Answers to three questions provide contentment for women In an age when the role of women in society is constantly challenged and everchanging Faith Crosby graduate of the Ontario Bible College and mother of four children says women need only find the an swers to three questions to find contentment Quoting the Old Testament Mrs Crosby told delegates to the second annual Women Alive conference at Georgian College Saturday to ask themselves Is it well with you Is it well with the husband Is it well with the child As woman she said that is where its at today with yourselves with your husbands and with your children Mrs Crosby said woman must be the sunshine of her familys home They must learn to recognize their faults and correct them The best way to make positive changes she said is through the word of God Mrs Crosby told the delegates she once had bad temper that made her family life difficult pull string and expect four children to snap to and my husband too if he happened to be in the way she said Mrs Crosby said she turned to the Bible to help solve her problems Only as Gods Word is in me she said can it change me BETTER PERSON Is your husband better person because he married you Mrs Crosby asked Do you bring out the best in him or do you bring out the worst Mrs Crosby told the delegates there are four essen tials which she called The Four As for happy husband Accept him she urged Nagging is the opposite to ac ceptance There are many better subtler ways to get the pointacross Women should admire their husbands Mrs Crosby said adding This is your husbands basic need Though some women claim admiration would go to their MYABETII GRAY fore ground left chats with Pat Maguire prior to addressing delegates to the second an nual Women Alive con husbands heads she reminded women that they promise in their marriage vows to admire their husbands Adapt to him she said Dont try to change him She advised wives to try and adapt to the things about their husbands that annoy them She also said wives should let their husbands know that they appreciate what they do for them Let Iiini know you ap preciate the money he gives ference at Georgian College Saturday morning Mrs Gray staff worker with Emmanuel Baptist Church in you to put lood on the table or buy new dress she said Respect between husbands and wives is also of parmouiit impo tance Mrs rsby said My husband would not share my weaknesses with anyone she said and sure wouldnt share his with someone else either IW YSSIBMIT In the final analysis Mrs rosby said God says the wife must always submit to the husband Welcome challenges as friends speaker urges those at seminar Only by learning to deal suc cessfully with everyday challenges can we grow more mature and closer to God Maybeth Gray speaking to delegates at the second annual Women Alive conference at Georgian College Saturday urged them not to resent challenges as intruders but welcome them as friends Welcome the trials that come into your life she said because they are part of the process of becoming mature Christian These trials may come in many forms Thildren may be difficult to live with at times or associates may slander you behind your back she said It is our reaction to these challenges she said which show our character How do you handle these situations she asked Are they making you more frustrated or are they making you more mat ure When children IlllSIJIIluVC Mrs Gray advised parents should not tell the child to sit down and listen to inc but should say sit down and tell me how you feel Try and draw your children out not by telling them what to do she said but by listening tothem Mrs Gray warned that the challenges will be difficult and God has set high standard by which He iudgcs our reactions Church architecture topic for historians Early samples of church ar chitecture will be the subject of speech given by Anthony Adamson author and ar chitectural authority to the Simcoe County Historical Assmiation meeting Feb at it pm at the Museum Mr Adamson is known for the recently published book Hallowed Walls Church Ar chitecture of tppcr anada by Marion Macltac to which he contributed Hc is also coauthor with MatRae of Ancestral Roof Domestic Architecture of hp pertanada He is chairman of the Ontario Heritage Foundations arch tectural committee PEOPLE AND PLACES SECOND MEETING The art of breast feeding and overcoming difficulties will be the subject of the meeting Feb 23 at 830 pm of the La leche League of Barrie The meeting at the home of Ronnie Ellis is the second meeting in series for nursing mothers For information call Tam17 or7Zl1570 CONSERVATION Conservation will be the sub ject of speech given Thursday at pm by Herman van Wesendeeck resource manager of Nottawasaga Conservation Authority to the Barrie Hor ticultural Society The meeting will be held in the Blue Flame Room Consumers Gas ARRIVES IIOME Mrs Smith of Barrie ar rived home Thursday from threeweek vacation in Fort lauderdale with her sonirrlaw and daughter Mr and Mrs Nixon HISTORY AVAILABLE history of Webstervillc is mw at the Simcoe County Ar chives Websterville is not on the map of Simcoe County but its history prompted Helen Hargravc member of the Simcoe County Historical Association to write the history based on notes of Alice Em mett Mrs Emmett donated the notes to the assumitition IlA LECIIE LEAGUE The arrival of the baby will be the subject of meeting of the La Leche League Feb at 10 at the home of Pat Whyer For information call waifi7 r7dll570 VALENTINES DAM Valentines Dan and but fct will be held Fob 12 at 830 pm at the South Innisfil omv munity Centre Iefroy The evening is sponsored by first the Churchill and district Beavers and Subs Tickets are $8 $30 DONATION St John Ambulance of Barrie has received $50 from Canadian Iampax it was announced at the groups regular meeting Activities for the group in cludc the Minifest at Minesing the Barrie Winter Carnival and the annual inspection in May VALENIINES PARTY valentines party and potluck luncheon will be held Feb 12 at noon at the Iarkvicw Centre for Senior Citizens Slides of the centres activities will be shown with dancing and gameslater BOTTLE DRIVE bottle drive will be held in the Stroud and St laiils area Feb by First Stroud Boy Scouts and Cubs Other activities in February include camp at Wildman Scout Camp Feb 12 church parade Feb 20 at St James United Church and camp at Wildman Feb 26 WOIIELOMEEIING The Central United Church Women Wohelo unit will meet Tuesday at pm at the church The theme discussed will he love PANCAKESUIIER pancake supper will be held Feb 22 on Shrovc Tuesday by members of St Georges Anglican Church Women it was announced at the recent meeting President Mrs Marg lowan announced officers for 1977 will be elected at the next meeting Feb It That high standard she said is best CXtIllIlIltfl by thrisi when He died on thc cross LLSklIlLitKltOfOItllyttllosiwllit mocked and killed Ii mi Only by choosing to follow hrlsts example Mrs Gray said can we measurc up to the staiidardGod has set for us Barrie spoke on the need for challenge in everyday life to build character and maturi ty Examiner photot ontrary to the feminist doc trinc she said submission does not make me doormat It allows me to respond However the husband must have the final say she said Wives are to be in sub jttlltlll to their husbands she said quoting the Bible The husband is still head over you Mrs rosby also had some advice for women on the problems of bringing up children lll the lliTtls Don be afraid guidelines she said Our children are ciying out for guidelines and no onc lS setting them Insist on courtesy and ex to set pect obedience she said fomc down hunt on moral issues tut she also urged parents to listen to their children What seems small to you are very ItilI problcms to them she said But parttits also should not be afraid to apologie when they make mstakcs with their children It doesnt make its small to say were sorry when we make Testing Does it makc its mistakes she said It more bitter or more likc clcyatcs its in thc iyis of our lirist children wryTIN llllIIll NOW BEAUTIFUL BACKGROUNDS oyo borbrfmI OR INDIVIDUALS llltiS Shooting Dates let All tipu Hahnu IItIIHthIIiII Iltrlllyltl lllvl mii 88¢ CHARGE OF $100 FOR EACH ADDITIONAL SUBJECT IN SAME FAMILY Wiiil Photographers Hours 10 am Ill 465 Hayfield SL Barrie and Orillin Square Shopping Centre Orillia itiibliiii tiivt littill thIIIlIII llfffHlI tt inuimtmtiii ion IIIIltlllllflItIIIIIIIIItllllltlftl llff1l GROUPS Ilium In Cl fltt lltlltln Ill1t Imiii IIIIIIIII not may Illl iitilitinilat toiiiiiml illlllllll itiIii liltiii il4 Itttll 6TheBleEitaminrer Tuesday Februaryll977 Other Appeals nti having trouble The Barrie and District United Appeal isnt the only one in Ontario having trouble reaching its goal Ed Mayhew Barrie chairman for the Cana dian Arthritis and Rheumatism Society CARS United Ap peal agency learned 1an week at Toronto meeting of regional CARS chairmen Mr Mayhew said CARS of ficials from across the province reported United Appeal pro blems in their areas The Barrie and District United Appeal ended its 1976 campaign with only about $106000 of its $163000 goal col lected Mr Mayhew said one strong United Appeal appears to be the one in Brantford Where permanent paid employee handles recordkeeping and similar duties and makes the appeal 12month operation He said he is heartened by rebuilding program instituted by Bert Cook chairman of the Barrie and District United Ap peals board of directors Mr Took has supported proposal to hire permanent campaign director The challenge in Barrie and elsewhere seems to be to get the community recommitted to the principle of the United way of giving Mr Mayhcw said He said he hopes for good turnout at the appeals annual meeting to provide involvement and ideas for the 1977 appeal District meetings set for Wis iii the county An officers conference of Womens Institutes will beheld May 35 at the University of Waterloo it was announced at the meeting of the Simcoe Area Womens Institutes The year it is open to con veners of family and consumer affairs citizenship and world affairs and education and cultural affairs District annual meetings scheduled are Simcoe East May 10 Simcoe south May 17 Museum site for displays Members of the Iluronia Spinners give demonstrations the first Saturday of every month at the Simcoe ounty Museum Also the Hiironia Rug Hooking raft Association demonstrates the last Saturday afternoon of each month In OIlJUlltllOIl with the Huronia Spinners series of wall plaques will be exhibited at the museum this month on theool Story The series will illustrate the types of wool obtained and its uses sturdy flat surface for your regular sewing needs For added convciiicn slant nccdlc design Visit your nearby Singer store today Ask about our liberal tradein allowance Credit terms available 00 stretchstitch machine offers you builtin 2stcp buttonholcr builtiii fashion and decorative stitches and other sewright Singer lc Simcoe north May 19 Simcoe West May 20 Simcoe Centre May 24 Simcoe Kempenfelt Mayal The Simcoe Area Womens Institutes convention will be held Nov l4 at Knox Presbyterian hurcli AIIiston with the theme Wisdom is MakiiiglhtBcstoflt Womens Institute Day at the Simcoe ouiity Mtisciim Wlll be held Ill October Mrs Donald lacobs provin cial board director said mem bers must sell Womens In stitiitc to the public by cori tuiumg volunteer work and by bcingopeii to new ideas There are 12m tiistitutc bran chcs in Ontario with Ztilttll members ItILf III ICS RDS IlltMttNlUN itli loan Ittlltlttlltt 115 of aigary has rcciixiil Amelia Earhart Fellowship Awards nmlal and grant Mrs nlllflllllt is the sccoiid woman It taiiaila to re ttlt the award and $4000 grant iwarilid yearly by Ziiiita Iiilcrnzitioiial to womcti of out slltllilllitl chaiactcr and hiin scholastic achievement in acro spacirclatciltitIds Only Singer giv sewmg su cc this talented IUS host of lllIICS PROF DONALD Redford of the University of Toronto chats with Doris Grant of Archeologist tells students about work in Middle East Monothcism as we know it today existed long before the Ilebrew concept says Prof Donald Redford archeologist Akhenaten rode roughshod over the feelings of the Egyp tians of the lay when he brought in his theory of nionothcism he told group of Georgian ollegc students last week atGcorgian Theatre King Akhenaten was revolutionary who reigned in 1309 He banished the many gods worshipptd at the tinic and replaced them with one god the sun god and he was his tlCSIlI£Illt on earth lrol Redford said This was just our of the many topics raised lll thc afternoon session Irof Itcdlord showed SIlflfS of an irihcological cx pcdition he led last year in Egypt Oni ol the finds of the ex pcdition he led was the foun dation of the tciople of King Akhenaten This has made Itr Redford internationally known The kind of work we did has never been done before he said Iatci III on intcryicw History has not told us much about the common IIgyptiairl only about thcrich hcsaid MIST SI IIV Irof Itcdfcrii is an or iimilogist in thc iiepartiiicut of liastcni Studies at the Iiiivcr sity of Toronto He met with staff of Gmrgimi follcge last dICilS An easy free arm for sewing cuffs sleeves and other hardtorcacli carrying case or cabinet extra Georgian College of Applied Arts and Technology after lecture to students last week year when the staff toured the Middle East We know so little about the common people And without that we dont have the whole historical picture Ilis slides showed the culture of the days before and after the reign of Akhenaten Ilc said prior to Akhenatens day men tried to be super jocks Strength was mans pride But when Akhenaten himSelf became king he was weak man somewhat deformed His physical peculiarities equalled his philosotihy llc promoted whole new art reflection of the existing culture lrof Redford said Illt of the most controversial examples was when be per llllllfll art depicting father showing affection to his infant son This was just before he said His concept of moiiothcism was that of sympathetic but distant god In fact Id say there was morc comparison between the polytheisni which existed before Akhenaten and the moiiotlicism we know today The gods then had more divine compassion hesaid MOSTSIMIIAR The most similar form of lllOllOtIlflSlll which exists today is Islam he said Doctrines are not done es you rface on one This isyour year fora Singer Fof Redford spoke about achaeology in Egypt tEx aiiner photot straihtforward It only now archmlogists are rucaling the whole history of thezorld he said He so charged writers such as VotQanikan and elikovsky for mileading the public with false tlorics Von Danikan was businesman who wrote CharlOLof the Gods with the concept hat all religion is for med ne basis that at one tune In ft past extraterrestial b01085 Vited earth and that religion dim memory of this Velikov5y professor at tributes atthe changes in the world to uch accidents as meteors faingtocarth They ju dont know what they are IiklnL about he said He plans return to the ex cavation in onr in May Then hop to find the tem ple of Akhenatq He also hop to find further correspondentmid records cut into clay till15 and thus reasons for Akhenaten monotheistic thtries LSE Wt tODK SPOON Stir cooking pitta frequently with wooden Ip0n instead of metal spoon which tends to break the stratls and encour ages thcni to stik together SINGER Sewing cntrcx and paititipaiiiiiz ppimcti Dealcis At Singer you get whai you pay for and little bit more indeinaik ul Siiiitci oiiiium ot tli ire mi Il iiitli tit GEORGIAN MALL BARN 7287960