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The Barrie Examiner Friday May 21 19767 ANN LANDERS Grandmas View at on new morality Dear Ann would like to respond to the mother who is so upset the new morality Kahli Gibran said it best children They are th Your children are not your sons and daughters of Lifes longing for itself They come THROUGH you but not FROM you And though the are with ou yet the belo em tyour ove but no ough You may ive they have heir own not to you oughts for ylour ts You may ouse their bodies but not their souls Their souls swell in the house of Tomorrow which you cannot visit not even in your dreams Y0u may strive to be hke them but seek not to make them hke yoii Life goes not backward nor tarries with yes terday Grandmother of Six Dear Grandmother Thank you for the beautiful response recogmze the essay from The Pro het which have not reread in many years suretonight sha do so for Dear Ann Whats the matter with me My head feels hke its numb Sometimes think Im in trance People can talk to me and even though hear them it doesnt ne ster en try to read newspaper or book cant concen trate have to go over the same sentence four or five times before it makes any sense The other eyemn small athering of friends was imvmg political cussion ere was marked dif ference in opinion One woman became upset and started to yell at me didnt realize had been insulted until 20 minutes later when began to recall what she said Im worried that cant respond fast enough to defend myself No wonder peo le ta should do Per lex Dear The first thing advantage of me What you should do is have com plete physicalincludinifia neurological examination If you et clean of health the problem must be anotiona If on cant afford therapist check with your local mental ealth centre and ask for an evaluation And please dont put it off Time is of the essence Dear Ann Landers Please tell me what are the duties clergymans wife am ex committee in town and am sic of it Last night was ted to serve on every Even list of 60 people to telephone et ill thinking about time Ill be spending on project at doesnt interest My home res nsibilities are heavy four children big house Sick mot er and have no time to do the things tha are essential feel am bein used because of my hisbands position need some so advice before have nervous breakdown Irate In Illinois Dear Stand up for your rights dear But first talk tins one over with your clergyman Dear Ann Lenders This morning received in the mail veryfancy engraved announcement of the adoption of bab girl was stunned adoption of child is highly personal thing Isnt it poor taste for parents to send out announcements Id like your opinion Flabber asted In Medicine Hat Dear Hat see no wrong with sending announce ments to close friends and relatives when baby is added to the family The fact that the child is adopted should make no difference whatever Foster mother to 50 hates saying goodbye OTTAWA Ont CP The hardest part of being foster parent is saying goodbye says Joan Jezegou who at 35 has fostered no less than 50 children Mrs Jezegou and her hus band John General Motors employee run household which is well thought out and organized The three ezegou youngsters aged 18 14 anc 11 are used to having foster children around because theyve grown up with them You cant help but get at tached to the kids you foster and saying goodbye is usually tough Mrs Jezegou said in an interview But thats all part of fostering because no matter how long you have the diild in year care you must realize someday he has to leave When Mrs Jezegou is not bling out cookies and K001 Aid shes in and out of the do ctors office having made enough impromptu trips to rate the nurses greetingNotyou again As foster mother she does not limit her home to so called normal children She and her husband have had number of both physically and mentally handicapped children one of whom still remains after five years GET ATTACHED Most children require spe cial care as leaving the natural home environment is traumatc experience she said You get attached to every child in different way Weve had up to four and five foster kids but one time but have never been without at least two People often say that it takes someone special to foster children but Mrs Jezegou is the first to point with your hosts Featuring and much more PAN READY Ocean Perch Uctapus FRANKS SEAFDUDS I96 Blake St Frank Rinnie Tecklenburg Halibut and Chips Salmon Shrimps Scallops Trout Red Spring Salmon Whitefish Sole Haddock Live Lobster 450 and up lCooked tree of charge Try Us for Friendly Efficient Service OPEN DAILY Ii AM7 PM FRI 119 SAT 118 SUN47 726937i Closed Mondays except Victoria Day open 11 am pm out that couldnt even do this without my husband and my own kids She said that when the Osh awa Family and Childrens Services telephone ter to tell her little bit about the back ground of the child they want the Jezegous to take we talk it over as whole family and to have my husband home en the worker brings the child on the customary replacement visit WANT TO HELP If she and her husband decide to take the child we hake him on the basis that we an be of some help but always as combined family effort Of the 50 children the Jezegou family have taken in to their care 22 have been in fants You remember them all some more than others she said You know in all those years there have been only me or two that we felt like saying Thank God hes gone Some you get really close wTI In her 10 years of fostering Mrs Jezegou has only had one break when she Olned her husband and their two eldest children in what she calls nodiaper camping trip last summer People can get much more than they realize from fostering she said Sure the sticky fingers and cookies are all part of the routine but in the end its rewarding way of life All you have to have to be foster parent is love THICKENS MIXTURES Two egg whites equal one half tablespoon of cornstarch or one tablespoon of flour in thickening power FRESH FISH BOWLING AWARDS PRESENTED Individual award winners in the womens Tuesday night league at Kempview Bowl are standing Anne Coombs low single Dorothy Rugman high single Aileen Hurtubise high triple Muriel Rupert high triple handicap sit ting Barb Lankin most improved Eleanor Fra lick high single handicap and Barb Dunsmore high average The league ban quet was held in the Legion Hall Examiner Photo Lamaze childbirth method brings fulfillment to parents OTTAWA CP On Nov 23 at 345 pm Julius Majerc zyk and his wfe Marcia who live on Chapel Street in Ot tawa utilized the Lamaze method 0d childbirth to bring their son Jesse Michael into theworld Push urged my wife keep pushing were almost there Marcia bore down hard and suddenly Jesse Michael was born Watching him emerge into the doctors arms felt the elation coach experiences when his team clinches hardfought series said Mr Majerczyk The Lamaze method devel oped in 1951 by French ob stetrician Fer and Lamaze emphasizes the involvement of the husband before and during delivery so ths couple can share in the experience as fulfilling event in their marriage said Nurse Bar bara Reid Mrs Reid is the teacher of the sixweek course in the La dmaze method introduced in to the Ottawa area last year by the OttawaHull Childbirth Education Association The Majerczyks were among the first couples to complete the course Mrs Reid said the course tries to give couples positive attitude toward chil dbirth and relieve their fears and apprehensions USE NONDRUG MEANS During the onceaweek sessions couples are trained in breathing and con centration techniques and other nondrug means of con trolling the various stages of childbirth early labor ad vanced labor and delivery Through neuromuscular the ex pectant mother is trained to relax her body during uterine contractions ho preserve her control exercises strength and control Husbands are taught ho role coaching their wives ap plying massage and timing play supporting contractions During our Dday for in stance constantly applied pressure to relieve pain in CHILDREN WRITE NIAGARA FALLS Ont CP Homestead Studio publishing company in Wood view Ont sponsors series of books written by children Stories from throughout 0n tario are submitted for publication and are read in where students select the ones which will be used in the Toronto schools books at this Free Film Night YOU ARE INVITED TO ATTEND OUR TRAVEL FILM NIGHT FEATURING GREAT BRITAIN Films and Travel Brochures ABOUT LONDON ENGLAND SCOTLAND Admission is Free You Are Our Guests Wednesday May 26 I916 700 pm CONSUMERS GAS BLUE FLAME ROOM 165 Ferris Lane Barrie Ont JOHNSON TRAVEL LTD 114 Dunlap St Barrie Ont Please phone our office at 7266525 to confirm your attendance Marcias back rocked her in my arms through severe contractions and applied cold compresses to her head said Mr Majerczyk If the mother wishes the birth is conducted without medication and anesthesia Mrs Reid said We dont claim women using the Lamaze method will ex perience painless childbirth Rather in spite of any pain the techniques will help them to remain in control of the situation We consider medication useful took in childbirth but its much further down our list than other aids like breathing techniques INHIBITMOTHER Mrs Reid says drugs anes thesia and forceps are used too much in most births and inhibit the mother from par ticipating actively in the birth of her own child Shortly before Jesse Mi chaels birth Dr Murray Erikin chief obstetrician at Hamiltons St Joseph Hospital told an Ottawa audience of childbirth spe cialists that the use of the epi With Interest Token ANNUALLY Member Canada Deposit Insurance Corporation WCTORM and GREY TRUST COMPANV SINCC 1839 MIKE BENVENUTI Manager LEO MIRTITSCH Accountant 35 Dunlop St 7371411 dura anesthetic administered to the overwhelming majority of women may slow labor drop the mothers blood pressure and affect the infants reflexes for several days after birth Id do it this way again any day said Mrs Majerc 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