6The Barrie Examiner Friday April NE Andy Nixon local oil painter shows sample of his work which will be on display ART TOUR April 24 for the art tour spon sored by the Georgian Foun dation Guild Mr Nixon who vï¬ï¬wiwwvwrwWW is teacher at Eastview Collegiate will show his work at the old firehall Examiner Photo Parents try to Win childs affection If child sighs with relief when his parents separate then it must have been unbearably bad before and shame on you for dragging him through the mess Malcolm Summers social worker with the Childrens Aid Society spoke on the effect of separation on children recently at the fourth in the Single Again Series sponsored by the Family Life Association and Parents Without Partners Before the separation there are often months or years before in which continual quarrelling makes an un pleasant home for the child Mr Summers said regardless of who is to blame isnt it too bad that the child has to go through this Several of those who attended who were single parents defen ded their position saying the reason for this is because most couples try sincerely to get along for the sake of the children Sure its too bad one man said but what is the alter native Mr Summers suggested that while it is not possible to shield the child from all friction could the parents not try to settle disputesprivately PEOPLE AND PLACES BALI BARRIE lhe Barrie Power Squadron is holding its annual Commanders Ball May at the Highview Plaza Allen dale Starting at 630 there will be cocktails dinner and ceremonies and dancing to the music of Sid Stark BARRIE Mrs Betty llun ler will show slides of the Dominican Republic at the next meeting oi the Royal Victoria Hospital aiiXiliary April it at in in the lecture room at the hospital Mrs Iliiiitcr worked with the liiistian Medical Society ISII BARRIE Mr and Mrs Ed lhompson spent the weekend Visiting their daiigller Mary Anne and her husband Wayne Wilson in Lively tlntario When they returned they brought back their daughter Barbie Lynn who spend the school Holiday there followup course in needlepoint is taking place now at the YMYWCA Jean NEEDLEPOINT Knox is giving an extended course in needlepoint to those who took the basic course in Here Jean Knox instructions to January gives Margaret Gray Examiner Photo Once parents are separated they often make mistakes in their efforts to win over the child The most common mistakes he said are such things as buying gifts or degrading the other parent The biggest mistake is treating him as your peer Mr Summers cautioned Dont try to relate to him as brother sister or make him feel like he has to be the man of the house child has to go through cer tain stages so he has to have the opportunity to be child In many cases the child shows indifference after separation This could be for many reasons He could feel he is guilty for his parents separation or he may simply be unaccustomed to ex pressing his feelings he said Its important that the child does express how he feels He should be encouraged to grieve Boys particularly grow up feeling they aren allowed to cry and this com plicates the situation further hesaid Next week Single Again will feature Dr George Soiiter president of the Barrie Mental Health Association The meeting will start at 730 at Barrie Central Collegiate DRAW BARRIE Linda McGowan of 87 Wellington St won the electric blanket at the Bayview hapter Order of the Eastern Star draw held recently tlier wmncrs were Mrs Rid dell who won two hooked plaques and John Moore who won needlepoint pillow BIIIIY UNIESI BARRIE The Dutch anadian Enicrtamiiient lub is holding special Beauty Queen ontcst April to from it io to IE io ai the Embassy Hall on Blake Street Music by The ibrations panel oi tables will select the Queen For intorniation call Don Koop mans Tllttizï¬l John Roubos Till 315 or Tony lltllllSlllit 726 Jllt IIItISIIiNINi llllILISlth Mr and Mrs loscph Mlnnings Leitha and Rita attended christening of Nicole Frances daughter of Mr and Mrs Del Irancom of Toronto IlfIIIr IIlttltNlth Don and Bessie Bone returned home March lit from holiday in Las Vegas ISIIDRS NEW LHWELL Mr Mrs Paul Moiikliousc family and Mrs Monklioiisc met Mrs Linda Richardson ana Liza oi iistialia at tlieloroiito airport Saturday IIASIER PAUEANI tlthSIUWN ookstown liiitcd hurch Women are presenting an Easter pageant April called The ross which starts at in at the church and and Erasers first in team play at bridge club In teamvof foiir play at Jeans Duplicate Bridge lub Wed iicsday evening the team of Hazel and Roy Eraser Win onder and Glady Reid took fir st place ininngall found their matches The team of Scottie and Russell hurch and Jean and Ray Schnarr placed second followed by Marg Powell Maud Matcalfe Jail Reed and Nellie Schnell in third place Doctor urges more activity for kids to cut down on prevalent obesity TORONTO Doctors nur ses nutritionists and North Americans generally are ob sessed with obesity because of de rooted social prejudice agxist the obese of all ages ac cor ing to Dr Richard Gold blo of Dalhousie University inHalifax Addressing the Kellogg Nutrition Symposium in Toron to recently on Obesity in Childhood Dr Goldbloom said our bias was rationalized by invoking inadequately documented risks to health without really knowing whether obesity is the cause or merely the companion of those widely advertised risks Even worse he continued we are unable to offer to the obese treatment that has been proven effective or to the potentially obese similarly validated means of prevention Dr Goldbloom Professor and Head of the Department of Pediatrics at Dalhousie Univer sity and IhysicianinChief of Isaak Walton Killam Hospital for Children cited three other factors which hamper the development of rational per spective of childhood obesity Instead of accepting obesity as complex result of various genetic metabolic neuroanatomic or psychological disorders there is tendency to regard it as single phenomenon or disease of calorie imbalance Secondly there is lack of detailed scientific un derstanding of the mechanisms by which obesity develops Thirdly both the scientific and lay communities tend to instant extrapolation of isolated scientific observations to provide quick answers to the prevention or treatment of the obese state without adequate proof If we are to be completely honest with ourselves we might accept the proposition that much of our expressed con cern about obesity reflects strong social in ejudice against the obese at least as much as it reflects genuine concern for the possible effects of obesity on health Dr Goldbloom said What is the evidence for this socal prejudice It is generally agreed today that the emotional rpoblems ex perienced by obese children like the associated metabolic disturbances are the result rather than the cause of the obesestate The poor sellesteem oi many obese adolescents is well documented and in my opinion is the aspect of the problem most in need of help Dr Gold bloom stated We still have great deal to learn about obesity before we are in position to pronounce convincingly on its causes risks treatment or prevention The relationship of feeding pat terns in early infants to the later development of obesity is unclear and at present it seems approprite to avoid dogma and retain flexible attitude about such questions as when to iii troduce solid foods in the infant diet remembering the con siderable spectrum in in dividual needs and the variation in social cir cumstances that also affect le ree Stalin such decisions Dr Goldbloom recommended significant increase in daily calorie expenditure by all children as means to reduce the prevalence and severity of obesity It would also beiicfil the health of the entire population Clearly such change must occur through the school system If every child in Canada were to spend one hour of school time each day in vigorous organized physical ac tivity it is conceivable that the prevalence of obesity might be lessened to some extent and the general level of health and fit ness would improved CUSTOM MADE DBAPERIES and BEDSPIIEAIIS Total Decorator and Coordinating Services Choose from an outstanding selection of excellent quality materials and patterns from Canadas finest suppliers Personal service on large or small enquiries Tracking and installation as required Phone HHS noninmon or drop in to the Studio RR1 Hwy 93 at Crown Hill Only Milan North of Barrie But even if such program were implemented the need to foster within society greater acceptance of and respect for individual variation will remain RESTAURANT TAVERN MA LtLM WHATS IN NAME BIG lRll LAKE nt Iv As far as George Nothr ing and his family are con cerned name means nothing Mr Nothing who lives on an In Iiaii reserve in this isolated community 4oo miles north of Thunder Bay nt said he doesnt know how the unusual iiamc originated We have just had it ior some generations SUMMERS NIN SIARIS LlB LUNDDN tint itP Sister St Patrick director of the St Josephs Hospital detoxification centre has star ted this citys only non alcoholic nonprofit social clul Known as the Dry Dock lub it is open to anyone 18 and over No alcohol or drugs nor anyone under the influence of alcohol or drugs will be allowed into the club Local potters art in Toronto ShOW The work of two local artists was on display recently in Toronto at Excellence in the Making craft show by mem bers of the Crafts Collaborative which was held in the Gallery at First Canadian Place Roger Kerslake teacher at Georgian College and Robin Potter are wellknow potters who have achieved recognition in the fields of crafts in Canada Mr Hopper studied at Croydon College of Art in England before coming to Canada in 1968 After teaching in Toronto and running small studio he moved to llillsdale to set up new ceramics depart ment at Georgian College Barrie Mr Hopper resigned from teaching in 1973 to devote full time to his pottery He works mainly in porcelain using different surface enrich ment techniques Mr Hopper has shown his work widely in cluding international craft exhibitions He began as printmaker with etching engraving and lithography and then switched to ceramics in 1956 Essentially simplifed in develop surfaces in form much the same way as print maker sometimes overlaying up to five separate glazes to achieve the depth of surface and color want see myself as colorist in ceramic form and materials Mr Kerslake was educated at Newton Abbot School of Art and Goldsmiths College University of London In England he has been part time and fulltime lecturer in ceramics He came to Canada in 1970 and taught at the Cen tral Technical School Toronto before accepting position as head of ceramics at Georgian College His work will be sen April 24 as part of the art tour sponsored by the Georgian Foundation Guild believe the craft should not be understated in teaching its control through handbuilding and careful consideration for color is the baSlS for my per sonal work and these con Siderations are the grounds for my teaching Tickets for the tour April 24 may be obtained from guild members or at Stephens Mens Wear ENGAGEMENT Mr and Mrs Brent of 117 Napier St wish to an nouncc the engagement of their daughter Mary Elizabeth Brent to Donald Kenneth Harvey son of Mr and Mrs Harvey of DuckA worth Street The wedding will take place May at 430 pm at ollier Street United Church Favero Photo lhc cougar patrol of lost Barrie Scouts has been collecting store tapes to make moch for sending PEOPLE PLACES MISSIONARY SOCIETY RUGBY Mrs Nelson Joliiistoiie of rillia will be hostess of the next meeting of the Womens Missionary Socie ty and Ladies Aid of Esson Presbyterian hurch April at pm Mrs Albert Horne and Mrs Allan Shelswell are pro gram conveners Enioy fine dining and friendly atmosphere at the Com lorno Restaurant Iv Tavern Youll be glad you did Open 12 noon l0 pm days week Fully licenced under the LLILO BOY SCOUTS their boys to 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