*OPINION 878-2341 O t u ,o 5 u Toronéo Lb.e 321-3837 k.Fo- 8d3- anOie Pula* nhO*toAdvaiiaia: 873-3300 Wê.m.u im Nom Ollat AéwlqDfr«oo maum ~ a NOMs Oum E*w" o .U U W dd Kaa oto m ad.au.w Smg bu teh Jou umb &&or- Titi Ces. 011e àmi«o -W lu il te qvub lm1f P TIa Cal. PPO&aciea.ua. O.iVb a *Completing an off-the-wall paint job lest year ai this tinte t wmu giving my nea dip à brand ne, point job. 1 * neer actudaly rmnastmod. t did run out of peint. if dut couros for anythmng. Though t roux admit dut t ncver dii rn ou cf watt, or ceiling, or domr or cdge wor*. No, il', possible wo argue dut I dhdn't stop (or sutding more duon a res. aomcmhing in die range cf 10 nmmhs kday, an cxtcndcd rest, but à rega none-dwmS Hey. painting is tougli woek. mndi1 wu afroid du du omaliglt of WaM wedmwSd tMuREAUME t 1 rirs noticed dut l'il A VIEW nmin lismod dme job _______________ ,ficn I reaicid du place necdod à fcw icucli-upa. So now it's out w lte hauidware mmn for a Utile peini. op<r wo tic psycholcgist for à tule niolivation and mway we go. Maybc white 1'm at L l'it gct vound wo hanging thion claiu domt t1oo down lm ycr in aticiphion of acuttly applying peinlo lhdeu. tCmowig my timck tike 1 do. lrive smi tdu hadw*e mmie ind dua il goNd, largest point iuufact ure a diac e d Fia Wbite Lae= No. once ie worid's mon popuLar point Sw, mt ecm àmovelty Wmn Ibis malimmi my posiion àsma umpoiM nimber of du Mmmpby'a La quaily conuoi depotent. Shîmgey, due existence of du (oct l'va neyer mwe a lIa, in due application of due Mupby Law prodmet lMm. ,ould mic to sunast, dit due Law dwemit amy eu Of ai f mmdi. litng ini muSdy romg widhin a gime symmun thon aiomr MSffhy'a La la m applicable, lit upobot being tht Mlurphy', La l, dieperfect uiauement of reality. lis prniesc udofy mot only obanvabl plaiomunu but ode widil due suricturcs cf haclf. Even pavlîy lia difaculty witil ihatone. t'Ve oflen dicught i du opplication of grovity w panting would b.. elicicet mdmod frina labour perspective, ocovei àspcimc allt su- hace Yeu rody a numbcr of pointers. boaed lapon ati surface art-, dbm;s (tins lite prcp.cd point neu lte top of the uace to be covered As d paire rns down due watl gmotgicmtly aiualcd pointera brustt i in variously nocenary directions. Known a du Spiasb and Dit rmieutisl by necaiiy quick. messy in due banda of an amateur and point intensive. And beoua due systent wilt ciUber ode. or mot wosk, k nicans l'il neyer bav wo poinot again andin dut way la connot fait fro n u purpoée. Ne, aIL 1 havew do la match bigb aid low, fer aid wide for due elusve Flot Wbile Là=e No. 1. Pertps in aune rcswate town dbm dmn forgot. cu cf dis mlicle wne,will bc ntackcd mcaty bilo, dripping cuis of Murphy's 011 Somp., tipon openins te point tins oit sop ahi mimigli itscbanialzy aimb du hm tocapions cf wbite point lofi on due plsset lopalauce a peinu dixt cheais i- self fron die amafceaomnmydu app< IL No, dut would Lie jou my tuck- àrosi olf-dto-va poil-job A recipe for securng How do you hm&dl Éit ars c d wmmi. thâaw Wen evitable in a niarniage? lim are confiiss mn eviii' ntarage. about; wo utiould chai oliat. ttcgw discipline chlldre. ,ma wo sperwd your tiard-emtmud fmoney on, or Pit1iq you dos't to your spouse enough. mcver lti you'S "deue" thougbtsanmd feclingt or you're mci sociable onougil at Parti Hafily mauled people bave dieu confits 00. yet duey amie thappy' Ho,'? fIco diffaumie betwion dmni aurai "disheued" and "mndLmueud" meiallapa smia ila - m pan due lodkinds ci uumellmes tou m ewbondie lna Umm dune confluct. ame lmn Many différent stylea or ccping ontegi are cou- dey ed mihtly unod ucli oc u possible 0"Seciking advlce" - aubng due ndvice of friemda, aolvlmg du porenta or ei"ves about how It alom la a Mat- hua. dte;i specifica * "*Emotna dicaclge" - leumE off mmn by yetl- fonm al ing. almduug. slaung docu. et. ~ coniporlso * "Positive comipaWwn" - you compçus youc m- found ini riage Io adim couples aho ae line dupe (iein cliae r ignoting or denyillg ycur on problenta); .ieresin 0 *'Nego"iton" - srying wo iad a fait compromtise aire bath tirougit discussion MWd givc-utd-take; eigao 0 "Rcsignsiiom" - keep yoùE hart feelings Io your- opinsisti oif ve upon die caof ig tcagetigs; . minof de * "Sciceve tgnoing" - my w ignote ay diuflicaldia botter byf and diink only about due gocd Ihings. yen don'ti Whicli cf tltec ame effcctive amd roduce srcas? Wlmicit lmp il silo ocos are imeffoctive or iutcroa m? uuss ln't uenlly A trcnt itudy in du JaurnaI of Maila aid Family blissr sce lmpy tricd ta find oui wlidi mcltods cf coping ame lie tk uwd in distrcsacd as cppumd wo ànmWreued mat- communiai naea. Distrcssd couplcs aie dmco dix ralod dlii - duti ma mortinai loar ibhm avouagli, reprsqUd more conflicis prove du n bais idu rocui iooed dut dimoemd coues confident about solving msarriete culoao I tvdor ignmtd;MI 1 prb sms mcis ai d my lad ieauvey poor Miales for Wprobleis wileu diey diii bave in del ali ll. ui murge dllfeaedid dlsem" Iiteumd couples - megotiio. positive seu md tldos. No chat différences ame oms f aillactive igmrmg entmloau dis- -ki &MM s'y. optiniuti ccuposonu amd megodadion mmeaie widi bauw mettent dWaru.t while wus aoimd widhilnemnni duo Yet. comporisana ,auld mm w intimide ai dle- ni or lgnorlng du ptcbleu - Yom m filet "adsm cdii couples Who ne acase :F but really molvi ycur prablonis. Or do you? Per- aapeople wo rtdink due situftioum.dmcudin&g a problem ai ai, or ilnt mitportaU la duo une f dtin «o cou ow odmat pooplie) ai lium la Io han ne, effective Êill - ud.Ialmila. migo""titic 1laî socil itelle y hep yen wo mlve dicl tisoblemt end i-. ctaosmp. Performing. on the road with fora àui dmut. WIut me,aà pfarMi? Forget il. Camyon rSding. My cme and oWAy dm mIma lives h ________ mm"toa la à vemlrloqul" fwltit i u nirt _ iattent Wlgnd lier ufor a iekcmd of tiss HOMEFRONT smos in actemn Caurie~_________ My situer, en oddiy, no doubt. bouasai du cmu cm n car mot noms how *i tw NmW a~owM iuuw a isa Misd ou. recruld my d.cwlsiq sevices for redm btl ao w mou; ped n dFIUy thos dayn Ho, cciii 1 refue niy favimila bp l M of almy Mis *M tmo commmuuty ba lIma welconod et ab a alUoM lumeumo dmdy bin Mmu Ib W-aod ceevad pubqn loi. (fl ie- mma a d b i .roicpa fkmr havi a lt of aiia) Dudoud midi ApafaIl, uo beishh*homoamvt.1 ppesani poixu. we ,obamIL monidfu woomcmli bavoue m picy i nie f«r du naiages. My dmaa wu *ylegop ul but- iom'*M m Oc wua m puaso a y Wefileo flollsi in my mu&ne And I am't ves*MoWWsie d u ai* a sont. Slse cve de ls diam forcPPonwie. i.mupi bar pur cul àad plhm *body my ventriloquist sister croaded ,itm en dél mçrigbt piano, o Chtuistmas urs aid a Mounlain or presacta. Sho draggcd cvii àao toablme ad pooioned il in front of du plafomn Since 1 w mas famm itia ahm t -up routine (adi I an afhr att. coly du datif feur>. t kola Out of lbu ay, eving a bodygund for Poi duews popuo dmp curicus clikmllumer= t oascli Il mum b. diffild for a perfommor we proec due 8IG Acl Suaé Cloua. et course, wu duo Lu, ive ad lia out dus posens a sconn aMy aioler si pi0 up bit shmo. Aimodur rman for Mi pieformimi. I like 1 r.i abat I8 ( Or. h9 Wt COsncu. MY aiMe hid uquuao a microphonmo lImai du cotti ai- t b ler jcket btied. du emied .mp alili flior mlcropmom dt limW a b mould bave dlnootved la mms but dmi mot- icMi Om. ALta hie 111ca. McM m lcm m a U avalais. lm »a t wus du expiu w dmcbitvoire? Thai fooay-lnmi m o mot" a tg of me. espoclally at die ecmcluodn alio I Ule wn nmomur My Lisse vu orthe d parkimg lka ,liire tle acrivait (ptoNuy due jally cld mambimSlf) Whadihed m là. Wt% han àmigltu wnecmersé belons boudins off ta ais at desaithe u b*tah alier, a"m of a Srequ et baued, exhoM emiployoea aho culht ,lt 10 hu" du coM, eiy Ckdm pat ffl uI aftdam mme&s lim cdIre Wse o@nly acabme %b fia show of due day wu a due"- ç=lrcs Ho, du at biIdes akdq ce du flow at du trous afie up amilota vers expcied o A d o n is alimoa*à" wm militait about mvtmg fuiu . yf Sn b.d conmersatons tai peseta outbu dama, cudin Mdpop au boyas ML Admi Moud bitbuimi km &Ms putu pSt My aisa, tg wu di la a &ay'$ a&t Sitel usiocutoI Il. W* tia mmdmg- -V 01 a - 00 1