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c14 tribune april 29 1987 live for present plan for dr ed meade is a registered psychologist and director of the markham stouffville family life centre la this column he answers questions from readers covering a wide scope of prob lems q i am over 70 and after a happy married life my husband recent ly died my friends and even my relatives tell me i should move but i dont want to how do i deal with the pressure a a home is full of fond memories and pleasant associations by leaving your home you will be ex periencing a second loss is there a part of your home that could successfully be rented without a loss of privacy it is best to live the present and plan for the future if you shop around now for a suitable place for your needs your name can go on the waiting list for future con- paper drive m by markham scouts pickup date may 2 next pick up date june 6 no magazines please please tie paper in bundles and have paper at curb by 900 am or drop off at markham art centre church street at rear thank you for your valued support sponsored by mill paper fibres mm c0meh0me70 comfort with p lennox central air conditioning why suffer through another hot humid summer lennox central air conditioning can keep your whole house cool and com fortable and costs less to own and operate than any other system it provides years of energyefficient quiet troublefree perfor mance while adding to the resale value of your home call your lennox man today if you dont have lennox you must have money to burn biemfatfa3shplas financed by the fgjj royal bank al interest rales below pnmc 7 lennox air conditioningheating your independent lennox dealer is 7528351 heating 1l n tfree winter t itioning air conditk a omtton ofunfgm nlc tt i w 1496 midland avenue scarborough ontario m1p3b9 phone7528351 mil iihiiiii wmi hlllmhiiiir sideration there is no harm in planning for the future in this way we have a wonderful home sup port service for seniors 2944240 in the markham area and our pub lic health service 8814240 is top- notch these services are de signed to assist people in your cir cumstances in the meantime tell your well- meaning friends and relatives that you are enjoying your home and are planning for the future the value of your home is not like ly to decrease especially with the predictedgrowth in our area q up until last year i used to sleep with almost any guy who wanted me im 22 now and ive been dating this really sweet guy for six months he doesnt know anything about my past if he ever found out im sure he would dump me im so paranoid about losing him that i try to keep my old friends away from him once i even pretended i was sick in a res taurant so we could leave before an old boyfriend saw me i have changed my ways but please dont tell me that i should spill my guts about the past he would never feel the same way about me again a i entirely agree with you that your past is your own life you have no need to spill your guts ab out the past at the same time you would want to be open about some of your growing up experiences you might find it a strain to block out from your relationship all of the 22 years of life which you have experienced you describe this man as though he were a knight in shining armor if he is as snow white as a friend in meade i 2 ed jucjs you describe him to be perhaps there will be some difficulties in your expectations of one another my hunch is that you both could relax with each other benefit from past you have apparently turned your life around and at the same time you appear to be very hard on yourself i suggest you relax your experience with men can be a benefit to you i think you have a lot to give him or some other young man once you learn to accept yourself forgive yourself for your past and move forward with confidence perhaps in changing you have gone to the opposite extreme with your new approach to life you will make new friends are you attempting to change without accepting the consequences of a previous lifestyle with time old acquaintances will fade away but in the meantime if your friend dumps you he probably isnt worth your staying with him q im jealous of my older sister who is always drawing praise from our parents for her success in school and sports how should i go about getting a little more of the recognition i feel i deserve for my own accomplishments a people have different learning progressive conservative riding association notice of nomination meeting place date time chimo hotel 7095 woodbine ave markham thursday may 14 1987 meeting at 730 pm registration from 700 pm to 830 pm membership eligibility to vote valid 1 987 memberships purchased on or before may 7 1987 members purchasing memberships after may 7 1987 or at the door are welcome to attend although not eligible to vote we dont say our cakes are the best our customers do mothers day cake special for your special mothers day cake made with delicious buttercream please phone a 77 izciczt to order 4 duo the stonemill bakehouse where cakes become a dream 14 main st unionville styles and the style of theoretical and intellectual is most often re warded in formal education you may be a person that learns by practical application or by doing things it sounds to me that your accomplishments may reflect artistic or craftoriented activi ties the difficulty you are ex periencing with your parents is common in a society where for mal education is so geared to a particular style of learning find recognition you cannot change your pa rents but you can learn to find rec- ognition through your accom plishments i suggest that you find organizations or clubs which reflect your personal interests there appears to be changes in formal educational settings where we see high schools in volved in giving more recognition to artistic expression such as un ionville high school have you talked to your sister and parents about this dr meade welcomes your ques tions if your response is pub lished name and identity will be withheld please direct your ques tions to the markham stouffville family life centre 113 main st markham l3p1x9 takenoticethatapublicmeetingofthe liquor licence board of ontario will be held at the liquor licence board of ontario 55 lakeshore boulevard east toronto ontario on monday may 11th 1987atthehourofll00oclock in the forenoon at which time the board will hear applications in accordance with the liquor licence act and regulations hereunder the following establishments have applied tor a licence of the class indicated and the applications will be entertained at theafore- montioncd location and time applications for new licence alden restaurant 431 alden road unit 2 markham dining lounge licence applicant vranchidis investments ltd gormley centre restaurant town of whitchurchstouffville northeast corner of woodbine avenue stouffville side road rr it 1 gormley dining room licence applicant gormley centre restaurant ltd noble house country club 398 ferrier street markham dining lounge licence applicant noble house country club inc trykos driveinn markham part lot 17conc 8 hwy 48 16th line markham dining lounge licence applicant el toro steak house bobcaygeon limited application for additional licence which will be heard at approximately 200 pm pizia delight 4580 hwy 7 east unit ii 1 markham patio licence licencee loganberry restaurant enterprises inc and further take notice that any person who is resident in the municipality and who wishes to make representation relative to the application shall make their submission to the board in writing prior to the date of the hearing or in person at the time and place of the hearing copies of written submissions will be forwarded to the applicant liquor licence board of ontario 55 lakeshore boulevard east toronto ontaiio m5e 1a4 ministry of consumer and commercial relations the liquor licence act