandwiches. Tcmato slice:;, homeâ€" made relish, and an assortment of breads, complete the sasdwich "makâ€" * o P O 4@ C 4CAAA 4 4 4 4 4 4 T 4 4 4 ‘Oo’â€ooooo-‘é"“ow Croa e a S‘roin Tip roast for unâ€" usual kitchen service. It makes .°r casy clicing in that it is a boneless cut with just sufficient fat to add flavour and a protective cover for eslf basting while roasting. SIRLOIN TIP BEF ROAST FOR "HOMEY" KITCHEN SERVIC FOR "HOMEY" KITCHEN SERVICE By Martha Logan "Come into my kitchen", says the modern hostess, as proud of ner party setting as shc is of the ovenâ€"brown Sir.oin Tip Beef roast, specially planâ€" ned ‘or "homey" kitchen service. With new cabinets and brightâ€"colâ€"ured walls, the kitchen has become one of the most cheerful and livable rooms in the houseâ€"perfect for in the house perfect for informal family gatherâ€" Poetry The â€"Bank‘s liquid position was maintained with cash standing in the relation of 11.99% to public liabilities and quick assets totalling. $473,688,â€" 2 7, or 61.72% of the total public ilities. Over the year there was a m?derate reduction in‘ holdings of gavernment securitiés which now '.stdnq at $264,179,655.72 *Total profits the year amcunted fic> 4,705,724.1¢, after full provision Continued high activity and a greatly expanded banking service over the past year are the features underlying the Bank oï¬ Nova Scotia‘s 118th annual statement, published toâ€" day along with: an interesting and Euman story highlighting the importâ€" ant part the average Canadian deâ€" positor plays in the progress of his country. Evidence of the expansion in the Bank‘s operations can be seen in‘ the growth of its total assets which stcod at the end of the Benk‘s year at an allâ€"time high of $808,308,701 34, an increase of $56,692,854.94 over the figure shown in last year‘s statement. Sirloin,. Tip Beef Roast 0o Donpneps-Rare 15 to 20 minutes per pound approximate tota time, 2 hours, Intelral Temp. (Meat Thtrmomeuel) 140 dezrees F. Medium, 20 "to 25 minutes per pound; app. total time,â€"2% hours; mtemal temp., 160 degree; F.; .well done, 25 to 30 minâ€" utes per pound; app.,tota‘: time, 314 hours; internal.temp., 170 degrees F. marbl2 if you apply salt which has been moistened with lemon juice. Let the salt remain on the stain for an hour Bank of Nova Scotia Assets Record High Total loans at the year end were $340,401,597.93, an, increase of almost $47 millilon over ‘last year. Greatest factor in this‘increase is current loans in Canadaa, which are up $31 million. Deposits also reached a new high in the year, amounting to $749,190,264.43, an increase of over $69 million. Patent leather can be cleanâ€" ed with vaseline jelly and a soft flanne cloth. This treatment also prevents the leather from cracking. However, for an unb*anded sirloin roast, use the moist heat method of cocking, known as braising. In preâ€" prinz the meat, season and dip in filour, if desired. Then brown in ,a ‘mall amourt of fat, sover and cook slcwly ¢n top of the arnge or in a modéerate (325 degree F.) oven in a :mall cmount of water or other liquid. O ten siroin tip is cut up int> steaks but ysur dealer will usually have an uncut piece. So ask for top quality and use thie dry hcat or rsastâ€" ing method of cookery, Place the roast, fat side up on a rack in an cpen pan in a preheated slow oyen (325 degree; F.). Add ro water and do n~t cover. Since your meat therâ€" meomco esz is the only trur test of doneness, get into the habit of using one for all your meat roasting,. Use the, following chart as a guide in cookinz meat to the degree of doneâ€" ne‘s desu'ed Sirloin. Tip Beef Roast * rar bad and ‘doubtful debts. Out of this the Bank provided $402,412.97 for _dg)reciation, and $2,004,000 _ as estimated Deminion and Provincial kaxes. The higher level of profits and ixes thereon is in part a reflection of ‘the substantial increase in loans and also of â€"recoveries of a nonâ€"reâ€" curring nature to pricr In cooskimt cut, keep in mind twit only top quality meat is roasted. As a buy.ng> guide, purchase only meat to be roasted. y tion to the leftâ€"over problem years. â€" Dividends to shareholders, provision for a 30â€"centsâ€"perâ€" share extra distribution payable in Jantiary, 1950, left a net profit of $499¢.811.17 to be carried forward to the â€"Prcofit and Loss Account. The Belance in the and Loss Acâ€" count is now $2,837,024.99. / over the year amounted to $1.91 per share. This includes $1i 50 paid, or to be paid, to sharebkcliers as dividends. Last year‘s earnings per share amountsd 16 $1.67. 5 44 arâ€"effort to be a good listener. It was told me by Ma\'y Gocdness, Portland, Maine. This is a simple little story, but our livesâ€"yours and mineâ€"are made up mostly cf simple liittle things, and it is the way you handle the simple things that decides whether you are to be happy or unhappy. Miss Gocodness believed that being a good listener was an art in itself but she believed that few people had that ability. And she did not think of as cne of them She says she had as an example her own mother who not only listened courâ€" teously ts others, but she became abâ€" sorbedly interested. in what they had to hay, venturing only an ‘"oh" or an "ah" at the proper moment, whicn seemed always to spur to speaker on. She had often envied her mother this charming trait, but since she felt it was a naturzl trait in her mother it had néever occurred to her that it could be cultivated. She took as her objective one cerâ€" tain man whom she always had conâ€" sidered a bore. Getting him to talk wasn‘t difficult; this he was eager to do, particularly if he himseli{ were the subject. Miss Gcodness had in more than one instanc» talked with him ony‘y to find .that he was off in a world of his own, paying no cttenâ€" tion to what she was saying. At times he would bring his gaze back from the outer world to her to inâ€" terrupt with scme thought of his own, and not always revelant to the subâ€" ject at hand. It wasa‘t that he was discourteous,>â€" he was just absentâ€" mindedly coming back again, but alâ€" ways with his own interest foremost. Yes, he wruld be a splendld exampl2 for her test. Somewhere along the line she heard a spesker say that this was a trait that notâ€"only could be cultivated but that it was not in the ‘>ast difficult to cultivate it. So she set about findâ€" ing out for herself. So she forced hesrelf one day to listen to all he had to say, to listen closely, absorbedly, looking â€" for something in his remarks that would prove truly interesting: Much to Ifer amazement she found him very inâ€" terestmg Being very well read he _ Be A Good Listener HERE‘S AN EXPERIENCE born of rad given a great deal of thought to things that many pecple byâ€"pass entirely Says Miss Goodness, "Aside from karning how to listen, and finding out what being a good listener can mean. I made a friend of this person and never has my time been spent to greater advantage than the hour J gave to learning how to be a good listener." Consumption of woolen and wor ted cleth in Casnada in 1948 was 3.4 yards per capita.~â€" Quick Canadian Facts. Recipes PURITY PIONEER In China the first course of dlnmr is the dessert, Heliotherapy ‘is the treatment Of disease by sun baths, s Tobey‘s . 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