www.oakvillebeaver.com · OAKVILLE BEAVER Friday, July 16, 2010 · 38 DR. RAYMOND CHODZINSKI `In one of the stars I shall be living In one of them I shall be laughing l Forthcoming Marriages l Obituaries CALDWELL, Marianne (nee Rourke) - Peacefully on Friday, July 9, 2010 in Oakville, Ontario. Marianne endured a two year battle with bone cancer quietly and with great dignity. Beloved wife of the late Hilton Caldwell. Cherished mother of Elaine, Paul (Antonietta Palumbo) and Sheila (Andrew McKerrow) and loving grandm o t h e r o f H e a t h e r, I a n , K a t h e r i n e , Isla, Madeleine, Emma, Sophia, and Luke. She will be sadly missed by family and friends. A memorial service will be held on July 19th, 1:00 PM, at Walton Memorial United Church (2489 Lakeshore Road West, Oakville). Memorial donations may be made to Walton Memorial United Church. Email condolences may be made through www.koprivataylor.com l In Memoriams And so it will be as if all the stars Were laughing When you look at the sky at night' - The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupéry It is with profound sadness that we mourn Ray's passing earlier this month at the Carpenter Hospice in Burlington, Ontario. He has left the legacy of a rich and passionate life, lived with laughter, compassion, vibrant wit, encouragement, extraordinary wisdom and love. Whilst we grieve with a deep sense of loss, we realize that we have been privileged to have known and been touched by this truly unique man, whose diverse and far reaching skills, interests and immense talents have left an indelible imprint on all who knew him and he will remain forever with us and in our hearts. He understood how we are all connected and that no single person is more important than another that each brings gifts and delights to enrich our individual, collective and unconscious experience of the world. Ray reached and touched so many individuals over the years, and imparted to each and every one of them a sense of hope, kindness, love, spiritual goodness, friendship, faith, fulfillment and understanding. Amongst friends, there seldom seemed to be an occasion without exhilarating and spirited dialogue on all manner of topics or meaningful and frank discussions characterized by a shared sense of mutual trust and freedom to speak one's mind. Guided by his sharp and inquiring mind, Ray steered our conversations to the kernel of any issue he would listen intently, analytically, and compassionately, and, with strategic questioning, would demystify and clarify the subjects of life's conundrums whilst supporting and promoting and championing the various causes of his circle of friends. These same generous attitudes are evident in his stunning photographic images. One has only to look closely at his photographic subjects or to stand back and take a more universal view, to touch upon Ray's unique genius a sympathetic and insightful distillation of the true essence of a person, place or of the human condition. His greatest sadness was that he was leaving behind his beloved Ann. These two wonderful people achieved the nearly impossible task of maintaining two completely and delightfully distinct and powerful identities and personalities, while keeping their personal connection to each other inextricably intact. Ann was the most special person in his life, and he in hers. Ray navigated the final stage of his journey at the Carpenter Hospice where he was afforded respect, kindness, dignity and unending care and affection from the staff and volunteers. As many of you are aware, Ray derived great pleasure and comfort from working in his garden and in connecting with nature. The Hospice uses the image of a butterfly as its figurative symbol, and Ray felt a deeply personal connection with this as a metaphor for his own life. Memorial donations in lieu of flowers would be appreciated by Ray's family and may be directed to The Carpenter Hospice at www.thecarpenterhospice. com - proceeds will be dedicated to the planting of a Butterfly Garden on the property. It was Ray's wish that there be no funeral service. Personal recollections and memories may be sent to PO Box 177, 1235 Fairview Street, Burlington, Ontario. L7S 2K9 Now is the time to light the vesper candles of the soul for their flame shall illuminate this sacred place. Now is the time to rest in the blanket of the soil, for the earth shall support and embrace you. Now is the time to dry the tears, for the Spirit shall comfort and console you. Now is the time to hear the lullaby of the wind over the land for you shall be rocked in the soothing comfort of its rhythm. Now is the time to close your eyes and let sleep come, for the Spirit shall keep tender vigil as God has called your name to come home. Pam and Don Meirowski of Kitchener and Bev and Malcolm Benn of Oakville are proud to announce the upcoming marriage of their children, JOHN MALCOLM - 1950-2010 Too suddenly you were taken from me, my son. Missing you now and always, love from your mother, Margaret and Bruce Beckett. The wedding will take place July 31, 2010 in Kitchener, and the couple will reside in Bermuda. Wishing you a life filled with much love and happiness. Congratulations! SARAH MEIROWSKI & STEPHEN BENN l Anniversaries BLACK, Beatrice Helen; (retired Director of Housekeeping, Oakville Trafalger Hospital) Very peacefully on Wednesday, July 14, 2010, at Oakville Trafalger Hospital. Beatrice, beloved wife of Sandy for 59 years. Dear mother of Bill and wife Lorraine, and Sandy and wife Kathryn. Dear Gran of Stephen, Ashley, Natalie, Kevin, Chris, and Great Grandmother of Amanda and Adrianna . Survived by sisters Norah, Etta, and Helen. Cremation has taken place. A Memorial Gathering will take place Monday, July 20, from 7-9 pm. at DODSWORTH AND BROWN FUNERAL HOME-BURLINGTON CHAPEL, 2241 New St (at Drury Lane). In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Canadian Cancer Society. IN MEMORY January 21, 1935 - July 19, 2009 You soared to heaven with dignity and grace and found peace. Precious memories of a beloved husband, father, brother and brother-in-law who brought so much love and happiness into our lives and into the lives of all he touched. Always remembered for his kindness, concern for others and great humour. Missed more than words can ever express. Forever loved, Marion and Russell DO NOT NOT THINK OF ME AS GONE, I AM WITH YOU STILL IN EACH NEW DAWN ERIC SHAW HAPPY 50th ANNIVERSARY! Bill & Ursula (Youngberg) Fearnley July 16, 2010 Love all the girls, son-in-laws & grandkids! xoxoxo The Oakville Beaver would like to express sincere and heart-felt condolences to those who have lost their loved ones. community notices Lessons l Lifetimes POOLSIDE SWIMMING LESSONS All levels offered up to Bronze Cross. Fully licensed & insured, Your pool or ours. Bronte area 905-827-0463 and you will receive a voucher for of your baby's precious hand or footprint ($25.00 value) compliments of: FAST service, FAX your classified ads. 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