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The Barrie Examiner Friday December 17 1976 Five generations of well younger daughter luiie FIVE GENERATIONS known Barrie and Orillia Mrs Roy laclsaac of tiril family are shown in this pic ture taken at Christie St Manor recently in Toronto The smiling gentleman at back looking as proud as any greatgrandfather has right to be is Walter Perkins of Ovenden Place Barrie Standing at left is his some 4000 marriages in ltritain over the last it years govern ment survey shows But this number is still coir sidered small in view ol the tact that more than halt million people have given their names to computers sir moo Compute ntlL never in tended to we marriage counr sellors said John Patterson the engineer who introduced computerdating in Britain It was intended as service to AN LAN DE ES Experts agree masturbation okay lia Seated at left Mrs Sarah Perkins 99 Wallys mother holding tier great greatgrandson Rudy llut ten beside the babys mother Mrs John llutten ot rillia daughter of luiie Perkins laclsaac Wally came to Barrie from Toronto lonely people ho anted tiieii ls To avoid suggestion ot marriage we called it liatcliiie lt Dateline happened to throw marriage partners to gether regarded it asa kind ot accidental bonus We lltt ltttllllliltlltlttl coiiiputeried ii troductions as basis ior niai riage thit ol the llll couples to marry attei being lllttllitllttitll llilEtlltltttl llityt siiice regretted it and separated 11 as Dear Ann Laiidcrs Please publish this letter tor all to so Masturbation is sintul tried it and the consequent es uteri tremely damaging It made me suspicions lumpy teartiil un kind and highly critical of everyonel came in contact with Because of this terrible habit my iiidgnieiit heeaiiic warped and lost out on many good tiplltillilillllts that ill iieur tttlllt again By praying great deal and llllziglllti in strenuous pliy ltftl exercise have regained my mental and spiritual balanci lain once again serene kind ready to smile and now can enjoy thi friendshipof people lleaseallow llitltililti my iiiesrawv ith Otherslearned From Ilyperieiice Dear Learned II this is the way you gom ex perience its all right with but there is no basis in tact tor the statements you have IlliHlt Masturbation is no longer considered slain by enlightened theologians And please dont tell me what the Itihli uiys illltllll Onan spilling his seed In those days the ol4l iiudid people and it was considered ii sin to waste sperm loday over population isoncol mankinds greatest piotileiiis The jumpiness leartulness and lost opportinnties you he lieve were caused by masturbation were actually due to your guilt teelings not the act Every psychologist and lgtxtlllilill with whom have consulted on the subject ot lllilwltllliitlltnl says it is normal and can serve as health method tor releasing tension It is estimated that approxnnately it per cent ot all males have masturbated at some time during their es and about per cent of the lemales have done so also For individuals who believe as you do howeyei inasturbzi tion is harmful because they cannot outgrow the notioir that were pounded into their heads as youngsters Dear Aim liandeis on 27 years old divorced and living With my mother have little girl three years ol age and boy four Their lather tell us two years ago and these children are very dear to my heart The man am going with says he loves me very tillltll but he as department foreman 50 years ago with larke and larke Ianneiy now Rob sonLang Leathers from which he retired several years ago He is best known in Barrie for his musical talent He has another daughter Betty Mrs Stan Shier of Melrose Ave Paul laggard lliotol Marriage was accidental bonus for dateline computer matches LONDON WI Computer dating has been responsible for it was tun at first the wile said as only it when we met iiiid my husband was 20 te got all kinds ot publicity and tor the lust year or so ll seemed ltlll lolxl Then we be gan to get on each others es and iiiarriaue became mockery Not so lor lane and William laisons ot tokmg Surrey lliiy mai ried si iiionths alter llltll computerized iii tiodiictioii lll too and now have threeihildrcn We 1i ed to light like cats and we still argue it good deal but basically we are well suited tlltl We are the pes lio woilld aruiieanyxtay illiam said Harold and Jamie latterson ot Silllillttll Surrey met by tlilillillltl lll ltititt They talked sewral times on the phone liked the mood of each others iiltts and arranged to meet in the loyei iii local movie theatre litllllt ltiltl llJiitiltl slit tollltl tie tcaimu ii miniskirt llll pink leather boots llaiold sported blue shirt with green pant littore the big teature wa til tbcj had kissed dis ereetly ill the back row and wetl later they announced theirciuietiiieiit an it was tour months he tore we vimiiivd lainie said This is an opportunity for you to participate in the development of the great City of Barrie The Striking Committee of the Council of the City of Barrie will be recommending appointments early in January 1977 to the following boards and commissions Wifebeaters sick but are treatable KITCHENER Ont CP Couples who have arguments that often lead to physical vio lence should learn techni ue for quelling violence cal ed harmavoidance says Kit chener psychologist Harmavoidance is backing off from the argumentleaving the scene if necessary says Dr Robert McKie president of the Ontario Psychological Associ artlions Private Practice Bran It also involves learning to express your point of view ver bally letting words be the weapons rather than fists or physical objects and learning how to get rid of anger at low levels Violence is an attempt to win an argument but there shouldnt be winlose situ ation he said There should be an interchange of ideas to try to find new methods of doing things that let both par ties get what they want Dr McKie who has seen large number of battered wives in his practice finds that most husbands who abuse their wives try to override their views by violence TOLERATE ABUSE Abused wives generally were submissive and tolerated the abuse When womens liberation came along they were persuaded they should stand up for themselves but ER MA BOMBECK they did not realize they had husbands who could not cope with anger and frustration Most women get battered by saying things to trigger their husbands anger usually while hes drunk In some cases of domestic as saults the victim syndrome is doubleedged he said The vic tim picks man who will cause her problems and frequently picks the wrong time to agree with him The wifebatter picks woman whom he knows he can victimize and she generally re sembles woman who has caused him rage in the past Dr McKie advised either the husband or wife who feels vio lent fight coming on to leave and go to motel or hotel for th night to allow time to cool of They should learn to ventilate hostility verbally and discuss what they like or dislike about each other with trusted friends so they can get feedback from others He said the victim should lay an assault charge and make it stick Patterns of violence should be seen as sickness on the part of both the victim and the batterer he said It is sick ness that needs to be treated and is treatable If it is not stopped it will likely get worse and may even lead to the death of the victim SAVE UP TO lQUIDAIlN Santa will be here every day till Christ mas Price 1444 SAVE UP TO Pet rocks Ktel now mating By ERMA BOMBECK Remember these wonderful people who brought you the Pet Rock in time for Christ mas giving last year Well theyre back again and this time its the Sand Breeding kit This one contains two glass Here in the nest You have to sit on em for 118 hours be fore they hatch Oh and these are good this yearthe Miracle Rocks They change color with your mood like the rings did last year As walked toward the door Superstars fullyillustrated easytoread the conversation training manual AS seen on TV at 599 The manual gives you how to hints on how to get your sand to breed and grow beach desert hardtofill lan dfill kitty litter or filler for hotel ashtiays Have you ever wondered what it would be like day after day to sell these faddies It Campe 1975 Department for Work she said disgustedly Price 99 lt mates and has pebbles Then there are the Horny stonescompletewithbooklet ldont want toseeitWhats this kit all about Lvo She showed me glass bowl complete with sand and rocks This is our invisible goldfish Its tune to call your test tubes filled with male ldiscovered something was and female sand along with smiling and had been during you interviewed salesperson at one of the local gift shops that carries complete line of these mind blowers How are the pet rocks mov ing asked her They slowed up bit after Christmas she said but the Stud rocks are going well How do the Stud rocks work asked How would Stud rock in mum unlabeled could make real yoyo out of bowl llcy wouldnt put my WelcomeWagon hostess finger in that bowl It contains the invisible piranha In stinctively pulled my hand or 7286331 out of the bowl and felt like fool This is new this year Its called the Dinosaur Eggs Where 1975Cotologue Price 729 Christmus Wrap ode in England RaggedyAnn or Andy 99¢ Bean Bag Dolls There will be free candy for the kids and tree draw cant stand my children Whenever Linda comes into the room he says to me Why dont you tell her to go somewhere and play He has never had coiiwrsation with either ot my children When Jell tried to crawl on his lap one day he was told let off youre taking the press out of my trousers tl admit that made me very sad He has been asking me to set date tor our wedding lint dont want to have second tailiire tin the other hand want home ot my own so bad can taste it keep telling inynelt hell get used to the kids alter Wt are married llcs peilert tttttpt forthisonetaultAnn lltuscatlvisc rlnlSidcd Dear In What do you mean lb5 pcrtcct except tor this one tault Its like sayinga person is in excellent health except for onesinall cancer It you want real trouble jllSl go ahead and marry man who cant stand your children Barrie Public Library Board Barrie Planning Board Barrie Market Committee Barrie Citizens Bond Barrie Industrial and Business Development Committee each and every night for 20 lb Christmas Turkey 911100 it if SHOPPERS Recreation Advisory Committee Committee of Adjustment Court of Revision Central Simcoe Area Planning Board Downtown Improvement Area Board Applications marked as to what board or commission an up New To Barrie HAIR ANALYSIS Our technician will analyze any mechanical or chemical damage with the use of microscope digital trichogram and repair hair damage with Neuclic Acids and Protein Call for on appointment pointment is desired with brief resume attached are requested from on individual or sponsored application with the consent of the proposed person attached and will be received by the undersigned to 500 pm December 31 1976 Bring in this When you present this coupon at Coupon the store you will be eligible to win an 8track Candle AMFM Stereo to Open 930 am till 900 pm be drawn December 24th 1976 every day except Sunday 40 Boytield Street beside Loblows Strauglwn City Clerk P0 Box 400 Barrie Ontario MM 415 House of Bellini The Hoircuttino Place BayfieldMull 7264621