TRAVEL ENGAGEMENT and Mrs Donald Prince of Craighurst The wedding will take place Oct 30 at St Marys Roman Catholic Church ANN LANDEBS Check out doctor before counselling Dear Ann Landers Im in marriage that is not going well feel am not handling my life properly that my husband takes me for granted and am overreacting to my childrens problems Ive been thinking of seeing psychiatrist although two of my friends have told me to save my money Psychiatry did nothingfor them Last night ran across an article that said anyone who is con sidering therapy should shop around to make sure he or she can relate to the doctor The piece listed some questions the prospective patient should ask the therapist Here they are Where did you get your training What is your marital status How long have you been in practice What types of problems do you see What types do you like to see What types do you least like to see Do you routinely suggest physical examination before therapy begins How long on the average do you see someone What is your fee Do you charge for missed sessions How far ahead can cancel Ann do you believe person has the right to ask doctor these uestions if she is considering him as her therapist What if the octor refuses to answer Id like your thinkingotting Ready T0 Make The Move Dear Ready The selection of therapist is big decision The patient must have confidence and faith in the doctor The questions listed are good ones Ask them doctor who refused to answer every one of those questions would not rate very high with me Id shop till found one who answered openly and Without resentment Mr and Mrs William Gran tham of Barrie announce the engagement of their daugh ter Lori Ann to Barry Robert Prince son of Mr Dear Ann When read the letter from Why Me knew couldnt keep quiet any longer had to write too am homosexual male 24 years old was in therapy for three years at my mothers insistence and now am con vinced will never be straight Im not happy about the situation but can handle it The problem is my family Although my parents know no one else does My relatives are all ultraconservativespolitically socially and religionwise It would kill them if they knew that their brother nephew grandson or cousin was gay The news nearly destroyed my parents six years ago and Im not eager to put anyone else including myself through that hell again hate living lie dont want to deceive some nice woman marry her and produce children gays can you know just to please my family and cover up what really am unlike your other correspondent who asked Why Me am asking Why cant BE meNeed An Answer Dear Need As far as Im concerned you can would have no trouble accepting you as you are The question is do you have the courage to come out of the closet Others have Only you can make that decision Dear Ann Landers Im 20yearold college student who will have completed her senior year by June 1907 will also be get ting married to young man 23 He has highschool educa tion Lennie works very hard 5060 hours week as floor clerk in supermarket He is very ambitious and would like to get in to betterpaying field Len is good with motors and wants to be mechanic But several of my friends and relatives have warned me against marrying below my station They say Ill be ashamed of him when my vision clears and the stars are no longer in my eyes lam very much in love with Lennie and he loves me Ive told everyone who is against Lennie to go to hell Those snobs are not going to live my life Im determined to do what think is right for ME What do you say Brooklyn Dear Brook say you can do what you think is right without telling anyone to go to hell These days lot of mechanics make more money than PhDs Moreover any kind of honest labor is res ctable The world needs mechanics When car breaks own an an thropologist or psychologist isnt much help FALL FLING Fall Fling dance put on by Parents Without Partners will be held Nov at pm at the HiView Plaza The public is welcome JUST MOVED What you need right now is helping hand He sure to get in touch with the Welcome Wagon hostess She can help you get to know your new com munity as quickly as pos sible SERVICE 7261454 7284700 pm 7286331 Absence of funds blamed for lack VANCOUVER CP May ties Cutler of Montreal president of They give them to babies un Tundra Books says Canadians til theyre old enough to hold treat childrens books like rat crayon She said in an interview dur ing childrens literature con ference here that the absence of funds not lack of material is the reason so few childrens books are printed in Canada Canada is such backward countr and its so smu about its bac wardnessitsa ul It likes to say well were young Theres really no excuse whatever for its not producing proportionately as well as the nited States in creative works She said Tundra had been more fortunate in publishing childrens books than most other houses Mrs Cutler tur ned artist William Kureleks talents to childrens literature and now has ri hts to his books around the wor She also published two new PM WidelYécclaimed books bYThe Barrie Examiner Wednesday October 20 l9767 Ann Blades Mary of Mile l8 and Boy of Tache EXPENSIVE T0 PUBLISH Mrs Cutler said not many Canadians buy childrens books and they cost more to publish novel might cost $4000 to $6 000 to print quality childrens book cost up to $20000 with spe cial color presses and binding It costs us as much as an art book and what final price can we put on it $6 or $8 or even $10 which lot of people would con sider outrageous for childs book The art book would sell for $25 Mrs Cutler said the Canadian government spends some of its culture money foolishly mall ALL DAYALL IIGIIT DECOIIGESTAIIT DZOI 010 mllfllloml ull II NONSPRIN COLD CAPSULES Acetaminophen Io TABLETS NF son 99 00 20 FOR 323 exal HOT LEMON ALL DAY ADULT MULTIPLE POWDER FOR COWS VITAMINS 14 oz 397 10 pouch 99 PLUS IRON 100s COFTOII 110 9299 3002 8X3 FRUITS OF NATURE PROSHAVE NATURAL pH SIIAVING CREAM 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