6The Barrie Examiner Wednesday March 24 I976 St John United Church Women in Elmvale have been taking orders for Easter eggs and making them from scratch Proceeds raised EASTER BUNNY IN SIGHT from the effort will be divided between the church and third world missions Here fiveyearold Jenny Campbell and twoyearold Jimmy Parnell look over tempting tray of goodies Examiner Photo SLIDES BARRIE Joan Graham showed slides of India recently at the meeting of Painswick Womens Institute SINGLE AGAIN BARRIE Summers family counsellor with the Childrens Aid Society will discuss the affect of separation on the children March 30 at 730 at Barrie Central Collegiate This will be fourth in series of the Single Again lectures spon sored by the Family Life Association VISIT BARRIE Mr and Mrs William Hutchinson returned from vacation in the West In dies TRIP BARRIE Dr and Mrs Jack Thompson recently retur ned from trip to Jamaica VACATION BARRIE Mrs Inez Mc Sherry and her daughter en joyed their trip to Florida recently RUMMAGE SALE BARRIE St Giles Anglican Church women are holding rummage sale March 213 from am to pm at the church oti Cook Street Spring clothing and odds and ends will be featured BINGO The Knights of Columbus holds bingo every Thursday night at 730 at the Embassy Hall on Blake Street with over $500 in prizes ODDFELLOWS BAHRle Mrs Emma Gar ner of entral United Church convened social evening for the members of the ddfellows llome Refreshments were provided by Mrs Bertha Jory Mrs Phyllis Coulter and Mrs Louise Morley Residents played bingo DUNAIIONS BAItltlE Donations for the remembrance fund are being accepted to buy life saving equipment for the ltoyal Vic toria Hospital Purchases made Grief process is necessary for developing futureities By ROSEANNE MCCABE How we develop relationships in the future depends on how we look at past relationships ac cording to Bruce Gennings supervisor of Barrie Com munity and Social Services Speaking to about 50 who last night attended the third in the series of Single Again lectures sponsored by the Family Life Association Mr Gennings stressed the need for person to face reality about his past before he can again become in volved with the present In any loss of relationship whether it is through divorce separation or death person goes through an emotional process or grief process said the former Childrens Aid worker and staff member of Royal Victoria Hospital psychiatric unit The first step of the process is denial he said couple may refuse to admit there is problem Anger follows denial when the person is hit with the reality of the situation He is enraged with his or her partner in marriage or in the death of loved one fate Depression marks the with drawal of the individual he passively accepts the situation He lacks enthusiasm to carry on with life and can seldom be coaxed out of it Mr Gen nings said This is one of the areas where counsellor can be little more than good listener You cant stimulate person in this state As therapist you assault the person by telling him Youll get over it Other people have You just have to respect him Although you cant change their feelings you may help them understand in tellectually where theyre at Then at least they have time on their side Hopefully the person passes from depression into state of genuine acceptance of their misfortune They realize they are still alive Ideally the person achieves sense of hope as the final stage of the grief process Mr Gen nings said The person becomes futureoriented They realize they have lost one relationship but are capable of loving and beingloved again Having gone through these five stages the person can start new relationships Sometimes people get stuck in one stage and this stunts relationship development Some people will become overly suspicious or cynical as they enter into new relation ships This can become self fulfilling prophecy It wont work because they are sure its going to fail This results from lack of trust marital crisis is twice as hard to take because partners feel they have failed They seldom seek intervention In this relationship crisis person needs to talk his problem out Mr Gennings said The ultimate paradox in marital problem is that the per son they should and probably want to talk to is the person they are separating from Next week Summers from the Simcoe County Childrens Aid will discuss the effect of separation on children This starts at 730 at Barrie Central Collegiate Panel will discuss asthma in children Respiratory diseases in children will be studied by area health care personnel at one day seminar to be presented April in Jrillia by the Health Sciences Division of Georgian College Seminar leader will be rillia Pediatrician Dr Edward Cor mode assisted by Mrs Shirley Holcomb Program Co ordinator of the Georgian Bay Lung Association The seminar designed for all those working with children with respiratory problems will be held from am to pm at Holiday Inn rillia Advance 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