c16 tribune novjsmb1sk z 1s8s fflorkville dmim straight talk on sex for teens mtiwartsuw conrjwousirtflmj oimtirfcitoqocu mt ia raw parting tjt now playing 0 the accused showtimes 700 915 warning sexual content not suitable lor children 1153 by kate gilderdale no punches were pulled while dealing with the pitfalls of premarital sex on sunday when beverley hadland confronted young church members at a meeting speaking before teenagers at a gormley missionary church youth evening ms hadland caught the audiences attention from the start mixing humor empathy and realism in her presentation teenagers are very special to me said ms hadland who has 0 patty hearst the true story showtimes 720 93c wjsmjs warring course language 0 a fish called wanda showtimes 440 710 920 warning course language 0si the kiss showtimes 145 415 715 925 jjgjfesh warning horror not suitable for children notice of proposed purchase and request for submissions green gables manor nursing home project 16588 pursuant to the nursing homes act notice is hereby given of the intent of green gables manor inc to surrender its nursing home licence and gerald harquail to apply for a new nursing home licence respecting green gables manor nursing home stouf fville oral and written submissions concerning the proposed purchase of the nursing home may be presented at a public meeting to be held on wednesday december 71988 at 130 pm at the united church davis room 34 church street stouf fville ontario submissions may also be sent to the director nursing homes 8ranch ontario ministry of health 15 overlea blvd 5th floor toronto ontario m4h 1a9 416 9631038 by december 7 1988 please mark the name of the nursing home and the project number on submissions the director will consider all submissions prior to appoving the proposed purchase ministry of health ontario elinor caplan minister travelled extensively in canada and the us talking to high school students about premarital sex it was a young teenage girl who showed jesus to me when 1 was the boss in a fast food restaurant until then she was a radical leatherclad feminist whose favorite form of transportation was her motorcycle and who shunned close relationships i was looking for someone to say youre special i love you but i got more lost and angry looking for love in the arms of men she said she learned the hard way that casual sex was no substitute for a lasting relationship you have to understand who created sex she insisted god isnt trying to rip you off and stop you having a good time hes try ing to protect you if you choose to be sexually active before mar- riage youll reap the consequences ms hadland had the audience laughing when she told them her presentation to high school students was called hang on to your hormones parents you dont unders tand the pressure teenagers are going through she argued theyre bombarded with im ages promoting sex she warned that young women and men have very different at titudes girls use sex to get canadian 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dolailspteasoinquireatyournearcslsearsstoro notallitcmsavailabloinanstorescopyrightcanada 1988 love men play at love to get sex when she was 17 she was told i to be responsible and use birth control being responsible is waiting until you get married to have sex said ms hadland are you willing to recognize that sex equals babies she asked she recalled talking to a group of students and asking them how they would rate birth control that was 90 per cent effective they all thought that was good but look at the same thing another way she said would you get into your school bus if it said this bus crashes 10 per cent of the time but its the 90 per cent that sells the product they birth control manufac turers are not concerned about your welfare and your happiness theyre concerned about the dollar she said citing the ex ample of intrauterine devices iuds they knew the iud was harmful to women before they took it off the market if youre too young to be a parent youre too young to go all the way at age 18 finding herself preg- nant with a boyfriend who was unwilling to support her ms hadland went to her doctor he said no problem get an abortion she said and along with emotional pain she said there are physical risks one in five girls who have abortions cant have children later on she noted sex is a gift you can give to your husband or wife said ms hadland do you want to give something youve given to everyone else it isnt special anymore before the sexual revolution there were five sexually transmitted diseases she pointed out now we have 27 aids is a killer god created us to have one sexual partner if we have more our immune system starts to break down the girl who changed ms hadlands attitude turned me around so that im a christian to day i had broken every com mandment in the bible i didnt think anybody cared about me she said her young friends caring and understanding helped her come to terms with life and to realize what shed been missing ms hadland has abandoned her lucrative business interests to devote more time to public speaking and in addition to tour ing she has presented her message on television and video this year she will address bet ween 50000 and 70000 young peo ple across north america high news speaker at school by andrea grundy sdss columnist s on oct 26 our gymnasium was full the students listened intently to a speaker whos nobodys fool doug kooy is his name his message is quite clear at first its depressing but later could bring cheer he spoke of images and choices things that we cant avoid he gave a specific answer and some students were annoyed the issues that lie covered were rock sex and drugs he made us think thats not the way its better to have love his stories were true happenings things that are very sad we could hear the sorrow in his voice t and sense the grief lie had j he told us of his past way of life j and the way that drugs destroyed he was feeling the confusion soj much that with his mind he toyed doug kooys life was one of paint and a lot of sorrow but that is now all in the past and he sees and eternal tomorrow in the midst of his talk he mentioned suicide he told us not to give up to carry a sense of pride throughout the assembly he had the attention of all doug did not preach at us he gave us the choice to stand j straight or fall the end of the meeting was near j mr kooy wasnt near the end he shortened his talk for the sake of us and an open ear he did lend mr bright went up and thanked him j and we gave him the spartan cheer almost everyone liked him and enjoyed having him here g at the end of the meeting he mentioned a close friend whom he trusts who is the friend you may ask the name revealed was jesus i