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Oakville Beaver, 11 Mar 2011, p. 18

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Students can be hindered by the plague of perfectionismShame fills me when High achievers learn People exist who believe that anything GRADEI'm even half a point off. from the journey of attain- 12, T. A. BLAKELOCK H.S.short of 100 per cent is unacceptable, that Surely, I could have done ing excellence and are mistakes equate failure and that achieving better. Simple writing driven by their own ener-eing perfect is impossible. People perfection will ultimately make them happy. massignments become gy and ambition. ake mistakes all the time; it is in They're called perfectionists. I am one of BHerculean tasks, as edit-Perfectionists, on the our nature.these people. ing takes hours. This very other hand, focus only on If this is true, however, then why do As a straight-A student with impressive article has gone through the result and are fuelled some of us attempt to vault over such an study habits, I have no reason at all to worry three stages of revision, by fear.unachievable goal? Why do we set ourselves about tests, but I probably fret over them and even then, I'm not For me, perfection on a up for disappointment?more than all of my friends combined. Nsatisfied.test is a cause for relief, owadays, it seems that our best is never My stomach knots itself regardless of the I've been trying to not celebration, but not good enough what a hypocritical state-form of evaluation. Quiz or exam, assign-ment. How can change this attitude and all perfectionists have the you do better than your ment or presentation, I'm terrified that my replace it with positivity. same standards or ideals. best?mark will not be a perfect score. Still, it is a constant strug-While some, like me, gle to ignore that little seek flawless grades, oth-voice of perfectionism ers may desire to resemble ATTENTION WOMEN WITH TYPE 2 DIABETESway. My seven-year-old self wasWtelling me that nothing I models in magazines. e are enrolling adult women volunteers to participate in a clinicalmuch happier than I am now. Overever do is done well Regardless, perfectionism research study of an investigational oral diabetes medication.the years, however, I felt increasingenough.is unhealthy and stressful. pressure to 'do well' and the closer IYou may be eligible if:I wish I had the atti-It makes me shaky and was to perfect marks, the less satis-tude of a high achiever emotionally fragile. You have Type 2 Diabetes (adult onset diabetes)fied I was with my achievementsinstead. I wasn't always this because I was just out of reach of You are 55-80 years of age'happiness.' Your blood sugar is not at target levels after at least Perfectionists are not born, they three months of diet and exerciseare bred. Negative pressure at earlyORstages in life from role models, par- Your blood sugar is not at target levels after three ticularly parents and teachers, months of treatment with one or more anti-diabetes teaches children their best isn't themedicationsbest. I also blame the media for con-For more information, please call:1-866-666-3329stantly bombarding us with ideas of European Engineering Combined** If eligible to participate, you will be seen by a study doctor and will receive study-related testing and study medication at no cost.what people 'should' be modelsIf enrolled, you may be reimbursed for parking and travel expenses.WithTraditionalWorkmanshipwith 'perfect' bodies, millionaireswith 'perfect' financial situationsand celebrities with 'perfect' careers.These standards should not beexpected of people. They just makeus dissatisfied with ourselves.Success does not equate perfec-Building on thetion, for perfection does not trulyBrightest Ideas Around Glassexist. 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